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Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by andyanders: 6:10pm On Apr 05, 2013
Well you can do that right away and expect us to read your obituary like Cynthia's case of blessed memory.

Fool-ish holligan like you.
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by jpphilips(m): 6:56pm On Apr 05, 2013
Rhymez: Here is a true story of a confused friend of mine.

"I cant sleep as I type this cos I think I have involved myself in a mess.

I met this lady of 29 in a social networking site and she told me she had a problem of miscarriage which I advised her on what to do to avoid having it again. I never knew she fell in love with me in the process. She always complain to me how her husband always beat her and even ra.ped her right in front of her children. This is a continuous process in her husband's house. She wants a divorce but I keep begging her to be patience but the continuous beating she gets from her husband makes my advice sounds stupid. Now she is threatening to leave her house and run to mine and spend 2days before her husband kills her. She has no other place to run to. Should I harbour her? Is this right?

mind your freaking buisness.

is your house the police headquarters? you ve not told us what is happening in your loins "otule".
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by Rhymez(m): 7:46pm On Apr 05, 2013
@Replies. Gosh! undecided. Easy guys. The case is dismissed.
You guys should stop criticizing me angry. Na me do am?
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by CHIMUMMY(f): 7:59pm On Apr 05, 2013
Please run as ur legs can carry u. It mit be a plan btw her and d so called hussy. Bet me if u eva try iit u will pay thru ur nose for dat siingular act. BEWARE!
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by laivwire(m): 8:28pm On Apr 05, 2013
quote author=smartchoice]harbour her please, and get a one way ticket to jail/morgue/intensive care unit of an hospital...CHOICE IS YOURS! undecided[/quote] infact to kola adewuyi's Nnkan nbe cheesy
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by ImpactWorld(m): 9:40pm On Apr 05, 2013
The only reason this story could be true is because some people can be so careless even in their thoughts!
Please stay away from 'anything' married. It is not worth it. There are countless single ladies out there.
Now, u wouldn't be happy if some man harbored ur wife for any reasons, would u?
As for those suggesting lodging her in a hotel, that is just as bad if not worse.
It is also wrong to arrange her stay with ur lady friend or family member, etc because she is married!
The point is u should not be 'personally' linked to wherever she gets to stay


The only options are HER 'OWN' friends or family ,public institutions like NGOs, the police, churches or mosques, etc
If needed, u can SEND her money to make her movement easier.
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by Abrantie: 10:31pm On Apr 05, 2013
Go ahead and "harbour" her well well cheesy
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by emmatok(m): 10:45pm On Apr 05, 2013
Rhymez: @Replies. Gosh! undecided. Easy guys. The case is dismissed.
You guys should stop criticizing me angry. Na me do am?


But has this your guy seen the married woman all.
All I read is that they meet and talk online.
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by Abrantie: 10:45pm On Apr 05, 2013
Ok, let me get serious here.

OP, what physical or circumstantial evidence do you have of her abuse? Are you just going by what she told you or not?

Forgive me but something just doesn't add up with your story.

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Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Apr 05, 2013
Be careful cos sometimes, a shoulder to lean on might become a d1ck to ride on

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Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by Localamos(m): 11:08pm On Apr 05, 2013
This story stinks of fiction.

Bull sh1t.
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by lioncoolst(m): 11:09pm On Apr 05, 2013
Yes, you should. So that you too can become distressedundecided .
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by blessed4ever: 6:07am On Apr 06, 2013
He or She that commits sin is of the devil, I John 3:8 (I John 3:cool. If you are into lying, cheating, bitterness, keeping malice, pride, manifesting anger, quarreling, unforgiveness, hatred, envy, contention, strife, bitterness, cursing,speaking evil of others, taking or giving bribe, selfishness, deception, kidnapping, smuggling, falsification of documents, swearing, extortion and other sinful character dispositions, you must repent.

