MizEmerald: Most comments here are like 'are u a LovePeddler',nobody saw the part where i said i've been doing this thing for myself for the past one year and just tonite i asked i was made to realise he had sisters,i ain't dat broke dat i still can't do it for myself,i only wanted to feel loved,d comments ain't fair though

lynpetra:


No need to feel bad my dear,everyone is entitled to his/her opinion.Abi you know see where person call me pros.ti tuteJust make ur bf understand that u ve needs...DON'T ask for money everytime.A woman should have pride,and set a standard for herself.If he doesn't have,learn to understand.If he insists on not giving you,esp when you know he has,abeg pack and go

lynpetra:


Please don't insult me.please don't.

Honey im not insulting you nau
but u check your comments out nau haba
before she met her boyfriend was she not living
which one come be hes not spending money on her
and you sef just go about saying the boy is oshofree
hows that oshofree if she wants to eat his money then she should ask
him to simply marry her
he doesnt owe her a damn thing abi lynpetra u don forget to maintain a-sh-awo
na him cheap pass to maintain girlfriend

daduke2k: @lynpetra, U̶̲̥̅̊ never see anything ☺h°˚˚˚°!. This is just the beginning.

lynpetra:


I think you need to set your typing software correctly.Because rite now I don't even know if you are mentally ok or not

190:

Honey im not insulting you nau
but u check your comments out nau haba
before she met her boyfriend was she not living
which one come be hes not spending money on her
and you sef just go about saying the boy is oshofree
hows that oshofree if she wants to eat his money then she should ask
him to simply marry her
he doesnt owe her a damn thing abi lynpetra u don forget to maintain a-sh-awo
na him cheap pass to maintain girlfriend

lynpetra:


I didn't call d bf Oshofree.I only pointed out a tag placed on girls who give out 'free' xxxxx.Ashewo easy to maintain na....but u go still spend either way

yes but atleast if hes spending on asha-wo then he'll know hes spending on asha-wo
the fact that the boy ent spending probably means two things
1) hes studying her carefully either becos she must av asked in the past which wasnt honoured and she rebelled against him before later settling things with him or
2) hes spending elsewhere and shes just his side chick

but for the OP to categorically refer to the issue of s-e-x means she must have pondered about her man asking herself questions like
am i really a phoool, dis dude ent taking care of me or geting me notin, we just having s-e-x is this whats hes after bla bla bla, which is absolutely normal from a girl who's 50% materialistic like the OP and also cares about the relationship 40% and 10% selfish about herself.

The only person left alone to answer these questions is her man
if the man loves her from the depth of his heart, he could show her in other ways not necessarily giving her 30K for market money to cook vegetable soup with Goat meat or 40K for shopping,

Lynpetra you know there are men out there that would spend 50K on this same OP And give her heavy heart attack that even the 50K wont be able to sort out so my advice is for the OP to check and cross match her relationship wth this dude, if she decides to talk about S-E-X then shes clearly loosing out because one thing you Nigerian women seem to forget these days is S-E-X these days is even cheaper than PURE WATER itself

do the math

pc guru: ^this is NL, you will always get comments like that, anyway like i said in the last replies, you and your boyfriend obviously do need to talk,am sure there's some form of misinterpretation somewhere. I usually get accused by my gf for not being caring, but after explaining my workload, she understood and adjusted, maybe you should communicate how you feel without sounding offensive. Not giving you anything because of circumstances is understandable not everybody is comfortable, if he's stingy now that's a diff case entirely.

adaobi123: longest post I've seen from 190

I didnt write that

My ID was hacked

by flytefallz

pc guru:
I think a bit of House,Archer,Will and Grace,Modern Family and Mentalist would help Sarcasm Overflow

daduke2k: So which means τ̲̣̣̥h̶̲̥̅̊α̩̩̩̩̥†̥̥ W̶̲̥̅̊ȋ̊τ̣̣̥h̶̲̥̅̊ enough cash any guy can have U̶̲̥̅̊ , aint it?
W̶̲̥̅̊h̶̲̥̅̊ά̲̣̣̣̥τ̣̣̥ if the guy gives U̶̲̥̅̊ everything Ãήϑ still uses U̶̲̥̅̊ as a walking stick when ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ό̲̣̣̣̥υ̲̣̥ are over heels in l♡ve W̶̲̥̅̊ȋ̊τ̣̣̥h̶̲̥̅̊ him?
@op, __̅_̅̅_̅̅̅‖̳̿ stand W̶̲̥̅̊ȋ̊τ̣̣̥h̶̲̥̅̊ Allen shop idea, τ̲̣̣̥h̶̲̥̅̊α̩̩̩̩̥†̥̥ is if U̶̲̥̅̊ want †̥♥ get anything.

lynpetra:



Relationship shud never be one-sided!

