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Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Ijeleigbo(m): 9:32pm On Jan 29, 2013
The following 5
signs are all giveaways that you’ve fallen into the
“backup guy” trap. With a quick perusal of the
list below, you should be in a good position to
decipher when to continue your pursuit and
when to walk away with your dignity intact.

1. She rarely return your calls
If a girl is attracted to you, she should be calling
you at least once for every three times you call
her. However, if you don’t hear from her for
weeks or months at a time, and all of a sudden
she wants to hang out, take it as she’s just bored
or is between boyfriends and there’s no one else
to call.

2. She regularly cancels at the last minute
It is certainly fair to cancel plans occasionally for a
legitimate reason, but if she flakes on you
consistently and doesn’t try to be flexible with her
schedule to free up time for you, it shows that
she holds little respect for you at and that she
doesn’t want to commit in case something better
comes up.

3. She teases you along with the simple
intention of keeping you around
She romantically teases you along with things like
“accidental” kisses with the simple intention of
keeping you around so you’ll always be there to
rescue her. She even allows you to sleep in her
bed so she can talk to you all night long about
her feelings.

4. She tells you what a great boyfriend
you’d be… for some lucky girl
This is basically like saying “you have all the
qualities I’m supposed to want in a guy, but for
some reason I find you SêxÜally repulsive.”

5. She talks about other guys while you are
with her
She asks you for advice about different men she’s
attracted to and constantly tells you about all her
problems with them. When a woman you’re
interested in becomes comfortable enough to
openly talk to you about all her problems with
other men and asks you for advice about the
guys she’s attracted to, she doesn’t see you as a
potential lover–You’re in the FRIEND ZONE.

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Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Wisetalk1: 10:14pm On Jan 29, 2013
Attractive topic. Poster this your research is one of a kind. Did u study girlsiology or you are talking from experience? Anyway, nice post, its an eye-opener.

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Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:18pm On Jan 29, 2013
word...ijele igbo, nice one...keep 'em coming

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Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:19pm On Jan 29, 2013
6) when you knacks her and she screams "oga donatus" instead of your name..lol


#just kidding
Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Sijo01(f): 10:20pm On Jan 29, 2013
Why the picture

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Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by omicron(m): 10:26pm On Jan 29, 2013
That No 5 can also indicate a green light! When she constantly tells you of the guys that toasts her and how she keeps rejecting them, then watch out, she is telling you to stop being the slowpoke and make her more than a friend!

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Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:27pm On Jan 29, 2013
Wise-talk:
Attractive topic. Poster this your research is one of a kind. Did u study girlsiology or you are talking from experience? Anyway, nice post, its an eye-opener.

grin This is 2013! We guyz need to shine our eyes wella!
Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:28pm On Jan 29, 2013
Sijo01: Why the picture

Just to feed the eyes a lil bit..... tongue
Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:29pm On Jan 29, 2013
lalaosky: word...ijele igbo, nice one...keep 'em coming

You gat ma back homeboy!
Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:30pm On Jan 29, 2013
omicron: That No 5 can also indicate a green light! When she constantly tells you of the guys that toasts her and how she keeps rejecting them, then watch out, she is telling you to stop being the slowpoke and make her more than a friend!

Yeah you right! Its a two sided coin!!

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Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Desloaaa(f): 11:56pm On Jan 29, 2013
na wa o.even d guys r no longer Learners..e good sha.
Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Ijeleigbo(m): 6:57am On Jan 30, 2013
Desloaaa: na wa o.even d guys r no longer Learners..e good sha.

We know all your tricks! cool
Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by greedie1(f): 7:03am On Jan 30, 2013
Ijele-igbo:


We know all your tricks! cool
u wish tongue
Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Ijeleigbo(m): 7:28am On Jan 30, 2013
gree-die:

u wish tongue

grin Bring it on.....

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Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Mynd44: 7:49am On Jan 30, 2013
Hmmm
Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Abbey2sam(m): 1:33pm On Jan 30, 2013
Not like I need commitment from any girl.........I just wan knack her akpako......dats all

Well tenks for the eye opener
Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by TableLeg(m): 1:34pm On Jan 30, 2013
Absolute crap!
Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Nobody: 2:20pm On Jan 30, 2013
Who d ffuck is the fat ugly sheemale?
Re: Guys: 5 Ways To Know You Are Not Her Main Boyfriend by Ijeleigbo(m): 8:44pm On Jan 30, 2013
Abbey2sam: Not like I need commitment from any girl.........I just wan knack her akpako......dats all

Well tenks for the eye opener

grin Bad Boi! Nurring do you.....

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