pleep: Of course rapists are obsessed with sex, no one is disputing that. We are talking about dating. If you can only attract men who only want sex then you need to look at yourself. You are the common denominator in that situation.

There are plenty of men who are willing to forgo sex for whatever reason, its not even hard to find.

What balderdash is she saying?

ℓ☺ℓ! Kulyie, no offense but you're spewing utter rubbish... That is all...

Ryabcool: ℓ☺ℓ! Kulyie, no offense but you're spewing utter rubbish... That is all...

yea right,and yes,u are entitled to your opinion like everyone else on nairaland

NigeriaKitchen:


Now this nullifies the Nigerian girls' general rule of: Let's be friends before dating. So guys can u see the reason why you shouldn't befriend a girl you want to date cos it won't work the moment you accept to be her just friend.


If she refuses to accept you and asks that let u guys be friends first, be rest assured that the possibility of she agreeing to a date YOU is 0.000001.

lmao, funny but true...its called the "FRIENDS ZONE" ,,,, FREE - ENDS!. lol

Flashaldrin: Men are such sexx-beasts! Not every girl out there wants to date or tangle. Some are just looking for friendship. Kapish!

MARRY ME NOW NOW PLS... only if all male think like this...

Dolly-Parton:


MARRY ME NOW NOW PLS... only if all male think like this...

You want friendship abi? then why is your profile a picture of your a$$ not your face?

Abeg get out of here.

pleep: You want friendship abi? then why is your profile a picture of your a$$ not your face?

Abeg get out of here.

Hahahahahha

pleep: Ever since i started talking to women the instant they start that hard to get crap i ignore them. permanently. no more texts, nothing

If all of u niggas did this, the ladies would stop playin games

But then you'd probably be the first to call her cheap if she gave it up so easily.

True2myself24:

But then you'd probably be the first to call her cheap if she gave it up so easily.

I'm not talking about fuckin sex, im talking about dating! Why do u ladies accuse us of only thinking about sex when sex is all you are trying to offer.

What man would call a chick easy because she responds to his texts prompty and has decent reciprochal converstation? Nigerian women exist in a bubble

Dolly-Parton:


MARRY ME NOW NOW PLS... only if all male think like this...

And u think all men are guilty of the nonsense he said?

dmcdad:
And u think all men are guilty of the nonsense he said?

I don't know who to blame. Society, culture, religion....... The list goes on

True2myself24:

But then you'd probably be the first to call her cheap if she gave it up so easily.

do u think its the wooing process that makes her cheap or not? Its when they are together in the relationship that will determine how cheap she is.

I do worse than @pleep. I dnt take shît from any gurl, cuz I knw I ain't cheap. Y should I kill myself over one bîtch when u should be the one dying to get a gem like me?

^^
yimu!

Aafulenu:

my dear true talk!!!!!

let the friends be friends and the toasters be toasters from the onset, not tryin to form friendship while looking for a way to toast.

Another school of thought has it that it is sensible to be friend with a girl first before wooing her. Why are ladies not consistent with how they want to be wooed?

^^
Because girls are different. What works for one, won't work for a million others....
It's not rocket science.

pleep: You want friendship abi? then why is your profile a picture of your a$$ not your face?

Abeg get out of here.

NO!
I dont wanna be your friend!
And No!
My post wasnt directed at you.

lola.luv:
^^
Because girls are different. What works for one, won't work for a million others....
It's not rocket science.

then the girls have to keep quiet and allow the guys to adopt whatever strategy they think would work for them instead of making it seem like one would have to study a particular manual before wooing them.

.

boron10:
then the girls have to keep quiet and allow the guys to adopt whatever strategy they think would work for them instead of making it seem like one would have to study a particular manual before wooing them.

dafuq

Dolly-Parton:




NO!
I dont wanna be your friend!
And No!
My post wasnt directed at you.

Shup-up. Why would any man in his right mind want to befriend something like you? you look around 40yrs yet are still posting gross a$$ pics on Public websites.

fuk your friendship, i was just telling you what a deluded dumbass you are.

pleep: Shup-up. Why would any man in his right mind want to befriend something like you? you look around 40yrs yet are still posting gross a$$ pics on Public websites.

fuk your friendship, i was just telling you what a deluded dumbass you are.

Come back when u grow up...

When i "grow up" i definitely wont be posting pictures of my wrinkly 40 yr old bottocks on the internet. old skank

I have reached a stage in my life where I don't really have time. I call you you, you act up, I'm gone. I don't contact you again. Kapish. It is women with little minds that act like that. I still maintain and believe playing hard to get is so dumb. If you like me already then atleast act friendly. It's not like if we start dating it is only me that will benefit from the relationship. I just think that some women are so full of themselves and it's we guys that are the cause. I don't give a woman the opportunity to treat me badly becos I fancy her. That was in the past. Now I have zero tolerance for that BS. Infact I don't have the time. The woman who is trying to act "Not cheap", one worthless no good for nothing guy is probably knacking her akpako somewhere. It's all in the mind. My 2 cents

pleep: Ever since i started talking to women the instant they start that hard to get crap i ignore them. permanently. no more texts, nothing

If all of u niggas did this, the ladies would stop playin games

If only all guys were like this. It's not always 'hard to get' it is quite often 'leave me alone' lol

pleep: When i "grow up" i definitely wont be posting pictures of my wrinkly 40 yr old bottocks on the internet. old skank

'The stupidity of human race'.... You got a triple portion. Congrats

star*:


If only all guys were like this. It's not always 'hard to get' it is quite often 'leave me alone' lol

I agree. Most guys cant tell the difference and it causes alot of unnecessary confusion.

Another fight?

Smh

star*:


If only all guys were like this. It's not always 'hard to get' it is quite often 'leave me alone' lol

Leave who alone? How many of u knows what u want 4rm a guy? Leave me alone my foot..

dmcdad:
Leave who alone? How many of u knows what u want 4rm a guy? Leave me alone my foot..

Ok maybe I'm talking of myself here. If I like a guy I don't play games. If I'm not interested I would hope he would realise that no it's not a game and that yes I'm not interested.

Mynd_44: Another fight?

Smh

hey, fill me in on what happened on that thread. i was gone for a couple hours, now its all deleted

star*:


Ok maybe I'm talking of myself here. If I like a guy I don't play games. If I'm not interested I would hope he would realise that no it's not a game and that yes I'm not interested.

Gbam! I love it when people deal with issues specifically.. I like that my dear

finally someone talking for herself.

@ pleep, take it easy bro.

@ star, hmmm, thanks for that perspective of what it means. but i think if girls say it in english instead of sign language, it will drive the point home faster for most guys who have time to chase.