seedord247:

I dont follow you neither do i have something to learn from a obsolete being...

Give us the links of children being neglected by their fathers....

Thats how end up being to shame by davidlan went you are out of point...

get your fact right before spitting your venom's out.... If you being used by Cheap road side hawkers, dont put the blame on 70 millions nigerians men.

FXKing2012:

Women are constantly abused and children neglected by some useless men, something must be done about this. I'm thinking of lobbying for this in the house of assembly.

Why can a man marry many women but a woman cannot? Is there a law against women keeping more than one husband at a time in Nigeria? Polyandry is allowed in India; its advantage is that it makes men to sit up to their responsiblities in order not to be replaced.

armyofone: yes, too many nigeria women go thru too much hardship carrying the responsiblities alone while oga zooms around with his wandering 3rd leg.

baby_123:

Look dude, get a job. What do you want, i should call them to come an bear witness? You are carrying bitterness from one thread to the other. I am not the one responsible for your inability to think and contribute to the thread. Shift abeg if you have nothing meaningful to say. BEtter still get busy with a job and if you like follow me around. Doesnt change a thing. Try to get a life. You will be ignored. What a bitter man. hahahaha.

nollywood20: [size=28pt]YES. I SUPPORT DIVORCE SETTLEMENT AND CHILD SUPPORT AFTER DIVORCE, BECAUSE IN MOST CASES OF DIVORCE IN NIGERIA, THE WIVES ARE NOT THE CAUSE. [/size]

Okiki_Oluwa: It's a welcome idea.
For my area, there are lots of single married women with 5, 6 or even more children. Their husband have divorced/abandoned them & are not taking care of the children. If this law exist, it can help them.
But some chop-ur-money ladies ll take that up as a biz. Marry a richman & divorce after some months. Nija own go come worse pass anywhere in the world.

armyofone: ...while oga zooms around with his wandering 3rd leg.

FXKing2012: I think the divorce settlement law should be introduced in Nigeria to protect women as well as the child support law to protect children. Any civilized society ought to have such laws in place to protect women and children.

What is your take on this?

dayokanu: [size=14pt]Can anyone make a sensible case for why Divorce settlement should be introduced?[/size]

If a man ask you to quit your job to be a housewife then na you sabi

Child Support I agree, Divorce settlement NO

baby_123:

Dayo, how far? Have you slept well and eaten well today. Looks like you are spoiling for another 9pages of debate.

dayokanu:

Yes oo So who would bring forth the argument for divorce settlement and why should there be divorce settlement when 2 adult who are not disabled choose to separate

baby_123:

Why not if the lady is used to a certain lifestyle which has been provided by you since you both got married. .

Kzinne: ur area? sure say na slum b dat

baby_123:

What fabric? You mean the fabric that allows men to have children all over the place without being able to take care of them? Or contributing one kobo to their welfare while their mothers do all sorts to raise them? In Nigeria a man can just disappear and abandon his family, and go somewhere else to raise a new one without any repercussion. If you can skin dive, you better be ready to pay till the child is settled. Nothing wrong with this at all. After all, no one pushed you or forced you. You took that decision to be an adult and have unprotected s*ex. So as an adult, do adult things and take care of your responsibility. Surely, that is not too much to ask.

dayokanu:

Human being are supposed to live within their means if she is used to it then she should go work for it

chingyjant:
I was the one that actually clicked the first like on this your comment.This same thing you explained is similar to what the blacks in America do.They love sex too much and nobody is complaining about that but they have to be cautioned on the management of the end product which is pregnancy.If this measure was not put in place i sometimes imagine how America would have been.But my major point here is that it cannot work in Nigeria.Simply because first of all you ask yourself if Mr A Impregnates a girl in Calabar and decides to run away to Enugu and perhaps do same to another girl there and immediately after that relocates to Lagos and continues his escapade how can he be tracked down considering the unavailability of Data Base in Nigeria.In as much as America is big you cannot run away.If you do that in Chicago and run to a busy city like New York they don't need to track you down with the FBI cause they gat everything properly worked out.All they need is tracking you with your SOCIAL SECURITY NUMBER.Anywhere you find a job in the country and you receive your paycheck be rest assured that this money will be deducted wether you are in the North,South,East or West This also apply to the divorce issue also because after Divorce the man can abscond in order not to pay allimony thats in Nigeria.So its until Nigeria get this Database management stuff fixed that is when such can be brought to the table for Legislation.

seedord247:

madam, can you pls show us the statistic of men in Nigeria having children all over the place?

how many f Nigerians go for court weddding??

You hardly see a child in Nigeria without no father even thou his father his been killed by BOKO.

I have been seeing ya comments on family section.. All i can say for now is , You learn Negatively.