190:

I didnt write that

My ID was hacked

by flytefallz

190:

yes but atleast if hes spending on asha-wo then he'll know hes spending on asha-wo
the fact that the boy ent spending probably means two things
1) hes studying her carefully either becos she must av asked in the past which wasnt honoured and she rebelled against him before later settling things with him or
2) hes spending elsewhere and shes just his side chick

but for the OP to categorically refer to the issue of s-e-x means she must have pondered about her man asking herself questions like
am i really a phoool, dis dude ent taking care of me or geting me notin, we just having s-e-x is this whats hes after bla bla bla, which is absolutely normal from a girl who's 50% materialistic like the OP and also cares about the relationship 40% and 10% selfish about herself.

The only person left alone to answer these questions is her man
if the man loves her from the depth of his heart, he could show her in other ways not necessarily giving her 30K for market money to cook vegetable soup with Goat meat or 40K for shopping,

Lynpetra you know there are men out there that would spend 50K on this same OP And give her heavy heart attack that even the 50K wont be able to sort out so my advice is for the OP to check and cross match her relationship wth this dude, if she decides to talk about S-E-X then shes clearly loosing out because one thing you Nigerian women seem to forget these days is S-E-X these days is even cheaper than PURE WATER itself

do the math

lola.luv:
I don't believe in getting money from a man. I believe in getting mine.
BUT!

If you love someone, you should be willing to help them out if they need your help!

I mean, even as a student, I paid part of a friend's JAMB because her dad refused to pay (her 2nd time of writing). Why didn't I tell her I needed the money and she had a dad?

Just today, I got a male colleague a gift and another asked for the same thing which I've gotten to give him on Monday.

Not to talk of a shivering stranger I lent my brother's designer jacket to, and he ran away with it.


@OP
Try your best and go on the path to getting your own money. I'm telling you there's no feeling like getting alerts for the salary you worked for.
You won't be treated like a pest and your sense of value will skyrocket.

People wish I ask them for money. But for where?
No time! I'd rather manage what I have.

adaobi123: longest post I've seen from 190

lola.luv:
^
@pcguru
Lol. Why not?

lola.luv:
I don't believe in getting money from a man. I believe in getting mine.
BUT!

If you love someone, you should be willing to help them out if they need your help!

I mean, even as a student, I paid part of a friend's JAMB because her dad refused to pay (her 2nd time of writing). Why didn't I tell her I needed the money and she had a dad?

Just today, I got a male colleague a gift and another asked for the same thing which I've gotten to give him on Monday.

Not to talk of a shivering stranger I lent my brother's designer jacket to, and he ran away with it.


@OP
Try your best and go on the path to getting your own money. I'm telling you there's no feeling like getting alerts for the salary you worked for.
You won't be treated like a pest and your sense of value will skyrocket.

People wish I ask them for money. But for where?
No time! I'd rather manage what I have.

190:

yes but atleast if hes spending on asha-wo then he'll know hes spending on asha-wo
the fact that the boy ent spending probably means two things
1) hes studying her carefully either becos she must av asked in the past which wasnt honoured and she rebelled against him before later settling things with him or
2) hes spending elsewhere and shes just his side chick

but for the OP to categorically refer to the issue of s-e-x means she must have pondered about her man asking herself questions like
am i really a phoool, dis dude ent taking care of me or geting me notin, we just having s-e-x is this whats hes after bla bla bla, which is absolutely normal from a girl who's 50% materialistic like the OP and also cares about the relationship 40% and 10% selfish about herself.

The only person left alone to answer these questions is her man
if the man loves her from the depth of his heart, he could show her in other ways not necessarily giving her 30K for market money to cook vegetable soup with Goat meat or 40K for shopping,

Lynpetra you know there are men out there that would spend 50K on this same OP And give her heavy heart attack that even the 50K wont be able to sort out so my advice is for the OP to check and cross match her relationship wth this dude, if she decides to talk about S-E-X then shes clearly loosing out because one thing you Nigerian women seem to forget these days is S-E-X these days is even cheaper than PURE WATER itself

do the math

chronique: Gbam

lynpetra:


Well,ur points are just assumptions.He just might b the stingy type.if he isn't ready to spend on a girl,he shud get a wife!

and if shes ready to enjoy money from a man she should get married

pc guru:
hey 360 slow down, what she means is that, doesn't help out at all,not entirely money some people are usually stingy, i only explained that if the guy is saddled with responsibilities then it should be understood. but seriously this economy is harsh, i think all relationships will have to cut down the whole expenses to save money.

190:


and if shes ready to enjoy money from a man she should get married

190:


and if shes ready to enjoy money from a man she should get married

chronique: @ lola my luv,the only eja kika in my gbegiri soup: when are you getting me my own jacket and the same type of gift you got your male colleagues?