Elvis & Juan av binn dating 4 4 gud yrs now. Elvis is a struggling type hoping 4 a brighter future whil Juan also came frm a humble home. Juan is 28, d eldest n 7 oda siblings behind her. Her mum who was d pioneer bread winner of d family suddenly got sick n b4 long, she died unxpctdly leavng d dependent children behind. Now Juan is automatically d mum n all responsibilities is on her anyways. Possibly, bcus of dis, Elvis bcam uncom4tabl wit Juan n startd acting strange wit her. It degenerated 2 d point Elvis stopped calling nor picking calls frm Juan. Wen confronted, Elvis admittd ther was no problems n afta then, he remained d same. Frm d character exhibited by Elvis, it is obvious 4 1 2 state dat Elvis is no longer interested in d relationshp. Does it mean he didn't truly love her? Is he trying 2 dodge frm being shifted some of d responsibities to (being a struggling young man)? What is your advice for her) Thanks in good response(s).

if they're not married..it makes sense for a struggling man to free himself than to indirectly adopt seven children.
maybe the siblings started looking at him as a breadwinner and he's trying to save the little he has, or maybe Juan didn't have time for him now that she has 7 mouths to feed. maybe she was the one that drove him away...then again, maybe he's just a selfish guy.
can't really say till you give more details

Its natural for the guy to be scared of the responsibilities, but the love he has for her should have overcome it. Sometimes when ladies are in situations like this, they don't actually need your money, all they need is a reassuring smile that says "baby, don't worry everything is gonna be alright" and a shoulder to cry on.
So IMHO, the guy doesn't truly love her.

@agiliti, they are not married but they promised to do so.

@vivian chinasa, thanks for ur comment and still expect more from u and others

Dis is a perfect example of a situation where MONEY SUSTAINS LOVE.
I guess my guy knew he will be spending more money to sustain that relationshp than in any other relatnshp. Its nt a bad idea to quit, bt i believe he is chicken livered.