Hi Nairalanders,

i met this girl weeks ago, she gave me her phone number and we communicate at night oftenly, she sometimes plead that i should be calling her everyday cos she likes the way i make her feel during night calls.

Sometimes i surprise her with gifts, she says thank you and calls me regularly. We chat on line and she expresses herself truely to me, though we have met, chat and she usually visits my working place, loving every thing i do and recently wanted to follow me to service.

The reason of posting this topic is for my fellow nairalanders to advice me on what to do, i even wanted to xpress my feelings to her, but recently she told me she has a guy and that the guy stays in her hometown that is Ondo so i need your advice.

Dear, u better watch out.
I guess she have seen you have a bright future financially and can support her financial need. Do not be surprise if she start asking you of your wife/fiancee/girlfriend. She may likely edge them out and start looking for a permanent space in your heart.
If you are ok with her, u can go to any length.

I think you should take things slowly, she might just be feeling lonely, since her guy is far away and your near, you might just be a standby.

The way she seems to be all over you, there might be ulterior motives, but don't jump into conclusions. just don't rush anything, try to find out more about her before you go expressing your undying and unfailing love to her.

Leave her alone now and stop spending on her. If she says she has a man then backoff.

Its very possible that she’s only using u!

haba.from ur sex indicator u r female. why are u asking usto advice u about a fellow female. u b lesbian. take time.

haba.from ur sex indicator u r female. why are u asking us to advice u about a fellow female. u b lesbian. take time.