Afam4eva:
Are you jobless too? Why are you awake or are you into witchcraft?

Afam4eva:
Are you jobless too? Why are you awake or are you into witchcraft?

Idowuogbo:
Same scale? Lmfao! U got jokes! Next!

Switsex: I dnt blame u,most of u hav already give up in life cos if not i dont see any reason why a youth like u wil be running 4rm one thread to d oda just to comment.if at all u are working and nt jobless i dnt see any reason why u shuld be awake by dis time commenting on dis kind of thread.kip wasting ur time

Sweetlemon:
I can see how perfect you are!
Like every other normal human, I have made mistakes before, learned from them and corrected them....... And I'm not ashamed of that honey

lalaosky: LMAO @ caracta following this thread bumper to fender without blinking her eyes, without eating or drinking..lol
this gurl too like aproko...

Idowuogbo: Lmfao! Dis chick is sick in d head mehn! No wedding gist, no updates but she comes bck talking about some undiluted crap. Attention seeking again? Yea! We af hia o! It's U! u! u!

Sweetlemon:

If you look well, I'm actually talking girls learning to love themselves so as to get their men to love them. The thread is not about me.
There are so many hurting ladies around the place and I feel so bad knowing that while I'm deliriously happy, some other babe somewhere is wishing to die. I feel their pain cos I v been there and so I don't just want to keep my happiness to myself. I want to share it round my fellow women and make them see that they can even be happier if only they can first learn to love themselves.
Cheers!

semid4lyfe: Thread is not in Romance section so I can post in it. . .just a question

Who won Miss Nairaland and Mr Nairaland?

semid4lyfe: Thread is not in Romance section so I can post in it. . .just a question

Who won Miss Nairaland and Mr Nairaland?

semid4lyfe: Nothing like that. . .my not posting in the Romance section is just a self-imposed rule.

Caracta:
As in ehn...no be small thing. Few days left.

ijebabe:
Now I know ur plan!

Oahray: Ehya... See e-bullying. Not nice. Sweetlemon opens very entertaining threads, we should give her some credit regardless of the truthfulness of its content.

The first time (the thread where she asked for advice on how to please mr bedguy), it was funny cos she was rude and got served.

After raining ancestor curses in the following thread (he invited me to spend a weekend) she repented, and since then she has been so polite even in the face of insults. How many of us can do that?

[size=46pt]There is still some sense in her post, though she has a lil problem with effective communication.[/size] Even if she flaunts her bedguy (real or not) in your faces, kini big deal?

I think we should stop living in her past threads and give her a break too. Punishing someone twice or more times for the same offense is pure injustice!

lalaosky:


well said....she made some sense in her post, just that she made some mistake with the way she went about it and also the topic IMHO should've read "WHY ARE PEOPLE LIKE THIS" cos' the issue she raised is not gender specific

Sweetlemon: @ Oahray, if you follow my threads @ all as you say you will see that I NEVER NEVER insult or get rude to anyone except that person draws the sword first.
Never!
These people have (repeatedly) called me every name under the sun. For reasons I just cannot fathom. Yet you honestly expect me not to react to the insults? Did I ever tell you that I'm super human
I apologized because I hate having serious quarrels with people whether or not I'm at fault.

Oahray: Ehya... See e-bullying. Not nice. Sweetlemon opens very entertaining threads, we should give her some credit regardless of the truthfulness of its content.

The first time (the thread where she asked for advice on how to please mr bedguy), it was funny cos she was rude and got served.

After raining ancestor curses in the following thread (he invited me to spend a weekend) she repented, and since then she has been so polite even in the face of insults. How many of us can do that?

There is still some sense in her post, though she has a lil problem with effective communication. Even if she flaunts her bedguy (real or not) in your faces, kini big deal?

[s]I think we should stop living in her past threads and give her a break too. Punishing someone twice or more times for the same offense is pure injustice[/s]

lalaosky:


well said....she made some sense in her post, just that she made some mistake with the way she went about it and also the topic IMHO should've read "WHY ARE PEOPLE LIKE THIS" cos' the issue she raised is not gender specific

Oahray: It doesn't matter who draws the sword first, bottom line, you did throw insults at all. Inasmuch as I do not fancy the incessant manner in which you keep getting attacked, I cannot truthfully say you did not deserve at least some of it.

I never said, directly or by implication, that you should not react. On the contrary, I think reaction is a natural law. I'm a bit surprised you have been so polite of recent, and I think its a good thing.

Looks like you are a nice person, but don't be too hasty to tell others all the time how much they don't understand you. It could only mean two things: either you have an issue with communicating or others have a problem with understanding.
The context of your words points to the latter. It has an air of arrogance to it. You should limit how often you say it.

I understand you sweetlemon, believe me, I do.

Sweetlemon:

I'm very sure you saw where I said that both men and women are guilty of this behaviour. I concentrated on men here cos I want to help the women since they are the ones I relate with! Just say that you want to find a loop hole so you can have a reason to back up your friends.
Simple!

Sweetlemon:
There's a difference between arrogance and a healthy self-esteem. Arrogant people insult and look down on others while confident people say things clearly and precisely without insulting but the confident way they do it often intimidates people with self esteem issues of their own, thereby making the the ones with lower confidence hate their guts.
Like I said earlier, try to read my posts like it were written by any other NLer so that you won't allow sentiments becloud your better judgement.
Anyway, very soon, I will have to stop being regular here. I'm just sharing what I have to others who might find them useful.

Idowuogbo:
berra!