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Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by SamMilla1(m): 11:32pm On Apr 14, 2008 |
what is the essence of being lovers if no one needs permission to do what could hurt the other one, why are u people talking rubish here, its obvious no one needs permission from the other if they are not attached in anyway, all these over spoilt mannerless people should stop decieving others, yes she needs permission, a whole lot of it i might add |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by Cadet(f): 11:35pm On Apr 14, 2008 |
Dalby:wetin you wan see Dalby:Your own view. As long as he does nothign with her, why waste my energy being jealous? |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by Dalby(m): 11:38pm On Apr 14, 2008 |
almondjoy: Tell am say see where I dey go, does that take anything from you? If anything happens to you GOD forbid and he is the known boyfriend in your house, he will be the first to be invited by the police Nigerian police no dey even ask question self It is guilty until proven innocent |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by almondjoy(f): 11:39pm On Apr 14, 2008 |
Hmmmmmmmmm! |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by Dalby(m): 11:41pm On Apr 14, 2008 |
Cadet: My dear you were not there with them, so how do you know That is the crux of the matter |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by TheSly: 11:49pm On Apr 14, 2008 |
I wonder when people will learn to concentrate on themselves and stop worrying about what others are doing especially if they are not married to the other person. It just shows that life is actually very boring to be that needy. Looking for someone to police about. Spot on!! what is the essence of being lovers if no one needs permission to do what could hurt the other one,Lies would suit you best from what i can see here! Why in the heck does she need to take permission What if she says she's going to church and later head to another place? how would u know? This aint the 1800s . . .i personally don't care about where my Gf is going. . .if she thinks i should be informed. . she would def'ly tell me And same thing apply to me. . . . . There is something they call ''Privacy'' no matter how it is. . .u can't know errthing 'bout your partner's move. . even her parents Taking permission is lame. . .to me!. . .because life is very short. . and i Wanna enjoy errbit of it. . i don't need to give meself hypertension because of a girl. |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by Dalby(m): 12:01am On Apr 15, 2008 |
®~^Sly^~®: Trust is the basis of any relationship. For all you care she can jump out a multi-rise building, its her choice Then what is love |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by TheSly: 12:10am On Apr 15, 2008 |
Dalby:Did i say i didn't trust her My point is that. . . . .U don't need to know errthing. . . If you didn't misconstrue my post. . . .what i meant was that ''If you both trust each other, There is no need for any kind of permission unless she is your WIFE!! (means u both are married already) But at the BF/GF stage. . .that is not necessary. U dont need to police someone because u love him/her. . you will only give urself a heart attack! She should as well ask for your permission when she's going to bed then. . . .pfffffs! |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by almondjoy(f): 12:12am On Apr 15, 2008 |
Dalby: I am really concerned for your overall physical mental wellbeing. You come across like someone in a trance always. I hope you do not have a sober reality check dipstick because I doubt that you can recover at all. I will keep you in ma prayers always, while you keep dreaming. |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by Cadet(f): 12:12am On Apr 15, 2008 |
Dalby:Why be in a relationship if you can't trust your spouse to be faithful? Just leave her for someone better jare |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by MrPataki1: 12:15am On Apr 15, 2008 |
@ Poster, How would you feel, if he went to a party of one is of his won female colleagues whom he likes so much without telling you? Would you feel comfortable with it? |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by Uche2nna(m): 12:56am On Apr 15, 2008 |
Mr. Pataki: Maybe I am missing the issue here Of course u should let him or her know but u dont neccessarily need his or her approval. |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by Dalby(m): 10:02am On Apr 15, 2008 |
Uche2nna: Correct, by telling him you are not asking for approval, because you are both adults and not married. The fact still remains, let him know |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by Dalby(m): 10:11am On Apr 15, 2008 |
almondjoy: I really do not know what to say to you so you don't feel insulted. You want to put me in your prayers when you are in real need of a miracle, what a joke Thanks anyway, but no thanks |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by kalmebad(f): 10:37am On Apr 15, 2008 |
@poster I will rather call it information (informing him) rather than permission It's all about respect and regards not that it's an obligation He felt how a true and caring boyfriend should have , jealousy does not strive where love doesn't exist but the extreme he gets with it should be what will be matters I will equally feel same, it's only natural to do that,and beside we are not only talking about a colleague here but someone who has been admiring you. How better could he have felt? . In all it shows how much he cares girl, i always blush too when my bf then in those days feel jealous about things i do, deep down i feel he only cares. Someone who doesn't love u will care less of what you choose to do |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by almondjoy(f): 10:51am On Apr 15, 2008 |
Dalby: Long hisssssssssssssssssssss! As I leave the thread for lack of any tangible thing to discuss here. . .just out of respect for my darling moderator! GOODBYE THREAD! |
Re: Is He Being Jealous Or Possessive by donjazzie(m): 11:04am On Apr 15, 2008 |
@ all those who have made very irrational and senseless statements like what's the point. Go examine ur thinking @ those who see a reason why she should "take permission"which is better explained at letting him know That's what it is suppose to be. If he didn't care, I can be you'll be the one bothering your boyfriend doesn't have your time. or you'll have a new topic saying' Do you think he loves me. |
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