now i know that this girl is obsessed oo mehn

hmmmmmm


but i kind of like it sha

she is very caring

i like those messages, i read them over and over again


sweet words

i like it

money-hungry :

I'm her pastor n yes, she is in church.
when u come just ask any usher of the pastor's office.
pls knock before u enter, we are having a serious prayer section.
i must confess, your wife is a very good prayer warrior especially when she takes off her clothes under d power of anointing.
please buy towels when coming, we are sweating seriously.

JUST TRY AM

All these signs are attribute of an obsessed partner. I am currently facing one and is very bad when she starts acting though she loves me but i am always afraid she might do something irrational, i think she is very possessive due to her past relationship. We have three kids and i thought that should give her a sense of stability instead it is the other way. I am sustaining her actions via wisdom and believing she will change with time.

johnny handsom:
I bet you the guy will be better of without you considering the level of harlotry you must have been into then for him to become paranoid monitoring you

You nt a lady so u can neva undrstnd.d more u try 2be as open as a book d more d insecurity getz heightened.plus ur statement is insentitive!

u dnt hve hand work by looking into pples affair,dnt compare u lyf with others

Nice one. Obsession can be fun tho.. :-)

Yungwizzzy: im obessesed with nairaland wot shld i do?

Plead with them to block u.

Though obsession in Love might be very bad but to some it maybe necessary n note dt true love is not a dependable variable!

ERMERGERD. Im totally obsessed with my partner.

The irony and annoying part of it all is that ϑ madly-obsessed ones are the worst cheats ever. Smh!

atlbj: Op forgot to add; when he/she knows all about you, all your family, your friends , colleagues @ work and school mates when you dnt knw half of her own close friends!

Also, when he/she uses your name as their password to their laptop ,tab, Ipad,blackberry, Facebook and twitter account and email accouts!! Then its time to escape thru the window!!!

idiot. Hw abt through ϑ ceiling.

50calibre: I like girls being obsessed, it usually means she is naive/gullible and I can always order her around.

There is a euphoric feeling I get from exploiting someone and getting them to do my bidding at all cost.

It is obvious u r demonic and a big-time user. Watch out, with your attitude u can never get the best in life. It is only a matter of time before u dig ur own pitfall. Congratulations in advance.

butterflyy: u forgot to add, when u wish to break up with him n all his family members and friends are bombarding u with call that if d guy dies o, his blood is on my head o. I hate this.
Some even say if u try to leave there will b bloodshed, like am a possession

nnacent: A lot of us are but dont want Seun to know so as to remain relavant in d relationship.

relationship indeed.

johnny handsom:

I bet you the guy will be better of without you considering the level of harlotry you must have been into then for him to become paranoid monitoring you

Yóu are just a hater and gender freak. How can u jump to conclusion like that? She merely narrated how obsessed her EX was. Na wa o. Maybe u r even the EX sef. Nairaland dey help person code sha.

softangel:

It is obvious u r demonic and a big-time user. Watch out, with your attitude u can never get the best in life. It is only a matter of time before u dig ur own pitfall. Congratulations in advance.

Sis take it easy, .

I've been there.
Trust me, Its not a good feeling.

softangel:

It is obvious u r demonic and a big-time user. Watch out, with your attitude u can never get the best in life. It is only a matter of time before u dig ur own pitfall. Congratulations in advance.

#cosign

omg no7 so freaky. my ex used to do that and it always made my skin crawl plus when I brpke up wif him, he deferred his admission for a year and his whole family kept calling. Made me feel bad tho buh I just had to leave. trust me obsession is so not cool

poshdiva: Lol @ some of the comments here. I dated someone who exhibited most of the characteristics in the OPs post. Overly possessive, monitors my every move, i was his password to every thing. Any little argument and he is already in tears.

I used to think it was love until he threatened me if i ever left him. When i realised he was serious, i cut off all communication.

Its getting to 2 years now and he still calls at odd hours of the day..2am, 12am. I would pick the call, he wont say anything at all until i have to cut the call. He does this often. Tell me that isnt obsession!

I never told him i was leaving him because i was scared. I just stopped picking his calls and blocked him on all social networks. There were times i used to feel like he could kill anybody that got in his way. After i ended it, i didnt date anybody for over 7 months just to be on the safe side so he doesnt come after me or the person.

Hmmmmm, dat was quit a guy.

I have told my own not to idolize me.
I am not God and can never be God.

Wish dis cld really be debated on.