Let’s get started. Getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting the car of your dream. But unlike a car which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 percent discount in courting the girl of your dreams, she’s so sweet a thing to be discounted, you dearly are in love with her and your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on how big your heart is – faint heart, never won fair lady.

The first dating idea for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you don’t have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl’s attention. Be unique, that’s all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently – indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language – obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good habits – don’t drink or smoke like any other loser.

How to make her fall in love with you? Take your time. Add some romance to your dating style. When in College I had a crush on the most beautiful lady in our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from the other guys. I wrote her three letters without disclosing my identity and slid into her room secretly; all I said was ‘Yours Secret Admirer.’ The first letter contained the meaning of her name, this I got by playing around with the initials of her name to make meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards and it was all about her physique and her smartness. In the third letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a rose flower from her admirer, but only if she could be kind enough to phone him using a number that I had included in the letter. The girl did phone me that very night, and her first words to me were, “Hallo Secret Admirer.” So, the story of our love affair came to be. Later she told me that was so creative of me, no one had approached her in that manner. I made her fall in love with me and made a date in the romantic manner.

Befriending and understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored and needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you’ll get to know what she’s into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built upon friendship and it always leaves individuals better off having known each other should they break up. I and my College steady were to break some time later but to date, we are the best of buddies. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will make her create room for you in her heart.

A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don’t hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This above all other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she’ll have found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and don’ts of life. Don’t forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.

Make the girl feel special; because she’s someone’s friend – your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.

In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream with her, build with her, and always cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Let the girl know that she’s your first thing in the morning and the last thing when you go to bed at night.

Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go ‘my my’ and her heart will sing your name all the year round.

You have to be creative and constructive to keep girl’s interest in you so full of life. I remember one time I told my girlfriend to be to imagine we are both deaf and dump. We then sat opposite each other on the table and started sharing our feelings for each other using eyes and hand signs. It turned out to be some fun. There was also this time that we were in the library and we decided we are not going to speak to each other verbal, so I wrote a love note on a paper and passed it across the table to her, she replied and on and on we carried on our love on paper conversation till we almost exhausted a whole rim of paper. At sometime, I noticed that some guys sited with us on the table were enjoying our ordeal than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting that we play deaf and dump two years after we broke up, can you imagine that?

Never fail to phone her, even when she least expects it. I once called some girl that I was interested in at four o’clock in the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can’t sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, she was at my door with a king-sized hug for me. No matter how many dates you take her, don’t make any elbow – exceeding moves after any date, just drop her home and with a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Don’t kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to such matters as kissing her and accessing her inner graces.

The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you can’t have her just yet. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much cold, she’s actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she’ll be so much into you and since love is truthful and is characterized by open and honest communication, honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you’ll always be there for her, to listen and to hold her hand, and that you’ll always do your best to make her happy, and feel loved.

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This is too long.Must you tell lies to win a girl?

Men this is so educating, I love this.

@Proteme we are in this forum to learn and to share pls lets have urs

Chaii! Omo see concept. Infact i will try that of letter to a gal i love but dont know how to approche her and deef and dump play i know it gonna be fun

Chairman ur write-up is nice,thanks,that is d method i had used 4 girls ,it's excellent,it works like magic,just b urself,b a man,do sometin diff 4rm others.and u will testify,

Guys this shi.t only happen in hollywood
Not even in nollywood o..........

All girls are not the same

after all this wahala you'll discover you need a little more than what you'v got. and then you go elsewhere to start allover.

beautiful write up OP. please there's this lady i like so much but she wouldn't even talk or want to see me! i just recently met her and we don't knw so much abt each other yet. believe me, i'm a gentle man.

what exactly can i try out to get her attention, at least for a talk, tho' we're at different states. i don't mind travelling to where she is as much time as required.

If only it was this easy....

ur topic need to be scrutinize....

10yrs ago this would be relevant,but now the first thing you should have mentioned is money

@ op long post but understand that you cant make a girl fall in love with you. it is impossible. attraction is not a choice. just be yourself. be an alpha male and stop acting beta and wussy-like and everything will be fine..why do you even feel the need to make a woman fall in love with you..

otooro: beautiful write up OP. please there's this lady i like so much but she wouldn't even talk or want to see me! i just recently met her and we don't knw so much abt each other yet. believe me, i'm a gentle man.

what exactly can i try out to get her attention, at least for a talk, tho' we're at different states. i don't mind travelling to where she is as much time as required.

Start by being caring and b nice to her that is d first weapon to win any woman's heart

pendusky: ur topic need to be scrutinize....