Such evil and wicked character will hinder the manifestation of God’s abundant blessings upon your life. If you are into masturbation, fornication, adultery, prostitution (private or public), patronizing prostitutes, abortion, lesbianism, homosexualism, bestiality,watching pornography (I Corinthians 6:9-10), immoral thoughts or any form of immorality, you need to repent.

Whatever be the area of your sin, you must repent and make amends. Are you into idolatry? Are you into cultism, whether open or secret cult? Do you practice witchcraft or Yoga? Do you smoke cigarette or cannabis? Do you sell them or offer them to people? Do you smoke or sniff hard drugs such as cocaine, heroin, captain black, hashish or other banned drugs or snuff? Are you lusting - lusting after men or women, covetous, alcohol drinking? You must repent and give your life to Jesus Christ.

Are you into marry and divorce? Then you are sinner. Are you married to more than one person? Repent!! Marriage is between a man and a woman. Marriage is for better and for worse until death separates (Matthew 19:3-6). ‘Wherefore they are no more two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together let no man put asunder (separate)’. Cheating on your wife or husband is sin. Proverbs 28: 13 says, ‘‘He that covers his sins shall not prosper...You must repent of them, confess and forsake them.
Are you into worldliness? Don’t you know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? So, you must stop bleaching your body or painting your mouth, eyes, hands and legs or fixing attachments, weave-on, earrings (Genesis 35:2-4), bangles, chains and frying or perming your hair. Tattooing your body is satanic. Are you one of those that put on nude dresses, short skirts, transparent dresses to seduce men or women (A seducer is a Sinner)

I am a Chosen
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by Exodus2k(m): 8:41am On Apr 06, 2013
your intention is to help but remember dat dis might be a plan work btw d woman and her husband, so please save ur name from shame and reject all her advances. flee for ur own good
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by Nobody: 9:39am On Apr 06, 2013
Bigcake: U dey find excuse to fvck free toto abi? Shebi she no get Church members? No relatives but na only u she come get, ehyaaaaaa.
lmao
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by Amazonikky: 12:36pm On Apr 06, 2013
my dear if u rili want to hlp her pls tel her pick courage nd face her family nd narate her ordeal to them i believe they ve beta solutn 4 her.
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by Summersland(m): 1:41pm On Apr 06, 2013
Mumu guy,mr technical adviser grin grin



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Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by GamblinQueen: 9:17pm On Apr 06, 2013
Rhymez: Here is a true story of a confused friend of mine.

"I cant sleep as I type this cos I think I have involved myself in a mess.

I met this lady of 29 in a social networking site and she told me she had a problem of miscarriage which I advised her on what to do to avoid having it again. I never knew she fell in love with me in the process. She always complain to me how her husband always beat her and even ra.ped her right in front of her children. This is a continuous process in her husband's house. She wants a divorce but I keep begging her to be patience but the continuous beating she gets from her husband makes my advice sounds stupid. Now she is threatening to leave her house and run to mine and spend 2days before her husband kills her. She has no other place to run to. Should I harbour her? Is this right?

It is not your place to offer this woman refuge.
If you bring her to your house her husband will show up on your doorstep and blow your brains out.
If things are that bad in her home, she need to find refuge for herself AND her children.
Life is too short to mix yourself up into someone else's drama.
Is she worth you possibly losing your life?
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by NLGwoodey: 5:32am On Apr 07, 2013
Save yourself!

You want to help based on her own side of the story abi?
Like you never know some women who seek attention more than anything

My people has a saying that A man that is dancing to the tune of a woman's flute, na backslide e dey
take enter devil house.

What if the hubby has a mean mug? Don't die over what you don't know.

Why she no run go for im papa or mama house?

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Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by Nobody: 7:47am On Apr 08, 2013
Rhymez:
she insisted they will stay together in the hotel.
are there no women shelter homes in Nigeria where she can be taken care of?
Re: Should I Accommodate A Distressed Married Woman In My House? by Nobody: 9:32am On Apr 08, 2013
shocked saviour de saver!

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