Fellow nairalanders am not the whining type but as i have reached marriageable age, i have found a few things i don't like i meet very beautiful ladies every day, the very beautiful ones i have found out don't have a lot of time on the hands for commitment and the rudiments of everyday life and the ones that have the patience for a relationship are also not that very attractive and beautiful. so in short why are our ladies so zig zag. i don't want marry an unattractive woman for a wife and have a beautiful voluptuous lady as a mistress outside my home.