Sonye:

Yeah got it now. I was dating this guy i was so in love with but i never trusted him. I used to enter ABC night bus to Abuja just to take him by surprise. I also used to go through his phone and call back every single female name i come across, telling them to stop calling my boyfriend n that they were just bitches. Then afterwards, i delete their numbers from his phone. I suceeded somehow but i got deeper into what i was doing that  i didn't know when i started calling all his business partners, insulting them and deleting their numbers. It was so bad that business suddenly went slow for him because of that. I look back at those days n laugh 

You sound demented.

bebe2007 contact me at frankinmc@yahoo.com

Peeps,
i can't tell you the (nairaland )name of this friend of mine because he seems to be in the process of doing some other stupid thing (keep posted).


Anyway, the most stupid thing i did for love

There was this girl i really liked but never returns my calls. I saved up for days, traveled three states and booked a hotel room near to her uni just to tell her how i feel about her. it turns out, she was writting exams and i only saw her for a few minutes so i did not get to say anything. Then by the time she came back from holidays, i was over her.

Well we are still in love so it's doesn't matter if it sound stupid.

We both got a tattoo of each other middle names

spent my 1st three pay checks on my EX, but couldnt get the KOKO, still on the fast lane for it thou

@puker, contact you, why? for what? explain better then maybe i would ok.

@Waxxy, keep us posted on this guy o! e be like say na state mugu e be O!!! haba some of us done wise up now, why has he not learnt from his mistakes.

@sonye, why were you doing those things? thats weird! really crazy. I hope you never ever do them again. It was so crude and cruel.

@ ThiefofHearts- DEMENTED such a harsh word. I thought we were talking about the most stupid thing we have done for love so i accepted what i did was stupid. Its past now though. I am a big girl now and don't even want to think about it again

@Waxxy,

A guy(a very good guy) did exactly that(what you did) for me once when i was in school. I really felt sorry for him in his own case, he didnt get over me that easy. Thank God he is married now. I really tried to love him but i just couldnt. Shit happens!

** crashes into thread **

** views topic **

** smiles and lays back to reminisce for a while **

I guess the most stupid thing I've ever done for love is to love a girl and let her know I love her so much despite her telling me NO! And am still being Stupid about it

bebe2007:

@Waxxy,

A guy(a very good guy) did exactly that(what you did) for me once when i was in school. I really felt sorry for him in his own case, he didnt get over me that easy. Thank God he is married now. I really tried to love him but i just couldnt. Shit happens!

How wicked can you be, wasted  the poor guy's efforts Well i guess its payback time, so how bout u pay back to me, 

About my guy yeah, he's my best mate but i have to admit that he is ultimately foolish with girls (He knows). Ive not even told you half of what he's done. I may convince him to come tell some of em' on this thread. If shame no go catch am

@Waxxy, i had been dealt with severally before this nice guy came around(read through the thread). I guess i was already hardened by the time he came. That was payback to the male folk for me. This mate of yours, he has to share this treat to my end o! i think i deserve that kind of Alhaji Bringy-Bringy now o! to make up for all that i have lost to men.


Just remembered the most stupid of all the things i ever did, remember my ex Boyfriend (the one that was out of job and broke:read thru thread) he came to me after awhile and asked if he could use my addy for one dodgy credit card thingy, being the Mumu that i was, i agreed o! the deal went through and he got some thousands of pounds and guess what, he didnt give me a PENNY and I NEVER ASKED. MY ADDRESS got BLACKLISTED. How stupid can one be!!!!!!!! people sell their addy for such dodgy deals for large sums of money but i gave mine free of charge all for LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Men! guys can take advantage,

once, i fell 4 a lass, shes so fly,wen we were back in d days, cld u b live d rain was fallin heavily, urs sincerely was holdin d umbrella ova her head nd myself was receiving thunderous slaps 4rm d rain , not knowin, i was escortin her to guy s hose 4 sum sum u kno, 4rm then onwards turn a new leaf

bebe2007 me mugu? Hahahahah Ok thanks all the same. But thats not the right word gal.

My boyfriend was dating this chick and the girl took her time to make me miserable while i was in school.She would show up with a group of her friends when am in a lecture class and they will be pointing at me and laughing. so one day i was at my cousins salon and the chick came to retouch her hair, she left to go and pick sometn. then we mixed her relaxer wit hair removing cream. she turned bald. i felt bad afterwards but she stopped messing with me.

