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Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by jmoore(m): 9:48am On Jan 10, 2013
lazy girls will call men stingy when they complain they are spending much. For crying out loud there is a clear difference between girlfriend and wife.
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by cindyrella(f): 10:39am On Jan 10, 2013
Graphy: wat is akeke bread?hmmm
Good question!
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by ubong560(m): 7:35pm On Jan 10, 2013
@Graphy, Akeke bread is the name of a place, community or family that lives in abject poverty.

Google it.

I bet that pic is not urs but i will give u benefit of doubt. Peradventure it's yours, i think you are just that type that can make me empty my account without looking back. I crave for dark-skinned ladies bbbbbbaaaaaddddddlllllly.

Now convince me to believe that is you.

Waiting!
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Jan 10, 2013
ubong560: @Graphy, Akeke bread is the name of a place, community or family that lives in abject poverty.

Google it.

I bet that pic is not urs but i will give u benefit of doubt. Peradventure it's yours, i think you are just that type that can make me empty my account without looking back. I crave for dark-skinned ladies bbbbbbaaaaaddddddlllllly.

Now convince me to believe that is you.

Waiting!
Just listen to urslf, u crave 4 dark skin ladies badly,common 2k u no fit give ur gf,u dey nag,abeg guy i dnt associate myslf wit stingy n lousy people and pls i advise u stick wit ur gf.d aspect of my pic believe wateva u want,i dnt ve 2 prove nating 2 u,so free me Mr Akeke...lol
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by ubong560(m): 10:45pm On Jan 10, 2013
That means u either read my post well or u didnt understand it well. I said 'dark-skinned' ladies drive me crazy on sight (e.g dis one on ur profile) and i can empty my account on such without looking back. May be becos she doesnt have dark skin dats y i feel reluctant in spending on her. U can testify dat u urself cannot invest or spend on wat u dont like

As for u, dear, my joy will be to see u spending my money like hell. Am serious!

But where did u get lousiness from?
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by Nobody: 10:55pm On Jan 10, 2013
ubong560: That means u either read my post well or u didnt understand it well. I said 'dark-skinned' ladies drive me crazy on sight (e.g dis one on ur profile) and i can empty my account on such without looking back. May be becos she doesnt have dark skin dats y i feel reluctant in spending on her. U can testify dat u urself cannot invest or spend on wat u dont like

As for u, dear, my joy will be to see u spending my money like hell. Am serious!

But where did u get lousiness from?
hmmm,oga in d first place why re u stil kipn her wen she is nt wat u want and whr i got lousiness 4rm?hw a full grown man go cme internet cme dey campaign abt 2k wey him gf ask 4rm am?
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by oyinbogirl(f): 2:22am On Jan 11, 2013
P4VS20:

what culure is that?. where i am, the chics pay for themselves oh.

i was shocked when a chic told me she could takecare of her bills, i shouldnt worry, better still i was in wonder when a chic payed for my own restaurant bills n hers, i said...."wow, i guess its not all of em". wink

Yeah, it is a bit that way here too. Is good for lady to not be too dependent..and nice to give a guy gift too. You got a shock you say ? lol
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by ubong560(m): 7:03am On Jan 11, 2013
@Graphy, Dear or shld i call u sweerie, u re indirectly putting me into assessment. Hmmm, but dats no probs cos a homely swthrt like u shld try to find out somtins abt a guy b4 ..... u know wat am saying.

1) U wouldnt undastnd d circumstances dat led to our being 2keda. It wasnt premeditated or call it intentional. Was a kind of accidental clash.

2) U Mention abt being lousy on internet. Come on baby, dis is internet and an ananimous forum 4 dat matter where U cant see or know me and i am in d same positn unless otherwise. 95% of posts in dis forum are either total lies or non-existng. What if i was lying?

I neva toasted her bt as u can see, i'm very busy trying to win ur heart because u re d bomb (non explosive) in my eyes.