OK MR PANEL JURIST WHEN WILL I BE SUMMONED TO DEFEND MY POST BUT I HOPE U HAVE PICK A WIT IN IT?

pompori king: 10yrs ago this would be relevant,but now the first thing you should have mentioned is money

if you think a woman will fall in love with you because of your money then you have a long way to go. you are only sending one message to a woman if you try to woo her with money.." you are not good enough for her and as such willing to compensate your unworthiness with money"- wrong message to send a woman.

it is always wrong to try to impress a woman or anyone for that matter..trying to impress a woman is what beta men do not what an alpha male should do..be wise my friend

pompori king: 10yrs ago this would be relevant,but now the first thing you should have mentioned is money

I dont agree with u.u see women are like mud d way u mould them is d way they be with u if u really want true love it start from d heart afterall money can not buy love

otooro: beautiful write up OP. please there's this lady i like so much but she wouldn't even talk or want to see me! i just recently met her and we don't knw so much abt each other yet. believe me, i'm a gentle man.

what exactly can i try out to get her attention, at least for a talk, tho' we're at different states. i don't mind travelling to where she is as much time as required.

if she doesnt want to talk or see you then there is a high chance she is not attracted to you..if she is not attracted to you then there is nothing you can do.. move on and go get someone else. there are a lot of women around..

you cannot convince a woman to like you if she doesnt

Charles Shaw: Long Story.
Women r so inconstant.
Jus show a gurl money,
The same way u show monkey Banana nd the gurl wil fall head over heels for u. Simple

this is very ignorant..you actually happy that you have to show a girl money to get her to fall head over heels for you?..what does that say about you as a man... and the part about equating women to monkeys the less said about that the better... what kind of men is this world breeding lately

greatgenius: if you think a woman will fall in love with you because of your money then you have a long way to go. you are only sending one message to a woman if you try to woo her with money.." you are not good enough for her and as such willing to compensate your unworthiness with money"- wrong message to send a woman.

it is always wrong to try to impress a woman or anyone for that matter..trying to impress a woman is what beta men do not what an alpha male should do..be wise my friend

Niccur you are talking bull..nowadays before a girl can be attracted to you.there must be money b4 she even considers falling for you.women are drawn to successful men,how the man handles it from there is another discussion

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pompori king:


Niccur you are talking bull..nowadays before a girl can be attracted to you.there must be money b4 she even considers falling for you.women are drawn to successful men,how the man handles it from there is another discussion

women drawn to successful men is not the same thing as women are drawn to your money.. women are drawn to status yes but status does not necessarily equal money..

your first statement is very ignorant. if there must be money before a girl is attracted to you then she was not attracted to you in the first place...if you have to spend money on gifts,expensive dinners and shopping to impress her, then you are telling her your money is all you have going for you and nothing else.. if all you have going for you is your money i promise you your sex life with her will be proportional to how long your pocket is..

a woman is attracted to you only to the degree of how you make her feel..not your money..if it was money most girls will not be cheating on their so called " rich" boy friends and husbands...

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greatgenius: this is very ignorant..you actually happy that you have to show a girl money to get her to fall head over heels for you?..what does that say about you as a man... and the part about equating women to monkeys the less said about that the better... what kind of men is this world breeding lately

i actually tot u were a greatgenius,
NoDoubt ur a greatDolt.

greatgenius: if you think a woman will fall in love with you because of your money then you have a long way to go. you are only sending one message to a woman if you try to woo her with money.." you are not good enough for her and as such willing to compensate your unworthiness with money"- wrong message to send a woman.

it is always wrong to try to impress a woman or anyone for that matter..trying to impress a woman is what beta men do not what an alpha male should do..be wise my friend

Money is prerequisite for love in this present day and age. Love is like a fire, but money is the fuel that keeps it burning. In the absence of money, the love would simply extinguish after a short period of time, no two ways about it.

If you think a woman would put love ahead of financial security, then you must be in dreamland.

Charles Shaw: i actually tot u were a greatgenius,
NoDoubt ur a greatDolt.

says the man or should i say boy who thinks money is the way to a womans heart.. my doltness will be wisdom compared to your ignorance... only a low intelligent female will fall for a man who woos her with money...

50calibre:

Money is prerequisite for love in this present day and age. Love is like a fire, but money is the fuel that keeps it burning. In the absence of money, the love would simply extinguish after a short period of time, no two ways about it.

If you think a woman would put love ahead of financial security, then you must be in dreamland.

at bolded..not true. money does not equal love..read what i said earlier to another poster.."if you have to spend money on gifts,expensive dinners and shopping to impress her, then you are telling her your money is all you have going for you and nothing else.. if all you have going for you is your money i promise you your sex life with her will be proportional to how long your pocket is"..

if you set that precedent of wooing her with your money then of course she will only be with you because of your money..women are not fools. no one in their sane mind will decline a free gift..