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12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:34pm On Mar 01, 2013 |
1. Not real. Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that nice unless they’re a saint. They are busy being nice instead of being real and women instinctively don’t trust that. Bad boys “keep it real.” Nice guys don’t want to upset the apple cart. 2. Respect. No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don’t set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all over him or control him. Women can’t respect a man they can control. No respect equals no attraction. 3. Predictable. Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they’re attracted to people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge. Nice guys are never a challenge. Predictable plus no excitement plus no challenge equals I prefer a bad boy. 4. Mother Nature. Women are designed to nurture. However, instead of doing this with children, they often end up doing it with bad boys. They think their love will save them. Nice guys rarely need to be saved. 5. Fixer-upper. Nice guys don’t usually need to be fixed. Bad boys usually do, so they become a project. Women think if they can “create” the perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if they’re busy fixing someone else, they don’t have to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives. 6. Sp*rm wars. Women are designed to procreate with the strongest possible genes. Bad boys are sending an unconscious message that they have great genes, so they’re not afraid of losing the woman by misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that they don’t think their genes are good enough, so they won’t misbehave. 7. Fear of intimacy. If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment, and that’s scary. 8. Low self-esteem: We don’t feel comfortable with people who treat us better than we treat ourselves. If you don’t think much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing your negative belief. A nice guy is treating you in a way you’re not familiar with. 9. s*x. Women feel a nice guy won’t be good in bed. They sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won’t be able to take control and get the job done. A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver, even though that may not always be the case. 10. Hot. Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn’t hot? I’m sure there are a few, but they wouldn’t be able to get away with half the stuff they did if they didn’t look so good. Meanwhile, when a woman describes someone as a nice guy, she means, “He’s not hot.” 11. Charm. Nice guys don’t always know what to say and are sometimes at a loss for words. Bad boys can be very charming and know exactly what women want to hear. However, they eventually switch over to being selfish. By the time they reveal their true colors, the woman has fallen for them and has a hard time letting go. 12. Protection. Historically, men have protected women — physically and otherwise. Bad boys give the illusion of being able to protect women, while with nice guys, women aren’t so sure. Life is about balance. Most men fall into either the bad boy or the nice guy category. The ideal man is neither, but walks that fine line between the two. Until men learn how to do this, more often than not, women will choose the bad boy, until they realize that his bad qualities outweigh his good ones.
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Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 11:15pm On Mar 01, 2013 |
They end up marrying the bad guy who continues to treat them badly and realise later in life that the good guy is the best gift in a woman's life. |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Caracta(f): 12:25am On Mar 02, 2013 |
What kind of thread is this Arrrrgh! |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by xynerise: 12:28am On Mar 02, 2013 |
@op. You still have chance to be a good guy. There is nothing positive about being a bad guy |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Ijeleigbo(m): 5:54am On Mar 02, 2013 |
xynerise: @op. You still have chance to be a good guy. There is nothing positive about being a bad guy Tell me..... You no be bad guy? |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Ijeleigbo(m): 5:55am On Mar 02, 2013 |
didadavid: They end up marrying the bad guy who continues to treat them badly and realise later in life that the good guy is the best gift in a woman's life. I don't agree with you on this....... |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:59am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Mcheew. |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Ijeleigbo(m): 6:09am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Yield: Mcheew. Mtcheww........ |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Nobody: 6:14am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo: Mcheewww² |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Mynd44: 6:14am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Smh |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Ijeleigbo(m): 6:19am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Yield: LOL...... Just tell me baby, why are you hissing? |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by luvmijeje(f): 6:34am On Mar 02, 2013 |
*waka pass* and staring at the thread with evil eyes. |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Ijeleigbo(m): 6:47am On Mar 02, 2013 |
luvmijeje: *waka pass* and staring at the thread with evil eyes. *draws her back* come here! Who you dey look with that ya evil eye |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by rodeo0070(m): 8:00am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo: *staring from across the thread with a camera* I like where this is going... |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by ovalrose(f): 9:02am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Nice post. But truth is,im something of a tomboy so deep down,i feel as if a macho male challenges me,whereas i can 'roughen' the nice guy... |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Mynd44: 9:07am On Mar 02, 2013 |
ovalrose: Nice post. But truth is,im something of a tomboy so deep down,i feel as if a macho male challenges me,whereas i can 'roughen' the nice guy...Nice.......when the bad one beats you black and blue, don't say men are beast oooo |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Ijeleigbo(m): 9:56am On Mar 02, 2013 |
ovalrose: Nice post. But truth is,im something of a tomboy so deep down,i feel as if a macho male challenges me,whereas i can 'roughen' the nice guy... Yeah! Bad boiz rule!!! |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Ijeleigbo(m): 9:57am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Mynd_44: Free her jor! She needs a real man!! |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Mynd44: 10:16am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo:okay oooo |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:26am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Mynd_44: She needs a man who's physical, who's dominant on bed, who's aggressive and who's got a black heart!!!!!! Even the christian sisters get turned on by this kind of men..... |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Caracta(f): 10:32am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Ijeleigbo(m): 10:38am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Caracta: We know what the girls want! |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Caracta(f): 10:53am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo:I see... |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Mynd44: 11:02am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo:I doubt you know what you want sef |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:04am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Caracta: You're not a learner...... |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:07am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Mynd_44: Don't be a doubting thomas |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Mynd44: 11:15am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Ijele-igbo:Smh |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by luvmijeje(f): 11:21am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Ijele for ur mind,u be bad boy ok o. |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by dubem3(m): 11:25am On Mar 02, 2013 |
unfortunatly for them i think a greater part of this, is true. they just won't admit it. have niyiced how non has outrightly said it does not apply? they are either keeping mute, walking past or viewing from afar. me sef i siddon de look |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:27am On Mar 02, 2013 |
luvmijeje: Ijele for ur mind,u be bad boy ok o. Good boy no dey reign! The kingdom of God suffereth violence and the "bad boiz" take it by force - That's our motto |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by luvmijeje(f): 11:40am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Eeeehn I hail o,bad boy in the house. |
Re: 12 Reasons Why Women Don’t Date Nice Guys by Ijeleigbo(m): 11:45am On Mar 02, 2013 |
luvmijeje: Eeeehn I hail o,bad boy in the house. Welcome to the family!!! |
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