Can we talk privately on mail?
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by Nobody: 7:10am On Jan 11, 2013
ubong560: @Graphy, Dear or shld i call u sweerie, u re indirectly putting me into assessment. Hmmm, but dats no probs cos a homely swthrt like u shld try to find out somtins abt a guy b4 ..... u know wat am saying.

1) U wouldnt undastnd d circumstances dat led to our being 2keda. It wasnt premeditated or call it intentional. Was a kind of accidental clash.

2) U Mention abt being lousy on internet. Come on baby, dis is internet and an ananimous forum 4 dat matter where U cant see or know me and i am in d same positn unless otherwise. 95% of posts in dis forum are either total lies or non-existng. What if i was lying?

I neva toasted her bt as u can see, i'm very busy trying to win ur heart because u re d bomb (non explosive) in my eyes.

Can we talk privately on mail?
Sori dear,i am nt gonna be ur next topic on nairaland and hw do u knw am homely,u dnt knw a fin about me.
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by dmcdad: 7:59am On Jan 11, 2013
ubong560: @Graphy, Dear or shld i call u sweerie, u re indirectly putting me into assessment. Hmmm, but dats no probs cos a homely swthrt like u shld try to find out somtins abt a guy b4 ..... u know wat am saying.

1) U wouldnt undastnd d circumstances dat led to our being 2keda. It wasnt premeditated or call it intentional. Was a kind of accidental clash.

2) U Mention abt being lousy on internet. Come on baby, dis is internet and an ananimous forum 4 dat matter where U cant see or know me and i am in d same positn unless otherwise. 95% of posts in dis forum are either total lies or non-existng. What if i was lying?

I neva toasted her bt as u can see, i'm very busy trying to win ur heart because u re d bomb (non explosive) in my eyes.

Can we talk privately on mail?

Guy na wa you ooo. Na girl dey make you zuzu like this? Behave abeg....
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by ubong560(m): 8:35am On Jan 11, 2013
@dmcdad, guy relax, a lot of things happen in dis forum. No big deal if i fall in love wit dat heavenly dark-skinned pretty. Relationship are built thru dis forum. No big deal abt it.
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by ubong560(m): 8:47am On Jan 11, 2013
@Graphy, by thier fruit u shall know them. I need not to be told u are a vry homely heavenly gift. Only the blind will need to be convinced abt u, but since am not blind, then u are the apple of my eyes.

Which other way can i glorify u more than dis? U r not the next topic on NL and wouldnt want u to be dats y i said lets gist on mail or FB. Can we?
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by Onyiip(f): 9:01am On Jan 11, 2013
i dont understand why guys keep saying ladies love asking for money.
In my relationships, the guys can vouch dat iv never, i repeat never collected money from them whether they are working or not, rather I've assisted them in their financial difficulties at one point
Maybe its cos i have this mentality that i was born to assist not to be assisted.
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by Nobody: 9:06am On Jan 11, 2013
ubong560: @Graphy, by thier fruit u shall know them. I need not to be told u are a vry homely heavenly gift. Only the blind will need to be convinced abt u, but since am not blind, then u are the apple of my eyes.

Which other way can i glorify u more than dis? U r not the next topic on NL and wouldnt want u to be dats y i said lets gist on mail or FB. Can we?
thanx bt i rather nt associate myslf wit u,do ve a niceday ahead.
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by dmcdad: 9:48am On Jan 11, 2013
ubong560: @dmcdad, guy relax, a lot of things happen in dis forum. No big deal if i fall in love wit dat heavenly dark-skinned pretty. Relationship are built thru dis forum. No big deal abt it.

I know bruv... Anythig is possible. Relationships can surely be built from anywhere. The thing is,take it off NL. I mean, mail her or something and stop this open thing you are doing.. Especially with the fact that, it seems you just wanna force yourself on her.

Anywayz, good luck sha. I wish the both of you well as you go about your....
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by ubong560(m): 9:48am On Jan 11, 2013
@Onyii.p, if ur post is true, den u r a financial-stress-free gift to those lucky men. Ur type wil make a man be at work while his soul and spirit is on wherever u may be.

