auchs:
chei! This is one of them. Hmmmm. A woman saying she is equal to the husband. men be wise! Marry who you love and like its character not working class. Money may not help you on somethings.

Shollypopz:

Take a look at this 1diot!! A woman is meant to be under a man?? What does that even mean??!!!

chikeorji123:

Have it comes to that level yet?,labeling him as ldiot? or someone use ur ld to say that?..

Shollypopz:

I'm sure! Only people gifted with st*upidity and endowed with foolish wisdom can understand the "wisdom" you spoke outta ur a*ss!

It's spelt "surprised".

Blueboy0402:
You can be the head of your house, that is your own business.

Mind you "outta" is not an English word. It is "out of". Anyone living in a glass house shouldn't throw stone.

Shollypopz:
*Has*

lol, someone used my ID to say it

Shollypopz:
LMAO!! I know outta is not an English word, I'm text-typing just like most people on NL.

The difference here is, I can spell. "outta" means "out of" just so u know

victorian: That's not true , at all.....trust me, u got it wrong...working class babes are the target these days.

Blueboy0402:
oooooo......... I never knew you were "text-typing" like most people on Nairaland. Inasmuch as "text-typing" is common here, then there is a high possibility of mistake occuring while "text-typing". This is quite different from one not knowing how to spell correctly.

Shollypopz:
*Has*

lol, someone used my ID to say it

Okija_juju: Because of women like Shollypopz who considers her husband her equal and not her head.

Give a woman like that a million dollars and watch her grow wings.

Shollypopz:
No, you need a change of mentality and brain!! The dude that made that comment was talking about women and men in general. He was referring to asking a girl out and he said "if you understand that a woman is under a man, you won't be scared to make a move". Now, I think this is an extremely chauvinistic statement and barbaric.

A wife might choose to be under her husband if she's a christian, but pls take note that this is purely in a christian setting. And according to the bible, the only woman that is under a man is his wife not all women, aiite??!!

goodmike7:

I hope you have the intention of marrying a white man because this gender equality mentality you girls are trying to emulate will not and never work on a nigerian man. Just saying my own sha.

chikeorji123:

Hey dude! did u just said give her a million $$$ and watch her grow wings?...here u come again l suggest u change that name of urs may be it's infectious.. :her points doesn't mean she won't respect her hubby..afterall she's typing in english not arabic! read her post!!..

Shollypopz: @Okija juju: what wings??

Shollypopz:

If my house can't have two heads, then the head should be picked solely on who has the intellectual abilities and skills to run it better. The head shouldn't be based on one's gender! Get that into ur dim brain!!

12 inches!:

It's rude to go on online forums and be correcting people's spellings. Or are you a spell checker Why do you use spelling as a point of argument. You argue that gender roles should not exist but you should also recall that there are roles that men are particularly good in (especially those that require physical strength) the same way there are roles that women are particularly good in (especially does that involve emotional strength). You do not put square pegs in round holes. Or if gender roles should not exist why does this picture look weird. Would you accept this on your wedding day?

auchs: What do you mean? Its only a hungry and poor man that looks for so called working class lady. Go marry devil and you will ever regret your life. Please if you need working class lady please contact me because I ve got plenty for my working place. They are looking for men so badly. Some of then even have things like land to entice men. Please apply before there time passes.

ifihearam:

U be really mugu. If you dey find babe and ur eye gey her body. I pity you because na early grave you dey dig.

Shollypopz:
If it really was a mistake, u wudda simply said so instead of justifying ur misspelling by saying "outta is not an English word". Typing outta was intentional.....

goodmike7:

I hope you have the intention of marrying a white man because this gender equality mentality you girls are trying to emulate will not and never work on a nigerian man. Just saying my own sha.

Blueboy0402:
"outta" and "wudda" are no English words so don't hide under the umbrella of "intentional". People like you often use this American rubbish to cover up. Spell correctly and let the party go on.

ifihearam:

I pity you

DANILSA:
I WAS A BIG GAL BEFORE I MET YOU

Shollypopz:
lol, are u ok?? U seem to be getting all riled up That was a grammatical error, not a spelling error. I wasn't correcting his spelling and I wasn't arguing with that particular ID, so what u're getting mad over is false and made-up bullsh1t!

Due to the testosterone level in male, they are likely to have more physical strength than females. I'm not arguing with that, the problem here is farming is no longer the major occupation like it was in the past. Most societies have grown or are growing from an agricultural to a manufacturer and now service based society. Women can now work as lawyers, accountants, computer scientists, and these fields do not require heavy lifting. Hence, the husband being the sole provider is not a must. You would have to explain what you mean by emotional strength cos it's not a fact that women are more emotional then men. The way people allow their mental/intellectual faculties of thought, perception, reason and memory direct them has nothing to do with gender.

That picture does not look weird to me at all but I have a different mentality than you do. Anyone that thinks that picture looks weird must have been shocked by the unfamiliarity of what is happening. Which is the reason why most people are against anyone that talks against gender roles in the context we have been. You are used to the norm that culture has set for u, you don't want to move away from what you've always known as "truth" but if you think critically, you'll see that it's all bullsh1t!!

NoraBarbie: If the man thinks he's the head- no qualms. Its all about understanding. If he's head,I'm the neck & the neck controls the head's mobility. Thats why he's got to pay the freaking bills & I get to wear those se*xy little numbers he adores to cook him dinner & serve 'dessert'. Thats why he'd compromise for me and I'l sacrifice any part of my being for him. Thats why he'd give up his cash for me & I'l pause my career to have his kids. Thats why I'l lean on his shoulder when I'm down,& he'l rest in my arms when he's hurt...Its all about synergy; the career women are not difficult unless there's pride somewhere.

Shollypopz:
out of, would have.........does that make you feel better?!! It's colloquial English and it's spelt correctly(informally).

Unlike "suprised", LMAO!!