greatgenius: women drawn to successful men is not the same thing as women are drawn to your money.. women are drawn to status yes but status does not necessarily equal money..

your first statement is very ignorant. if there must be money before a girl is attracted to you then she was not attracted to you in the first place...if you have to spend money on gifts,expensive dinners and shopping to impress her, then you are telling her your money is all you have going for you and nothing else.. if all you have going for you is your money i promise you your sex life with her will be proportional to how long your pocket is..

a woman is attracted to you only to the degree of how you make her feel..not your money..if it was money most girls will not be cheating on their so called " rich" boy friends and husbands...

Yes you're right I know if you were a girl you would pick the plumber's son over adenuga's son abi cos of the way he makes you feel..keep jonzing

dryakson: Chaii! Omo see concept. Infact i will try that of letter to a gal i love but dont know how to approche her and deef and dump play i know it gonna be fun

That time you intend to use writing a letter to a girl, would be better utilised polishing your English language because I can guarantee you if she reads any of your letters riddled with these blunders up here, you are only going to succeed in making her angry.

most of you don't understand that when you set out to impress a woman-in whatever fashion be in money etc- you are sending the wrong message.. you are putting her on a pedestal and indirectly telling her you value her more than yourself..

dont impress a woman or anyone. be your self always. be alpha and display alpha qualities. an alpha male does not try to impress..

greatgenius: at bolded..not true. money does not equal love..read what i said earlier to another poster.."if you have to spend money on gifts,expensive dinners and shopping to impress her, then you are telling her your money is all you have going for you and nothing else.. if all you have going for you is your money i promise you your sex life with her will be proportional to how long your pocket is"..

if you set that precedent of wooing her with your money then of course she will only be with you because of your money..women are not fools. no one in their sane mind will decline a free gift..

No! Having money is different from wooing a woman with money or gifts. Money doesn't tell lies or hide itself, if you are well to do, women must notice you plain and simple. All that long list of wooing techniques only applies to poor guys. When you have money, you get to circumvent those hurdles.

You can't tell me that a woman can love a cobbler and decide to have a future with him can you? The head always rule over heart these days.

pompori king:

Yes you're right I know if you were a girl you would pick the plumber's son over adenuga's son abi cos of the way he makes you feel..keep jonzing

are saying that does not happen...if a woman is highly attracted to the plumber son she is most likely to take the gift and money from adenugas son and use it to take care of the plumbers son.. she would also most likely be giving adenugas son sex once every 2 months if he is lucky while shacking the plumbers son two to three times a day.. it is all about attraction my friend be wise..

50calibre:

No! Having money is different from wooing a woman with money or gifts. Money doesn't tell lies or hide itself, if you are well to do, women must notice you plain and simple. All that long list of wooing techniques only applies to poor guys. When you have money, you get to circumvent those hurdles.

no need to use techniques be you poor or rich..if you manipulate a woman into "liking" you eventually your true character will seep out and she will figure you out for who you are...a woman knows instantly if she is going to sleep with you instantly or let you wait the moment she starts interacting with you..if she doesn't feel the connection she is definitely placing you in the "wait zone" or "play hard to get zone" or worst still "lets just be friends zone".. if you are rich and she is not attracted to you she is only going to use you..period.

You can't tell me that a woman can love a cobbler and decide to have a future with him can you? The head always rule over heart these days.

well the head might tell her to roll with a "rich" guy for security sake but there will be no love... again she will most likely always cheat.. worst still she might have the rich guy take care of someone else kid-possibly the man she truly loves or attracted to...women are most likely not going to sleep with someone she is not attracted to during her ovulation period..fact..

greatgenius: no need to use techniques be you poor or rich..if you manipulate a woman into "liking" you eventually your true character will seep out and she will figure you out for who you are...a woman knows instantly if she is going to sleep with you instantly or let you wait the moment she starts interacting with you..if she doesn't feel the connection she is definitely placing you in the "wait zone" or "play hard to get zone" or worst still "lets just be friends zone".. if you are rich and she is not attracted to you she is only going to use you..period.

well the head might tell her to roll with a "rich" guy for security sake but there will be no love... again she will most likely always cheat.. worst still she might have the rich guy take care of someone else kid-possibly the man she truly loves or attracted to...women are most likely not going to sleep with someone she is not attracted to during her ovulation period..fact..

You are in fantasy land! Looks like you've been watching too many fairy tales.

My candid advice to you : if you think or are counting on the fact that a woman would love you with no money, ahead of a financially secure guy, then You are in for a rude awakening.

Women of these days are hardwired to be attracted to good things, luxury, comfort not poverty or wretchedness. It's basic human instinct. That "woman cheating on her rich husband with her poor boyfriend" thing is nonsense, nollywood sh*t, it doesn't happen in the real world except the woman is mentally deranged. When you understand what classes of society means, then you would know better.

All your points aren't even real op you're talking like this is a movie.just accept money is key

there is a reason why most "nice" guys or "good" guys do not do well with women..not because women are ingrates or heartless or they dont like to be catered and cared for...but becuase of the message that nice guys sends while being nice..manipulation..

the message they send to women is that "hey i know i am not good enough for you and so i am going to try my best, go out of my way to be overly nice to you even at times when you don't deserve it just so i can get into your pants".. nice guys and beta males that try to be nice and impress the women erroneously assume that acting and being nice should equal to leg opening for them.. unfortunately females do not see it that way..they perceive such acts as manipulative..and rightly so..

