~vicky~:
once the love is dead in a marriage, there is “no-way” or there is nothing that can be done to rekindle that special love once existing between a husband and wife. when love is gone, it’s gone, and nothing, not nothing, will bring it back to life in the core of a heart and soul. Once it’s dead, it’s over and done with, and there’s not a thing the couple can do to keep the union alive.

iamtheprincipal: Hey, you do need to be very honest with yourself by asking yourself some essential questions like; what went wrong between this woman & I, If I was in this woman shoes, how would I feel among others.
Let's learn to treat women with some measures of dignity and respect. Assuming She is your daughter, would you be happy if a man throws her out of his house the way you are planning to annul your union with your woman?
I can feel that you are already seeing another woman behind the scene but I'd advice that you let go of that jezebel and get back to your wife.
Get back to those things that bonded you two together, avoiding things that separates you and if there's anything She is done/doing wrong (or unpleasant to you), correct her in a loving way.
We can begin to make our marriages to work by showing sincere love and affection to our partners.

MoreGrace!

pak:


You need help and fast (most importantly before you get married)

La Bonito: @ dis, let go of that jezebel and get back to your wife". She ain't no jezebel Jor.dats men for you, one woman is nt enof for dem, Weda married or single. The guy knows wat he's doing,abi is he a learner?

Gentle Naaz: nne, a na agwa gi na oku gbara father gi na aju ma ogbara afonu ya

~vicky~:
once the love is dead in a marriage, there is “no-way” or there is nothing that can be done to rekindle that special love once existing between a husband and wife. when love is gone, it’s gone, and nothing, not nothing, will bring it back to life in the core of a heart and soul. Once it’s dead, it’s over and done with, and there’s not a thing the couple can do to keep the union alive.

God, pls change the heart of this creation of urs, to have a different view of life. U mean u re willing to just pack-up and leave, u re not willing to try reviving it. U surrender very easily and u will make a ready prey for the enemy. U won't posse any difficulty at all. THEY WILL LOVE U!

leocolin:
How does fasting related to the issue? Na wa 4 some people..LWKMD

leocolin:
i quite agree with u...some men are not contented with only one women...i suppose its theit nature.

vanstanzy:

God, pls change the heart of this creation of urs, to have a different view of life. U mean u re willing to just pack-up and leave, u re not willing to try reviving it. U surrender very easily and u will make a ready prey for the enemy. U won't posse any difficulty at all. THEY WILL LOVE U!

La Bonito: Lets face fact.It's just in men's nature 2 cheat. Most of dem don't hav conscience,nd dey don't put you gals in dia shoes first b4 dey act. Dey create problems nd blame dem on dia woman. Let him go nd marry his BB or nairaland,who cares. donno y som gals r still pleasing guys 2 dat extend, babes liv ur lives cos if you run mad or somtin, dey no send una. As for me, am the BOSS.

leocolin:
How does fasting related to the issue? Na wa 4 some people..LWKMD

salt 1:

Vicky, I do hope you're joking. I've been married for a long time and I know it's absolutely impossible to be in love with your spouse all the time. We fall in and out of love but it's uSually with the same person. Even our kids, whom we love unconditionally, can get us to the point of bitterness but we get over those resentments and love them all over.
@poster, there's another person you're comparing with your legally married wife. 3 isn't company in marriage. Cut Off that other relationship before you do something silly and shameful. You loved this Woman enough to marry her. Stick to her. Remain married as you work on getting your changeful feelings back on course
MARRIAGE TAKES MORE THAN LOVE!

Abrantie: First of all, what exactly is LOVE?

Case33: When u don't feel like loving ur wife anymore, nothing she does pleases u, u even tell her to her face that she can't arouse u,that u determine when to be aroused,u love chatting on ur bb more than u love talking to her, u prefer reading NL comments n laughing hysterically alone instead of chatting with her, she tries all she can to please u,yet u can't be pleased,her very presence irritates u even when she's done nothing wrong.....what next? Meanwhile u r supposed to be wedding in church in less than 3months,do u call off d wedding or simply go back to d court where u were wedded n annul it? Or just continue to hope dt u will eventually change ur attitude towards her n love her again d way u used to? Sincere advice needed pls!

LadyTC:

Sometimes you can never revive a relationship that is broken. Whatever you do will never work.it will only lead to hate, resentment and more of those things. Sometimes people act like its do or die no marriage is not. It is good to marry but if at the expense of your happiness and peace of mind move on! This OP married for the wrong reasons. Because the mere fact that she irritates him is a big red flag. If I was his life coach I will say quit while you are ahead for the girls sake and not his own sake.with time she will hate him if she is not spiritually grounded. Some people kill in the name of love. Its possible to fall out of love but still love(choice). When you love the person you are with they can annoy you but irritate?? Think about that, you won't even want to be around that person. U MR are not ready for the full commitment of marriage you need to work on yourself. You are selfish.

At least, one is supposed to try and revive it. If after such tries, things still don't work out, then he can quit peacefully. He was sounding like he wasn't going to try salvaging the marriage@ all. Didn't u read his comment?
Ur comment started well, but calling me selfish. Babes, u don't know the half of me. Sorry to BUST UR BUBBLE though, am HAPPILY MARRIED and am well aware of the commitments, thank you!

vanstanzy:

At least, one is supposed to try and revive it. If after such tries, things still don't work out, then he can quit peacefully. He was sounding like he wasn't going to try salvaging the marriage@ all. Didn't u read his comment?
Ur comment started well, but calling me selfish. Babes, u don't know the half of me. Sorry to BUST UR BUBBLE though, am HAPPILY MARRIED and am well aware of the commitments, thank you!