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5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by Nobody: 7:13pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
5 Signs You're Dating A Womanizer It all starts innocently enough. You've just met a man who, at least on the surface, seems to be your dream guy. He's attractive, funny, charming, successful and his smile -- let alone the thought of his caress -- makes you weak in the knees. You go out on a date or two, and he's nothing short of perfect. He treats you like a queen, compliments your sense of style and tells you all of the things that you've been longing to hear from a guy. So how do you know this guy's the real thing and not just some womanizer who's going to disappear after your first slumber party? While the only way to know for sure is to pass the test of time, here are a few red flags that would definitely indicate your new man's a womanizer: 1. He has a reputation. If your girlfriends have warned you that he uses women and throws them away, you need to listen to them and know he's most likely a womanizer. Granted, there's a small chance that you are the woman who can change him, but even if you do, you'll just wind up spending the rest of your relationship worrying he's going to revert back to his old womanizing ways. It's very likely a guy like this will. 2. He moves fast. Before you've even had a chance to meet his friends and family, he's telling you that you're the woman of his dreams and he's been waiting his whole life just to find you. While this is certainly exciting and thrilling, how could he possibly know that this quickly? It's much more likely that he's just in love with love (best case), or he's just trying to get one thing from you (you know what it is). And this womanizer wants to reach his goal as soon as possible. 3. He's over the top with the romance. We all love romantic gestures, whether it be a hand-written poem or a bouquet of flowers delivered to our desks at work, but if your guy constantly wants to jet you off to the islands for a romantic weekend or often surprises you with lavish jewelry, then he's most likely had plenty of practice. While you might be thinking that you're just graciously accepting his gifts, to him, these come with expectations on your part. 4. He only has eyes for you… and anything else in a skirt. If you notice that your guy is checking out other women, or worse, flirting with the waitress, hostess, barista, etc., then he's most likely a womanizer. As he's telling you how beautiful you are and that you're exactly the type of woman for him, he's already thinking about how the woman that just walked by fits the same description. He's not lying -- the womanizer feels this way about every woman that strikes his fancy -- you just happen to be part of the (very populated) crowd. 5. He seems too good to be true. He's just a little too smooth, a little too charming, a little too perfect and that little voice in your head is telling you he's done this before, probably many times over. While you may be tempted to ignore that nagging little voice and head upstairs to his apartment, just know that your instincts are more attuned to the situation than you think. It's likely that as he's telling you over coffee that he has a busy day ahead and can't spend more time with you, you'll be hitting yourself wishing you had listened to your gut last night. Of course, this isn't an all-inclusive list, nor should any of these traits be considered an immediate deal breaker. However, if any of the above are hitting close to home, your best bet is to take things slow and see if your guy survives the test of time. True womanizers rarely can. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/04/22/womanizer-signs-5-warning_n_3095818.html 9 Likes |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by Nobody: 7:16pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Surely noted! Some people say too much of everything is bad. 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by Nobody: 7:17pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
CFCfan: Surely noted!lol! abi o! |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by LondonGuy1: 7:25pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
berem: 5 Signs You're Dating A Womanizer .... sweeery are u light skin by any chance? |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by Nobody: 7:30pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
London Guy: Mr Cork has come again |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by Nobody: 7:40pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
And when you dont fall for their moves just watch them explode in self justified entitlement which then merely confirms the truth of what you see. 4 Likes |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by skydeep(f): 7:50pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Hmmmmm |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by greedie1(f): 7:53pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
London Guy:and u had to quote all dat bcz? 1 Like |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by saintvc(m): 7:55pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
tired of list on nairaland 4 Likes |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by Nobody: 7:58pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
This is an anatema to bobo's. Noted! |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by tpia5: 8:10pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
If its too good to be true, it usually is. This has almost always turned out to be correct time and time again. Lord have mercy, smh. |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by tpia5: 8:11pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