50calibre:


You are in fantasy land! Looks like you've been watching too many fairy tales.

My candid advice to you : if you think or are counting on the fact that a woman would love you with no money, ahead of a financially secure guy, then You are in for a rude awakening.

Women of these days are hardwired to be attracted to good things, luxury, comfort not poverty or wretchedness. It's basic human instinct. That "woman cheating on her rich husband with her poor boyfriend" thing is nonsense, nollywood sh*t, it doesn't happen in the real world except the woman is mentally deranged. When you understand what classes of society means, then you would know better.

no it looks like you have not been paying attention.. its time to pay attention to your women and your world..you have no idea what women really wants.. you do all the wrong things to get a woman to like you and then come crying that "i did everything for this woman and yet she left me or cheated on me.."

it is not a matter of women of these days.. women from eons have always been attracted to goods things and luxury..nothing new.. it is part of one of the things women seek-security.. but understand that security is not the most important thing for a woman.. love and attraction is.. the unfortunate thing is that most men do not know how to attract so women are left to in some and most cases settle for the man that can provide the security that they also seek- besides the other attributes they looking for and fail to see ..

nevertheless a woman will sleep with someone she is attracted to in a heart beat before do that with one who will provide her with security and all the finer things in life..

[color=#000099][/color] Gentlemen in d house let us b matures in dis matter u know ladies are reading this thread as well
i have an idea let me ask men in d house do u agree that money can buy girls? pls say yes or no and b simple in ur point

pompori king: All your points aren't even real op you're talking like this is a movie.just accept money is key

money has never really been a key-ask your girl.. you/beta males have made it a key.. you shouldn't go out there to make money because you think without it you wouldn't get into a woman's pants..

as a man you should strive to be successful in all your endeavors. it shouldn't be because you assume it will greatly increase your chances with women.. that's not intelligent. most guys showers gift on a woman they have just met when they do not even deserve or earned it..

btw i am not the op. this is my second or third time to the romance section. i try to stay away from here due to the level of ignorance on display sometimes as evidenced by this thread..

greatgenius: no it looks like you have not been paying attention.. its time to pay attention to your women and your world..you have no idea what women really wants.. you do all the wrong things to get a woman to like you and then come crying that "i did everything for this woman and yet she left me or cheated on me.."

it is not a matter of women of these days.. women from eons have always been attracted to goods things and luxury..nothing new.. it is part of one of the things women seek-security.. but understand that security is not the most important thing for a woman.. love and attraction is.. the unfortunate thing is that most men do not know how to attract so women are left to in some and most cases settle for the man that can provide the security that they also seek besides the other attributes they look for..

nevertheless a woman will sleep with someone she is attracted to in a heart beat before do that with one who will provide her with security and all the finer things in life..

Ok! Please answer these questions so I can have a better understanding of what you are saying.

Please arrange these in order of precedence, as you feel a woman would. love, wealth, looks.

Also given the following scenario - 2 guys vying for a woman's attention.

1st Guy - Poor but very nice, loving and caring. Lives in a shack and barely affords three square meals. Low social class and debts the hight of Mount Everest.

VS

2nd guy - Rich guy but less caring, with a little bit of I don't care attitude but with potential to change. Lives in a Manson, drives exotic cars, higher social status, and holidays in choice locations around the world.


If you were to stake your money in one guy, who do you think 95% of women would pick? Be sincere.

speaking of keys.. STATUS is a key not money necessarily.. money is not the same thing as status even though some of you erroneously think it is..

a woman will sleep with someone with STATUS before someone with money..for instance most women will sleep with obama or the POTUS before they would with bill gates-who obviously has more money..will sleep with a popular actor than they probably again would with bill gates..

Let's adjust this topic:

How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You (For Dummies)

greatgenius: speaking of keys.. STATUS is a key not money necessarily.. money is not the same thing as status even though some of you erroneously think it is..

a woman will sleep with someone with STATUS before someone with money..for instance most women will sleep with obama or the POTUS before they would with bill gates-who obviously has more money..will sleep with a popular actor than they probably again would with bill gates..

You keep kidding yourself, who told you money doesn't equal status? Can a plumber or carpenter be in the same class as a surgeon or banker?

You are citing Obama as an example, do you think Obama is poor? Or you think he magically found himself in the White House. FYI Obama attended the best law school in the world, he was the first black president of the Harvard law review in the late 80s, he was a former senator so don't deceive yourself.

So you think between a guy like dangote and jim iyke, women would chose jim iyke?

^^^Lol about FYIing me about Obama..this topic is obviously over your head..you are displaying beta male characteristics...

Again saying money equals status means you have no idea what status is... Does bill gate have more status than Obama? the answer is no.. I would discuss with you more but I can't take you serious if you think money equal status...

Money being one form of a status symbol doesn't necessarily mean your money equals your status..you are not thinking my friend ..

nice write up @op. However I have to add that what works for one woman might not work for another.The most important thing is to study the kind of lady she is and that will determine your approach. Note that a lot of women are time wasters and not worth the effort at all.

U sound good,i luv dis.

will try and read d post sometime