But are u gainfully employed?
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by ubong560(m): 9:51am On Jan 11, 2013
@Graphy, are u playing me hard-to-get?

Ok, but can we just be friends on FB?
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by Nobody: 10:12am On Jan 11, 2013
Abeg,ladies should stop disrespecting themselves by begging.If you must beg,beg your parents and relatives.Your boyfriend is not your dad and neither is he paying u for sexual favours,so cut him some slack.Make una add some dignity to una person abeg.I suppose she will simply wait and die if she has no bf to pay for her drugs,mtchewwwww!!!!
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by Onyiip(f): 10:29am On Jan 11, 2013
ubong560: @Onyii.p, if ur post is true, den u r a financial-stress-free gift to those lucky men. Ur type wil make a man be at work while his soul and spirit is on wherever u may be.

But are u gainfully employed?

tnxs. Im working though i just graduated and haven't served yet
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by giftmurphy(f): 11:24am On Jan 11, 2013
NA UR GIRLFRIEND U DE DISGRACE LIKE THIS...CHAI shocked..smh
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by giftmurphy(f): 11:33am On Jan 11, 2013
there iz noffin bad she askin u for 2k if she doesnt av cool..well, undecided u kno ur gf but still, it doesnnt mmean u should post it here embarassed...she iz ur gf cool,u asked r out wink..deal with it or quit d relationship.. sad shocked
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by giftmurphy(f): 11:39am On Jan 11, 2013
uj_sizzle:
oh shut up! Guys like you are the reason why some girls prefer to have spare boyfriends. Why is such a huge task to give ur girlfriend money for drugs?! If she gets it from another man u'll cry foul; she asks you for it and u call her a pest...why is she ur woman if u can't/won't even take care of her? Stingy a.hole! Mtcheeeew
if u'll spend the rest of your life crying every time ur girlfriend asks for the smallest thing then u have no business having a girlfriend.
...seconded
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by giftmurphy(f): 12:00pm On Jan 11, 2013
ubong560: I wil ansa ur comment bit by bit. Now listen!
1) U said 'shut up' = u didnt av any right 2 insult me.
2) Y shld i b d 1 givng her money 2 buy drugs? or do i run free health services? Or did she giv me money 2 buy drugs d last time i was sick?
3) Even if i giv her all d money on earth, she wil stil hav a spare boyfriend or dont you? No doubt abt dat

4) She's really a big pest. Doesnt she have hands. Even bible condenms it.
5) If relatnshp is all abt takng care of each other, then how much care has she takn of me? I cant be deceived by sex cos both of us enjoy it. She enjoys it even more.
6) A man who is planning 4 invstment in d future must b a bit stingy. Even Dangote does it. Google it!
7) If relatnshp is all abt receiving, then how much have i rceivd 4rm her? Or is d givng thing supposed 2 flow only 4rm 1 directn?
By thier fruit, u shal know dem. By ur comments, i am 100% sure u r 1 of dos over-dependent girls.
Rlatnsp shdnt b all abt receivng n dependng not wen marriage is not yet involved. Thanks

seriously?y even bringing this topic into a social site,this is suppose to be personal and as the man u r,think of what to do abt d relationship if u think d girl u claim loving is bugging u instead of postin it n even talk abt of how much she enjoys sex..."this is ur girl for cryin out loud"if she ends up bein ur wife,d investment u r plannin for future,wont it be for ur wife n kids n u?pls work on ur relationship not talkin disgracing ur gf...its obvious u av a long way to go.... cool"no offence"
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Jan 11, 2013
ubong560: @Graphy, are u playing me hard-to-get?

Ok, but can we just be friends on FB?
NO
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Jan 11, 2013
dmcdad:

I know bruv... Anythig is possible. Relationships can surely be built from anywhere. The thing is,take it off NL. I mean, mail her or something and stop this open thing you are doing.. Especially with the fact that, it seems you just wanna force yourself on her.