saintvc: tired of list on nairaland I get your point, but how person for do these days. |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by Nobody: 8:13pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
berem: lol! abi o! The most important ingredient in a romantic relationship is honesty. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by tpia5: 8:16pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
And also absence of sneakiness. What was that movie by julia roberts where she and the guy were both spies or something like that. I didnt see either of them condemning the other. |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by modak: 8:25pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Do you mean 'Pretty Women' by Julia Roberts |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by 190: 9:09pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
dafuq is this |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by Nobody: 9:19pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
London Guy:No am not Mr. Corky |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by Nobody: 9:20pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
190: dafuq is thisguilty conscience fears no accusation. don't tell me you are guilty! |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by Nobody: 9:23pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
~vicky~: |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by 190: 9:25pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
berem: guilty conscience fears no accusation. don't tell me you are guilty! well am Guilty so what |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by LondonGuy1: 9:57pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
berem: No am not Mr. Corky ok...u fine? |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by tpia5: 10:01pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
modak: Do you mean 'Pretty Women' by Julia Roberts duplicity starring julia roberts and clive owen. Duplicity is a 2009 American romantic spy film written and directed by Tony Gilroy, and starring Clive Owen and Julia Roberts. The plot follows two corporate spies with a romantic history who collaborate to carry out a complicated con. Ray and Claire attempt to sell the formula to a Swiss company for $35 million. Meanwhile, Garsik tells his shareholders that they are in the final stages of testing for a product that cures baldness. The Swiss, however, say the formula is a fraud. The scene cuts to ten days earlier, where Claire and Ray were practicing the act they would present when it was revealed that Ray would be Claire's handler. Unbeknownst to them, there was a hidden microphone in their room monitoring them. From the beginning, Claire and Ray were being played by Tully and his people. Pam Frailes (Kathleen Chalfant) from Equikrom was really working for Burkett & Randle all along, Partiz was used as the bait, Bauer staged stealing the formula, and the formula never existed at all. It was all a trick to get Garsik to announce he had a revolutionary product, which was in fact just a regular skin cream, and which would ruin Garsik and Equikrom. The film ends with Ray and Claire realizing they have been played by Tully. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by tpia5: 10:04pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
1 Like |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by LondonGuy1: 10:07pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
tpia@:...sweery, when waz the last time anyone dated u?..can we discuss? |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by Nobody: 10:47pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
*Yawns* |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by 190: 11:14pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
London Guy: tpia@:...sweery, when waz the last time anyone dated u?..can we discuss? |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by ayobase(m): 11:30pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
If u like make it 20 points, u people will never cease from being PLAYED.....unless u change ur mentality, and stop being smart! 3 Likes |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by tpia5: 11:31pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
^explain, plz. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by bknight: 2:02am On Apr 23, 2013 |
London Guy: tpia@:...sweery, when waz the last time anyone dated u?..can we discuss? @can we discuss |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by Nobody: 6:47am On Apr 23, 2013 |
No 2&5 are so true, I met a guy recently he was damn too perfect to be on planet earth. 2days after we met he said I want to marry u, I've told my mum about u, please take me to ur mum, and the worst is he can lie so much that the forget wat he said but I remember every thing. You guys won't believe that in less than 5days he was already asking me for sex so I broke up with him without a second tot. 4 Likes |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by Nobody: 7:38am On Apr 23, 2013 |
erickajay: No 2&5 are so true, I met an idiot recently he was damn too perfect to be on planet earth. 2days after we met he said I want to marry u, I've told my mum about u, please take me to ur mum, and the worst is he can lie so much that the forget wat he said but I remember every thing. You guys won't believe that in less than 5days he was already asking me for sex so I broke up with him without a second tot. You are what you attract. Take a long and hard look at the mirror to understant why the reflection is as it is. 6 Likes |
Re: 5 Signs You Are Dating A Womanizer by Nobody: 7:45am On Apr 23, 2013 |
val_dee: Don't judge me base on what you are and what you attract, if you think that's how it is, then you definately left your senses on your bed. 3 Likes |
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