i am not surprised that most independent women are not married...the truth is no African man can live with most of them. They are so rude, so bossy headed and bitchy and very mean. It's so bad that they think that no man can tell them what to do.

pls am i the only one who has noticed this?

Let me ask the minister of economy.

They ain't really like that. Beneath they are very soft.. ...Try getting close n you will see it.


Chaiiii falconey stole my space oh. oya come n give me back.

1st to comment, any preceeding comment iz a counterfeit!!! #bamogrules

Because they are humans like you and me so they are free to use it. (FIB)
And it provide avenue for cease fire.
It provide avenue for for peace to reign

They are arrogant cos they're independent now.....they don't give a damn!!! but not all possess those qualities anyway. I also think that a true African man should be able to live with any kind of woman whether bitchy, rude, bossy headed e.t.c

The times are changing, so well, keep up or shut up.

I can't believe that some men are complaining about spending either

The woman of days long gone used to be submissive, docile etc because the man of that time took care of his responsibilities, so there was really no need for her to be bitchy or whatever. Some men today just whine & whine about the same things that their forefathers did without much coaxing. Who can not be bitchy to a bytch ?

Women have taken more responsibility with the years eg.building careers of their own etc, while some of the men have become poor, pathetic nags who groan & moan about every single thing that the gentleman of the past would have done without the extra lip service given by some "men" today.

So deal. Or go find a boyfriend

most of dem are not mean within, de do that to command respect nd fear buh if u get close to dem u will notice dat de r rily soft nd kindhearted.

mizkeleke:
They ain't really like that. Beneath they are very soft.. ...Try getting close n you will see it.


Chaiiii falconey stole my space oh. oya come n give me back.

ma'am am so sorry don't worry I will make it up to you.

sinaj:
most of dem are not mean within, de do that to command respect nd fear buh if u get close to dem u will notice dat de r rily soft nd kindhearted.

Do u care for orijin or Malta guiness?
Love you post
Love ur Dp although u dey bone
Love ur moniker
Love your............ ehm ehm you

Power intoxicates. A woman was not created to be the head but be submissive. When a woman is independent, she has too much control outside her jurisdiction of purpose. Therefore she has no clue how to manage her power. #SlashMe

jadaugo:
i am not surprised that most independent women are not married...the truth is no African man can live with most of them. They are so rude, so bossy headed and bitchy and very mean. It's so bad that they think that no man can tell them what to do.

pls am i the only one who has noticed this?

Cos they don't request or collect money frm we MEN.

Orijin101:

Do u care for orijin or Malta guiness?
Love you post
Love ur Dp although u dey bone
Love ur moniker
Love your............ ehm ehm you

i care for orijin buddy, chilled one

op its so true, see money has the capability of changing ones orientation.when women portray this kinda behaviour its mostly because of the kind of money that the possess,it make them trample on people especially people below there financial status and believe me if u are a man/guy and their income is above urs,the will feel without them you are nothing. because without you in there life they can still do better. that's why as a guy you need to also strive hard to be ahead of her #speaking from experience.

NB; give a woman an ounce of power and she will rule over you.

sinaj:
i care for orijin buddy, chilled one

Can or bottled?

Because most of them are feminist wannabes.

Orijin101:

Can or bottled?

bottle um...du u weed ?

sinaj:
bottle um...du u weed ?

tufiakwa, olorun maje, baramu ina yanagua, God forbid ........ weed kee
I only take Igbo and datz all.

BTW do you want the orijin with straw or without ?

independent is a buzz word used by people who think it's a big deal to pay their own bills and can wipe their own a** without assistance.

Wetin go even carry me go near independent lady. I mean a real independent woman, not all these nairaland babes that form independent lady when e be say na man subscribe the data she dey use post for am.

Relationships to the best of my knowledge is a partnership where both members love, respect, and above all compromise with each other for the betterment of the union.

Independent lady on the other hand is simply a code phrase for a stubborn, entitled, selfish, and uncompromising woman.

These women are too busy being exactly what they say they are "independent" and that’s the direct opposite of what relationships are all about.

The worst part of it is that anyone who doesn’t agree with it or understand them is just a controlling, patriarchal knuckle-dragger who is living in the Dark Ages. They are loud and proud. these women enjoy being combative with men and they seek out every opportunity to argue, berate, and belittle men.


I was at a friend's house one day, his girl told him that she was going out with one guy like that, when my man tried to express his discomfort she flared up and started preaching how an adult female is free to keep male friends.

I asked her "what if fred decides to take out his hot secretary on a date"

Immediately the super iron lady said "He better not".


Silly bunch of selfish people.

Orijin101:

tufiakwa, olorun maje, baramu ina yanagua, God forbid ........ weed kee
I only take Igbo and datz all.

BTW do you want the orijin with straw or without ?

um...i wish u d xme.
i wnt it with igbo nd witat straw.

Tallesty1:


Independent lady on the other hand is simply a code phrase for a stubborn, entitled, selfish, and uncompromising woman.

These women are too busy being exactly what they say they are "independent" and that’s the direct opposite of what relationships are all about..

You might be right in some ways but not exactly true. Guess you've observed few bossy ones that made you to your own conclusions.

TrishaP:

You might be right in some ways but not exactly true. Guess you've observed few bossy ones that made you to your own conclusions.

You are right.


It is some not all.

sinaj:
um...i wish u d xme.
i wnt it with igbo nd witat straw.

I'm not swearing for u na i only said "God forbid" in igbo, yoruba and hausa

so, which kind of igbo should i add? wet igbo, cuban igbo, ajegunle igbo or which one?

Orijin101:

I'm not swearing for u na i only said "God forbid" in igbo, yoruba and hausa

so, which kind of igbo should i add? wet igbo, cuban igbo, ajegunle igbo or which one?

lol ok.
um... cuban igbo will b kul, avnt had dat in a lng tym.

sinaj:
lol ok.
um... cuban igbo will b kul, avnt had dat in a lng tym.

should i pour it directly inside the orijin or roll it up with rizla for you to weed?

Orijin101:

should i pour it directly inside the orijin or roll it up with rizla for you to weed?

dnt pour it directly, roll di weed wid a dutch plus a rizla too

sinaj:
dnt pour it directly, roll di weed wid a dutch plus a rizla too

how do you want me to serve u? would u like a lighter or matches or sparks to light it up?

OP! never allow any woman trample on your confidence as a man. these women you talk about are intoxicated with their money. work hard and make sure you are not reeling in the mire of poverty yourself. they may be mean because of the power they wield by virtue of their status. but some of them are really tenderhearted when you get to know them personally.
there's always a soft spot in the heart of every woman, yes! every woman, even the toughest of them. touch that spot and she thaws like unclad ice.

naijaboiy:
i used to have this mentality before,,but right now it's utter trash to me.

Women who are "independent" and have things going for themselves are really nothing special.

Get close to them and you'll see. They all have their lock and a certain man has that key to it.

When he unlocks it,,the rest is History.

you nailed it bro!