chikk:

Yeah. They don't and I never said they do. Just a few pointers to help people understand their partners and make their relationships work. The perfection of every relationship depends on the individuals involved.

poshdiva: If they would cheat they would cheat. Doing all the above would only make them feel guilty about cheating but won't stop them

chikk: Keeping a man faithful is not as difficult as it may appear at first. For starters, most of them want to be true to their spouses, but for that extra boost to ensure fidelity, try these steps.

Respect him as you would want him to respect you

Remind him from time to time why he's your man . In other words, take the time to make him feel special as if he's the only one in your life. Tell him how handsome he is every now and then.

Validate your man on a daily basis. Whether he works outside of the house, is currently unemployed or a stay-at-home Dad, (if you're married) your man still needs to feel like a man. You know he is, make sure he knows it as well.

Appreciate all the things he does for you
. It doesn't matter whether those things are big or small, they are worth, at the least, a thank you.

Spice things up every once in a while. Tell him your fantasies, listen to his. Don't be afraid to initiate romance.

Live, love and Laugh. Laugh often with him, not at him. Tell him a joke that you think he might like or clip out comics from the newspaper and place them on the fridge,send text or e-mail messages.

Listen first, and then talk. Let him finish what he has to say before you interrupt. Ask questions if you're not sure about what he said. Do not go with the general notion; all women are nags. Make a difference. Listen more, talk less.

Be his biggest supporter! Men don't like to admit it, but they need reassurances as well. Showing him that you support him and are there with him through day to day struggles will help to ensure that he doesn't have a need for someone else to fill that need.

Don't lose your own self respect. Stop blaming him for everything and understand that some things are beyond your or his control.

Feed him. Men love when a woman cooks for them like mum does. You don't have to cook exactly like her but, it's the action that counts. Women claim men are dogs but remember if you feed a dog he will never leave home!!!

Hold and Cuddle your man, his day can be just as bad as your day. Remember they
are big kids and when they got upset when they were younger, mums held them close.

When leaving him alone make sure he has everything needed. Remember you are
already dressed and ready to go and he is capable of getting those things. It also shows you care about his needs or wants as well.

Don't ever baby him. He will pull away from you. He needs to feel like he's the provider. If you're married, take the family budget to give him what he likes. It's the effort that counts.

Work on yourself. Learn to appear neat and appealing to tour man at all times. Take your time to get those kinky and sexy undies, night wears and dressing that will make him want you more.

Remember, if a man has all he needs in a woman, he will never go looking for another. Be everything your man wants.

chikk: Keeping a man faithful is not as difficult as it may appear at first. For starters, most of them want to be true to their spouses, but for that extra boost to ensure fidelity, try these steps.

Respect him as you would want him to respect you

Remind him from time to time why he's your man . In other words, take the time to make him feel special as if he's the only one in your life. Tell him how handsome he is every now and then.

Validate your man on a daily basis. Whether he works outside of the house, is currently unemployed or a stay-at-home Dad, (if you're married) your man still needs to feel like a man. You know he is, make sure he knows it as well.

Appreciate all the things he does for you
. It doesn't matter whether those things are big or small, they are worth, at the least, a thank you.

Spice things up every once in a while. Tell him your fantasies, listen to his. Don't be afraid to initiate romance.

Live, love and Laugh. Laugh often with him, not at him. Tell him a joke that you think he might like or clip out comics from the newspaper and place them on the fridge,send text or e-mail messages.

Listen first, and then talk. Let him finish what he has to say before you interrupt. Ask questions if you're not sure about what he said. Do not go with the general notion; all women are nags. Make a difference. Listen more, talk less.

Be his biggest supporter! Men don't like to admit it, but they need reassurances as well. Showing him that you support him and are there with him through day to day struggles will help to ensure that he doesn't have a need for someone else to fill that need.

Don't lose your own self respect. Stop blaming him for everything and understand that some things are beyond your or his control.

Feed him. Men love when a woman cooks for them like mum does. You don't have to cook exactly like her but, it's the action that counts. Women claim men are dogs but remember if you feed a dog he will never leave home!!!

Hold and Cuddle your man, his day can be just as bad as your day. Remember they
are big kids and when they got upset when they were younger, mums held them close.

When leaving him alone make sure he has everything needed. Remember you are
already dressed and ready to go and he is capable of getting those things. It also shows you care about his needs or wants as well.

Don't ever baby him. He will pull away from you. He needs to feel like he's the provider. If you're married, take the family budget to give him what he likes. It's the effort that counts.

Work on yourself. Learn to appear neat and appealing to tour man at all times. Take your time to get those kinky and sexy undies, night wears and dressing that will make him want you more.

Remember, if a man has all he needs in a woman, he will never go looking for another. Be everything your man wants.

Bootylicious: I wish i had known dis years back.. I could not help but share on my website and in courtesy of you http://abidemionline.com/relationship/how-to-stop-your-man-from-cheating/

Mingle87: All men r bloody cheaters

joanpinkie: well everybody seems to be saying all men cheat. All dont cheat, but if u hav bn treatd bad in d past i beg of u let go of d past, u can love n be loved again, who knws dis tym around u myt meet somone dat dont cheat. men dat dont cheat most tyms r nt fun to be wit. I love my guy and he loves me, i notice dat he cheats on me wit a girl, but blive me , it wldnt take him tym to come bck n start pleading. I knw my way thru his hrt.

joanpinkie: men dat dont cheat most tyms r nt fun to be wit.

poshdiva:

And as for your statement saying men who don't cheat aren't fun to be with PLEASE tell me YOU ARE KIDDING!!! Men who don't cheat are more fun to be with because you have their undivided attention.

baba dey:

Don't make mistake babe, nothing is perfect. There is no perfect relationship.

coefoe:
Wait o! My fiance looks at other women in public... Does it mean that he has the tendency to cheat? I used to think it's normal o... Ah! Lol

DigitalSignal: Chai, I'm proud to be a man! chikk, my dear, where can I find a lady that can do just as you wrote up there? I'd have no course for looking outside if ladies would just be like this! lol. I love your post and I hope you're a replica of the picture your post is painting.

chikk:

where have you been?

DigitalSignal:

Oh dear, I've been around. ...just been a bit busy lately. Hope you're fine.

Mingle87: All men r bloody cheaters

with that face of yours

I can understand why all men would definately cheat on you


left alone to me, i wont even touch you with a 100meter pole

DigitalSignal: Chai, I'm proud to be a man! chikk, my dear, where can I find a lady that can do just as you wrote up there? I'd have no course for looking outside if ladies would just be like this! lol. I love your post and I hope you're a replica of the picture your post is painting.

thats my girl u hitting on

pleep:

lol im no oracle

but that is very disrespectful. If hes doing in your prescense, i'd say talk to him about it

Too bad i do it as well

or maybe im used to it

190:


thats my girl u hitting on

190:


thats my girl u hitting on

byvan: Akuko na egwu,ukwunnu buriri ukwunnu,onweghi ngwota.