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Re: Virgin Or Not? by LadyT(f): 9:16pm On Mar 01, 2008
uspry1:

@Lady T

Who told you assumption is DANGEROUS?

Assumption = guess, estimate, reason, no consequence/no proof--- no matter it is wrong or right!

But lying is worse, DANGEROUS! Lie = Dishonesty, distrust, deceit, fool, sly as a fox, slick, goes on listing===it has consequence---GUILTY AS CHARGE! !

My darling Uspry1 if you assume a gun is not loaded and you fire your making a dangerous decision on dangerous assumption
Re: Virgin Or Not? by nutinikole: 1:33am On Mar 02, 2008
@ spoilt LOL GOOD ONE! grin grin
Re: Virgin Or Not? by Scarlett(f): 1:45am On Mar 02, 2008
Nutinikole

You ahvent told us what you are going to do afterall
Re: Virgin Or Not? by Nobody: 3:39am On Mar 02, 2008
why play dumb, tell the mumu dude the truth.he.ll love you more.
Re: Virgin Or Not? by spoilt(f): 4:00am On Mar 02, 2008
Would you like for me to post the MANY MANY threads showing otherwise

Btw since when does assumption equate "trusting", You people are ridiculous.

@TOH

i thought i imagined all those other threads! grin grin
Thank goodness you saw them threads where guys are whining about the absence of hymens. grin
Re: Virgin Or Not? by spoilt(f): 4:08am On Mar 02, 2008
since when did it become a crime to assume?

@4him
it is a crime punishable by suprise! grin grin grin grin
Re: Virgin Or Not? by spoilt(f): 4:11am On Mar 02, 2008
Who died and make him King Disvirginer?

@ ladyt
apparently he crowned himself. grin grin grin
Re: Virgin Or Not? by 4Him(m): 4:12am On Mar 02, 2008
spoilt:

@4him
it is a crime punishable by suprise! grin grin grin grin

no wahala . . . the guy will simply reward the surprise with a sack letter. grin
Re: Virgin Or Not? by spoilt(f): 4:21am On Mar 02, 2008
4Him:

no wahala . . . the guy will simply reward the surprise with a sack letter. grin

now why would that not suprise me? undecided
non virgins are looking for virgins. wonders. grin
Re: Virgin Or Not? by 4Him(m): 4:36am On Mar 02, 2008
for the upteenth time it is not the virginity status of the chic that is in question but her trust.
Re: Virgin Or Not? by spoilt(f): 4:39am On Mar 02, 2008
and for the upteenth time, yeah right! cool
Re: Virgin Or Not? by 4Play(m): 4:49am On Mar 02, 2008
While not overly concerned with virginity,in this case,the woman made virginity an issue by creating the impression she was one.

Having done so,she then proceeds,unprompted,to convey a false image of the issue she created.Well,it shows bad judgment and dishonesty on her part.Certainly not something you sweep under the carpet.
Re: Virgin Or Not? by Dreloaded(f): 6:16am On Mar 02, 2008
how did she create this impression, 4Play

spoilt, you're insane lol tongue
Re: Virgin Or Not? by somze(f): 8:14am On Mar 02, 2008
D-reloaded:

how did she create this impression, 4Play

spoilt, you're insane lol tongue
She accepted when he suggested she was a virgin

Now we know how one-sided a woman's narration of happenings can be, why not think of the guy's version.

She created the mentality that virginity was important unless she would have set it straight in the first place, instead she made the relationship a lie. She lied continuously and now she wants sex, she finds herself in a fix. No disrespect intended
Re: Virgin Or Not? by nutinikole: 1:03pm On Mar 02, 2008
@scarlett im looking at my options!!!
Re: Virgin Or Not? by spoilt(f): 2:23pm On Mar 02, 2008
4 Play:

While not overly concerned with virginity,in this case,the woman made virginity an issue by creating the impression she was one.

Having done so,she then proceeds,unprompted,to convey a false image of the issue she created.Well,it shows bad judgment and dishonesty on her part.Certainly not something you sweep under the carpet.

how exactly did she create this impression? didnt she say he assumed she was one because she had high morals and was innocent or something like that? wasnt she just being herself? Guys are so used to girls falling all over them like hot sticky honey that if a girl doesnt immediately fall into their beds within days naked, with legs wide open they assume she must be a virgin.

for all you know, he has not even asked her outright about her virginal status but she's probably able to read what he's thinking. I dont see her crime. really i dont.
the part i find confusing is why she thinks he has a right to be upset when he finds out that what he had assumed isn't correct.
Re: Virgin Or Not? by Dreloaded(f): 4:39pm On Mar 02, 2008
There's no where in that first postb where she said she "suggested" anything.