I sent my boyfriend 12 Red Roses.

nosillA xx

@puker,

When and how did i call u mugu?? except you are the friend waxxy was talking about then. Are you?

Sonye:

@ ThiefofHearts- DEMENTED such a harsh word. I thought we were talking about the most stupid thing we have done for love so i accepted what i did was stupid. Its past now though. I am a big girl now and don't even want to think about it again

Actually it's the right word considering you did say you still "laugh" about it. Im sure he's doesnt.

@aisha2, will never mess with you men!!!!devious!!!!

Uhmnnn

@puker,

I wasn't actually refering to you? You no worse reach this guy.

Or maybe

@Bebe2007, he's in lagos,are u? He's a real nice bloke like most of us but often too niceto my annoyance. or maybe its because im a kind of guy that don't believe in excess emotions

One time he bought this girl that openly said that it could never happen between them a teddy bear worth about N5,000 (6 years ago), and i was supposed to give it to her all the way in Abuja, i didnt.

tseye:

once, i fell 4 a lass, shes so fly,when we were back in d days, cld u b live d rain was fallin heavily, urs sincerely was holdin d umbrella ova her head nd myself was receiving thunderous slaps from d rain , not knowin, i was escortin her to guy s hose 4 sum sum u kno, from then onwards turn a new leaf

this kind of thing happened to another one of my boys once. He and this girlhe really fancied walked a long way to see her Uncle (sugar daddy), the man picked the girl and they went out while my guy had to walk a long distance home alone at night.
Luckily for him, he met some of us halfway and so it wasnt that bad.

Hm.

Memories, memories!

If not for the fact that I class love as one of the most neccesary stupidities of life I should be a HARD MAN today!

Ai mo iye Mugulations that this prize mugu has served up to the plate of femininity

However, I never felt stupid afterwards! Why? well, because I'm a natural believer in 'Hope for the best, expect the worst'. I have NEVER been a mugu without predicting EXACTLY what the girl was going to do beforehand! But still doing it anyway because how can a man survive without love, enh?

Once my sister tried to warn me about one gold-digging commando that was about to 'clean me out'. I took the words riiiiight out of her mouth! Told her exactly what the girl had in mind! Amazed, she asked me why I was still with her. I couldn't answer! And I still can't today! I just feel that real love is when you allow someone to take you for a FOOL and accept it with a BIG SMILE on your face!

lololol. Never got taken for what I couldn't give, though

Hmmm, except for one time in uni sha. This girl really dealt with me :O

So, @waxxy I say let your friend be! That sounds very much like me when I'm at my best (worst?) abi these days it is so rare for a girl to actually stir that love bug in our bosoms so when she does, if she turns out to be a money grubbing golddigger, so be it!

Love demands suspension of judgement and caution.Sometimes being a mugu is a metaphor for being in love

you knoooooow

dakmanzero:

I just feel that real love is when you allow someone to take you for a FOOL and accept it with a BIG SMILE on your face!

I sincerely like this quote, it holds true. Nice one Dakmanzero

Maybe thats why those of us that refuse to act a fool hardly ever fall in love

Rename this forum, it should be called, "mugu/maga's of the century,identify yourselves here" no wonder them talk say Love blind. Me self don fall mugu b4, really stupid,holla later,

I will call mine stupid maybe romantic. we love each other but we are cousins, and not knowing what to do we decided to keep it a secret. There was a day the whole crib was filled, we were palying games when all of a sudden we kissed without realising it, we continued the game untill his friend tapped him and asked what he just did with me, he says "it was the rule of the game, who so ever looses gets a kiss from the winner"

Actually it's the right word considering you did say you still "laugh" about it. I'm sure he's doesnt.

For your information, we both laugh at those days cos we are still very good friends

i dont know who sang that melodious song "why do fools fall in love?" love is a great thing but foolishness is another matter.

a friend arranged ticket and visa for a girl friend to visit him. we know she left lagos in september but her plane is yet to land in heathrow 3 months later. we told him he was being silly but he was born in the day so doesn't have to scrutinize most things very well as those of us born in the night.

foolishness is not a virtue.

happy new year everyone

i don't know who sang that melodious song "why do fools fall in love?" love is a great thing but foolishness is another matter.

a friend arranged ticket and visa for a girl friend to visit him. we know she left lagos in september but her plane is yet to land in heathrow 3 months later. we told him he was being silly but he was born in the day so doesn't have to scrutinize most things very well as those of us born in the night.

OMG !!

That guy must be truly in love.

Romance sef. . . **signs**