Fhemmmy:

A man that keep reminding the woman that "he is the man of the house" is surely not a man . . . It is his actions and caring to the woman that would make the woman say, "Thanks God, i have a man" . . . you doing dishes does not make you less of a man.

Fhemmmy:

Anything wrong in he expecting it to happen again?
Please read yourself again, you said, you did it once for love and what happen to doing it often for that same love? or your love is periodical?

yertyr: Sincerely, I wudn't provide money 4 food and still help in preparing d dish... Neva!!! Please don't tell me it's love abeg...
Husband aiding wife in the kitchen. What do you think?

DO.U.LUV.ME?:
[size=46pt] lai lai. A woman's place is in the kitchen. I'm too proud to do any of those things.[/size]

Richy.:


Have you ever done some stuff against your will before? if yes. that is how it feels

Fhemmmy:

So sad that a "Man" could think this way . . .

[size=46pt] wat is sad there??[/size]

davidylan: "men of the house" dont need to go around announcing their status. He shows it by his actions and his woman respects, loves and honors him without question.

Fhemmmy:

Gbammm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Eiregirl: It's 2013!!! My husband helps out in the kitchen, it's not a big deal!

omega25red: your household is your house hold you live your life the way you see fit.

ponder this: what if your wife is very sick and you have children? will you kick her out of her sick bed to cook for you because you gave money for food? Also seeing as women have free will, what if she refused to cook for you because she was mad at you or because she was tired?

just wondering if you would starve.

FREEMINDZ: If any of my frd does this...iwill disown him ;DIf

SORTER: Being Sick/ill is an Exemption...A Man's Job is to provide for D family and not doing some dirty Dishes...

sexkillz: No big deal. Pride has always been the problem with men. What is wrong in helping out the woman you love with all your heart?

Smh.

chiover: Us men have big prob, why won't I cook for my wife? I am saying it loud and clear I can wash my wife's pant and it wont mek me a poor man. Op pls have a rethink though is obvious women are ingrates but we are under obligation to love and pamper them.

iykemanchi:
Dude! Ur case na psycho mental remix

birdman: Im a very good cok so I wouldnt mind helping iut. But good cooks hate it when you interfere with their cooking

I hear you, but there is more to a marriage than being best friends and lovers. While good cooks like occasional help, they generally do not like others interfering and roaming about the kitchen while they are trying to prepare stuff. So while I have no problems cleaning up or cooking (I'm a pretty good cook), I would be suspicious of a woman that lets the husband take majority control of the kitchen. The person who feeds the house is the nurturer and usually closer to the kids, and I don't see how any mature woman would cede that role to the husband, considering he didn't carry any of the kids for 9 months.

Baby mama: Table leg,yomieluv,mr knowitall, davidylan, akatonero,tattoo boy ,Chiover,sexkillz ,it is obvious you folks had a great upbringing.
Where a man knows his manhood is still intact when he cooks or does other chores at home.

Babysitting
Cooking
Doing dishes
Laundry
Vacuuming

Even if it's just one of the above,your wife will appreciate it

SORTER: Guy!You just revealed to all NLDERS....that your Wife provides The Money and U do D chores including washing of Panties.....Ur Mama must be proud

HIV1: To me it is an abomination for a man to help in the kitchen except when the lady is sick or heavily pregnant. Most men nowadays will say no big deal because some are trying to copy oyibo, believe me na inferiority complex dey worry them
. Most others are feeding from women's take home hence they got to obey their oga (their women).As for I am an African man, emi ni omo ara iraye nibi owo gbe nso, omo onisokoto tapa ole o ka, omo gugu rere ninu sile ..... no evil any woman fashioned against me shall prosper, my wife cook for me I won eat.