Anyway somze, My question was posted TO 4Play. Not you.

Thanks.
Re: Virgin Or Not? by Scarlett(f): 7:55pm On Mar 02, 2008
Nutinikole,

The only option you should look at is the option of telling the truth
Trust is the important thing here, he would probably be hurt for a while if
you tell him now, but the longer you allow this to take hold, the more dangerous it could be
and it would transcend from being just about your virginity into something bigger, t[i]alk about an
Everest out of a handful of sand![/i]

And you dont want him hearing from someone else, trust me!
Re: Virgin Or Not? by LadyT(f): 9:01pm On Mar 02, 2008
Im getting confused with 4him and 4play its making me angry!

You know her not being a virgin is the real issue,
Re: Virgin Or Not? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Mar 02, 2008
hmmmmmmmmmm!! cheesy confusion---> anger
Re: Virgin Or Not? by Nobody: 3:53am On Mar 03, 2008
@poster,just give him the bombshell "I'm not a virgin". I would like to know if his jaw dropped cheesy cheesy. Do come back and tell us on nairaland what happened.
Re: Virgin Or Not? by annboga(f): 10:03am On Mar 04, 2008
Hey gurlfy,that's a very silly n childish thing to do.
U dnt av to lie to keep ur relationship working,
so,babe try n make amends n let the whole u're
innocent thing be real.
Quit faking urself, n be real, safe.
Re: Virgin Or Not? by nutinikole: 2:42pm On Mar 04, 2008
shocked :oanbogga that advice take style harsh oh! shocked shocked
Re: Virgin Or Not? by yemivictor: 4:37pm On Mar 04, 2008
Hmmm . . . orisirisi! angry

Here's a babe who was first of all phock'd & disvirgined by her ex, with her full consent, i might add!!

She turns around immediately to lament that ehn! . . . the ex's kini was small!!!

IN THE SAME VEIN!!!

She wants to be discharged & acquitted for having DELIBERATELY & MALICIOUSLY led another innocent bloke to WRONGLY assume/believe that she's a virgin! shocked

ALL OF THIS CRAP IN JUST ONE POST!?!?! shocked shocked shocked

At times . . . i just wonder . . . i mean . . .it really beats me . . . what actually do babes of nowadays want from their men!? sad

I just wonder . . . sad sad sad

Re: Virgin Or Not? by yemivictor: 4:41pm On Mar 04, 2008
almondjoy!

Isn't this the height of hypocrisy!?
Re: Virgin Or Not? by nutinikole: 8:45pm On Mar 04, 2008
well its about time we had some air headed replys i was beginning to think id only get insightful responses!
Re: Virgin Or Not? by Gamine(f): 11:52pm On Mar 04, 2008
Oh well maám

Why dont you just keep pretending huh

maybe when you are old you can tell your kids that you are still a Virgin at 66
Re: Virgin Or Not? by yemivictor: 8:59am On Mar 05, 2008
nutinikole:

well its about time we had some air headed replys[b] i was beginning to think id only get insightful responses![/b]


And by "insightful responses" you mean patting you on the back and saying well done for being a bloody hypocrite & the biggest joke of 2008 yet!?

Check your head . . . i think a screw might be loose!!! cool
Re: Virgin Or Not? by nutinikole: 1:08pm On Mar 05, 2008
oh hunni this is nairaland!! its freedom of speech if i wanted a pat on the back (trust me) i wouldn be here!!!

so FINE! drop your criticism {im indifferent anyways} and drop an answer! its how you keep the thread going!
Re: Virgin Or Not? by nutinikole: 1:10pm On Mar 05, 2008
@ gamine clever pik!
Re: Virgin Or Not? by olulu(m): 1:25pm On Mar 05, 2008
Tell the guy jo
and i can predict the next thing he will want to do is jump into your pants,
cool cool cool

i once went out with a girl for 2 years thinking she was a virgin,
i thought it was only my 3rd leg that wouldn't go in, but that fingers can.

boy, was i mad when i got to know my naivity.
made me turn her into a play thing.
embarassed embarassed embarassed

But the truth is better said,
than kept,
makes it easy to deal with things.
But,
if he don't want u again,
hmm, well,
i can still help your condition
grin grin grin
Re: Virgin Or Not? by nossycheek(f): 2:52pm On Mar 05, 2008
hmmmm. much ado about nothing

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