out of all what i read i like what layi said that sounds like a real man that knows what he really wants from women. From a lady's point of view i want a man not because of his handsomeness but because of the kindness of his heart that's what really counts. I think that men who r looking 4 pretty ladies on the outside are fools and not man enough to me. Ladies who r looking 4 men handsome on the  out side are stupid to me. No offense but that how i feel so appriciate me and don't be mad at me because i speak my mind love me baby! God bless y'all

wow Men who look for beauty aint man enough for you. Well i wouldnt comment much on that coz you said for they aint man enough for you. Who wants to be an ugly ass just coz he or she has a kindness in his/ her heart. Bash, hit the floor, Beauty is categorically what men look for.

real beauty in a woman is her attitude. If she doesn't have a nice attitude she is not pretty at all.

tell them princess.

Nddy,
Spend time with a not-too-good-looking lady with a golden heart and u'll soon begin to see her as Beautiful. Try it

Men come on now why don't y'all try it. Go with a woman that with a beautiful attitude and a kind heart and if u would'nt appriciate her.

Well spoken I must say, but don't you all think that if something doesn't ignite interest in you, you can't even look at it talkless of loving it. Same thing applies to what we're talking about here.
Be sure not to get my point wrong. I know character plays a role in beauty, just as facial /body beauty does.

@princess, sayin a man looking 4 outside beauty is a fool is a misguided judgement. He might want attraction 1st and then other things follow. Don't you think so?

DE-KING:

.......but don't you all think that if something doesn't ignite interest in you, you can't even look at it talkless of loving it. ............

No woman is repulsive. It basically depends on what u r looking for in a woman. Some just start as friends and it develops into full-blown-date (because of her character). Guyz don't only make friends with pretty girls mind u.

Common Layi, I haven't said any woman is repulsive and I would neva say a thing like that. All women are beautiful in their own way but there's something you all are not getting from my point. I just wish you could figure it out.

Every creature GOd created is beautiful and good but you see some people don't know this, hence they believe they aren't good enough.

I believe something someone once said, "No one can say you're ugly without your permission". Unfortunately, so many are filled with inferiority complex, hence they accept that eventhough they don't say it.

Do you all get my point now?

De-King . U r Ugly
I dont need ur permission.

Just Kiddin. No come break my head!

Seems ur point is that sum women feel inferior and as thus, they look ugly. Am i right?
Just simplify. abeg.

I understand what you're saying King, or at least I think so:

God gave us eyes to see. That is the first thing we do. We look at someone and immediately decide whether we WANT to know more about a person, beyond their physical appearance. That attraction has to be there for you to make a move.

Also, being with someone you are not also physically attracted to can pose a problem. It may make you susceptible to infidelity.

Now I get De-kings point. Good Talk though.

Good vexxy, you get it.
Actually, God created everything and said it's good but ironically, some people believe that they aren't good enough. When you get close to them, you just feel it. Those are the kind of people I refer to as ugly.

Thats true. Wooorrrrdddddd!!!!!!

The real beauty in woman is good conduct and faith in Christ Jesus.

Greatpeter:

The real beauty in woman is good conduct and faith in Christ Jesus.

A woman who is not a christain isnt beautiful ?

She isn't.

You can take me on.

Hmmph.

Today is my birthday, And, Whoever says the world doesn't evolve arround me is a liar, cos today, It does. I'm sixteen

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D-king. A man might want a beautiful woman don't u think God made everyone beautiful? and give point to my homie layi for always saying the right stuff.

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layi. Keep up the good work baby u are good at it. love u much babyboo.

@princess, maybe you didn't get my point. I already said that God created all things beautiful and declared all things good but so many people feel inferior. That is they don't believe in themselves, isn't that ugliness? They keep complaining and squeezing their face. What would you expect from such a person - Ugliness.

sorry i misunderstood u any way u r right.

Well i think beauty is whatever u take it to be.If count it from the facial aspect fine.it is beauty
you take it from the body shape great it is beauty too
BUT WHICH IS MOST IMPORTANT?
I think its the heart, character, soul,the inner mind
a beautiful girl in mind should know how to dress well SO
beauty they say is in the eyes of the beholder
if u see a girl u feel u like she's ok facially, shape and has a good character
she's a BEAUTY.

Well spoken i must say.

i really enjoy this topic,i'll like to drop my own opion to this topic,i think all ladies are beautiful just as layi and co have said but not all ladies are attractive,it's the feature in a ladies that attract you to the those inner beauty in her,but the main fact is that beauty does not really mean good looks alone,the inner beauty matter too

Good one.

Yeah Good one

Real beauty is not just facial beauty only,beauty comes with lot of things
like character
1)How does she react when provoked
2)How does she relate to others
3)How does she walk
4)They way she talk
5)Good shape
6)Her reasoning
7)Intelligent
Respectfull

Beauty from inside is the most important.

No guy wants to marry a lady that can't cook,that can't respect them,that can't care about them................etc but some said they can't marry an ugly lady but one thing i want guys to know is that home traning is what  matters most.when u meet a lady for the very first time,her response  and her manner of approach will make u know the kind stuff she is made of BUT.......... BEAUTY GOES ALONG WITH EVERYTHING take it or leave it............................

Inside beauty matters the most. But looks also matters plz.

layi
i am not saying inside beauty does not matters, infact it is what a guy should look for in a lady but what i am trying to say is that guys don't really get attracted to ladies that are ugly,though if they should get attracted to a beautiful lady and later discover that she is just too poor in everything,they will have no choice than to quit but what i am trying to say is that most guys easily get attracted to beautiful ladies though the relationship might not last but what i can say is that guys should try and study a lady eihter beautiful or ugly b/4 asking her out. ....... hope im making sense here?

True, pretty ladies attract guyz . If they aint beautiful on the inside , they get dumped.
But the problem is that the not-pretty girls who have beauty inside hardly gets attention so who would they proove their inside beauty to?
Its ironical though but i still believe that even a chim look-alike would get her suitor. guys too can look ugly u know?