Anywayz, good luck sha. I wish the both of you well as you go about your....
your wat?do u tink i wuld want 2 ve anytin to do wit a guy dats complains n disgrace his gf,cus she is ask 4 money?hell No,dat shit is supose 2 be btw both of them.
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by MsBeautyAghedo(f): 12:31pm On Jan 11, 2013
sunny t: Everything is just upside down, only God will save our generation.
Men want sex and dey want it badly.
Gals believe since he is sleeping with me then he shd pay, and you need to hear the way some gals even say it.
So its like dis, gals want money, guys want sex. Kai, dis is nt funny at all.
Gal are now offering sex for money.
Guys are now paying for sex.

..... That's true!! The guy shld be grateful the girl is trusting him with her needs. Its quiet painfull Guys don't really know wen their gf needs their assistance most. Every woman has her Financial needs in different Priority and list of Scale of preference eg for some ladies; its their hair, some their Education, some their parents feeding allowances, some their clothings, some their health etc. And they trust their hobby to be there for them wen such need comes around. But a wise man should always take serious the need that has to do with investing into his gf's future and not on mere enjoyment(worthless) that will fade away and won't yield anything in the future.
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Jan 11, 2013
@poster, i'm not a fan of ladies taking money from their guys or depending on their boyfriends for their needs, infact, i hate it! but these days, i cant help but wonder why you guys give money to the gals and come on internet to start crying. Did they steal the money from you Why can't you just tell them you can't give them the money, @ d worst, they'll break up with you but what on earth are you supposed to be doing with a girl that you come on a faceless forum to complain about in the first instance It's simple, if you don't have the money or u're not happy parting with it, simply tell the girl and stop being childish about the whole thing. At this point, i want to smh for naija guys sef. 190, pls, no vex!
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by dmcdad: 1:17pm On Jan 11, 2013
Graphy: your wat?do u tink i wuld want 2 ve anytin to do wit a guy dats complains n disgrace his gf,cus she is ask 4 money?hell No,dat shit is supose 2 be btw both of them.

Ha ha ha ha ha... No be lie sha
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by Pritheeann(f): 5:42pm On Jan 11, 2013
Graphy: your wat?do u tink i wuld want 2 ve anytin to do wit a guy dats complains n disgrace his gf,cus she is ask 4 money?hell No,dat shit is supose 2 be btw both of them.
tell him very well ooo...
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by dederocs(m): 5:59pm On Jan 11, 2013
uj_sizzle:
oh shut up! Guys like you are the reason why some girls prefer to have spare boyfriends. Why is such a huge task to give ur girlfriend money for drugs?! If she gets it from another man u'll cry foul; she asks you for it and u call her a pest...why is she ur woman if u can't/won't even take care of her? Stingy a.hole! Mtcheeeew
if u'll spend the rest of your life crying every time ur girlfriend asks for the smallest thing then u have no business having a girlfriend.
all u spewed is nonsense,Nigerian girls are the dumbest and most money hungry in the world.abi ur bf na ur fada,abi he resemble aristo for ya face.cheap bitches,y'all should be ashamed.
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by dederocs(m): 6:06pm On Jan 11, 2013
Charliemorgano: @ OP i think this should be your little contribution to the unemployed,every guy is doing it just that we are not complaining...my friend who i barely knew just called me that she was coming to the office to collect some cheeze that she is stranded after submitting her CV in one coy for Lekki...i just had to pity her...why....i passed through all these and i know how it feels to be unemployed....so just bear with her and support her
u be mugu,one day try to listen on these ladies talking abt guys ur head go correct.believe me a money hungry girl is a greedy girl-ur girl has other men contributing to her till.the pussy for naija girls na MMM money making machine.
Re: Why Do Girls Depend On Guys For Money? by dederocs(m): 6:15pm On Jan 11, 2013
oyinbogirl:


I thought it was the culture that the women are quite dependent on the man for their needs? If this is so you shouldnt becomplaining . I do know of some who work though smiley
this is 2013 girl,times have changed too many girls everywhere.better wake up.

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