ogugua88:

[size=13pt]I hate this phrase and its various forms.[/size]

SELFWORTH: All these unrealistic expectations about marriage will only lead to the divorce court. A million questions like these cannot prepare you for it.

There are no guarantees in life including marriage. People change, season comes and goes. Each new day is dipped in the mystery of God that no human being can ever plan for.

Wisdom is the principal thing. Only the grace of God can sustain a marriage.

babyosisi:

But do you agree with my list?

KingPradas: This your list is copy and paste from

http://www.bubblews.com/news/153822-20-things-to-discuss-with-him-before-marriage

Come one show some originality.

babyosisi: The list above is for Oyibo
Nigerian women have a separate list and as God will have it,our list is shorter too

Here it goes

1, Can you pay the bride price in my village and cater for me financially? Oh yes we want to know ,

2.when are you changing that beat up car to a berra jeep,please don't carry that thing to enter my father's compound I take God beg you ..before nko,the people riding jeeps,do they have two heads

3. Can you afford my trips to America to deliver our babies? E he nau ,Ifeoma and Adeola went to America to born pikin ,will my own be different

4. I ji kwa ego Dubai? I hope you have money for Dubai.if not biko tell me now now let me find my will of God,if it is not you.

5. I am doing my wedding shopping in London.,everything down to pant will be imported ..i have said my own

6. Is your mother still alive? For how long?i hope she is not planning to visit biko if she happens to be alive

7. After the igbankwu and Society wedding,will there still be plenty money left?oh yes,na love I go chop?

8. Is there impotence in your lineage?i want you to answer whenever I call so tell me let me know how to hazhie my life and pattern my future

babyosisi: The list above is for Oyibo
Nigerian women have a separate list and as God will have it,our list is shorter too

Here it goes

1, Can you pay the bride price in my village and cater for me financially? Oh yes we want to know ,

2.when are you changing that beat up car to a berra jeep,please don't carry that thing to enter my father's compound I take God beg you ..before nko,the people riding jeeps,do they have two heads

3. Can you afford my trips to America to deliver our babies? E he nau ,Ifeoma and Adeola went to America to born pikin ,will my own be different

4. I ji kwa ego Dubai? I hope you have money for Dubai.if not biko tell me now now let me find my will of God,if it is not you.

5. I am doing my wedding shopping in London.,everything down to pant will be imported ..i have said my own

6. Is your mother still alive? For how long?i hope she is not planning to visit biko if she happens to be alive

7. After the igbankwu and Society wedding,will there still be plenty money left?oh yes,na love I go chop?

8. Is there impotence in your lineage?i want you to answer whenever I call so tell me let me know how to hazhie my life and pattern my future

ogugua88: [size=13pt]Sometimes I wonder what our mothers would think if they read posts from their sons on this section. Some ears and left legs will be comoted with cutlass, I can assure.

@OP, thanks for the list! You'd be surprised as to how many people get married and don't even know their spouses! Some people divorce because "she doesn't want children and I do" or "we have different career goals". It makes you wonder what exactly they were discussing during courtship and engagement. Common sense truly isn't common.[/size]

babyosisi: The list above is for Oyibo
Nigerian women have a separate list and as God will have it,our list is shorter too

Here it goes

1, Can you pay the bride price in my village and cater for me financially? Oh yes we want to know ,

2.when are you changing that beat up car to a berra jeep,please don't carry that thing to enter my father's compound I take God beg you ..before nko,the people riding jeeps,do they have two heads

3. Can you afford my trips to America to deliver our babies? E he nau ,Ifeoma and Adeola went to America to born pikin ,will my own be different

4. I ji kwa ego Dubai? I hope you have money for Dubai.if not biko tell me now now let me find my will of God,if it is not you.

5. I am doing my wedding shopping in London.,everything down to pant will be imported ..i have said my own

6. Is your mother still alive? For how long?i hope she is not planning to visit biko if she happens to be alive

7. After the igbankwu and Society wedding,will there still be plenty money left?oh yes,na love I go chop?

8. Is there impotence in your lineage?i want you to answer whenever I call so tell me let me know how to hazhie my life and pattern my future

50calibre: You yourself, do you know your husband sexkillz very well? Do you know he is intimidating me everywhere?

babyosisi: But do you agree with my list?

[size=13pt]I'll assume this is a rhetorical question. [/size]

Sike: What will be will surely be. Questions or no question.

babyosisi: The list above is for Oyibo
Nigerian women have a separate list and as God will have it,our list is shorter too

Here it goes

1, Can you pay the bride price in my village and cater for me financially? Oh yes we want to know ,

2.when are you changing that beat up car to a berra jeep,please don't carry that thing to enter my father's compound I take God beg you ..before nko,the people riding jeeps,do they have two heads

3. Can you afford my trips to America to deliver our babies? E he nau ,Ifeoma and Adeola went to America to born pikin ,will my own be different

4. I ji kwa ego Dubai? I hope you have money for Dubai.if not biko tell me now now let me find my will of God,if it is not you.

5. I am doing my wedding shopping in London.,everything down to pant will be imported ..i have said my own

6. Is your mother still alive? For how long?i hope she is not planning to visit biko if she happens to be alive

7. After the igbankwu and Society wedding,will there still be plenty money left?oh yes,na love I go chop?

8. Is there impotence in your lineage?i want you to answer whenever I call so tell me let me know how to hazhie my life and pattern my future

babyosisi: The list above is for Oyibo
Nigerian women have a separate list and as God will have it,our list is shorter too

Here it goes

1, Can you pay the bride price in my village and cater for me financially? Oh yes we want to know ,

2.when are you changing that beat up car to a berra jeep,please don't carry that thing to enter my father's compound I take God beg you ..before nko,the people riding jeeps,do they have two heads

3. Can you afford my trips to America to deliver our babies? E he nau ,Ifeoma and Adeola went to America to born pikin ,will my own be different

4. I ji kwa ego Dubai? I hope you have money for Dubai.if not biko tell me now now let me find my will of God,if it is not you.

5. I am doing my wedding shopping in London.,everything down to pant will be imported ..i have said my own

6. Is your mother still alive? For how long?i hope she is not planning to visit biko if she happens to be alive

7. After the igbankwu and Society wedding,will there still be plenty money left?oh yes,na love I go chop?

8. Is there impotence in your lineage?i want you to answer whenever I call so tell me let me know how to hazhie my life and pattern my future

'mide eniafe:
Huh?!

Who the hell is this guy? You having an unhappy marriage with your so called Nigerian lady doesn't mean you should tag all Nigerian ladies with all those vices you listed. How many 9ja girls did you get married to? Huh?

You're making it seem like no one can be happily married with a Nigerian girl. #sighs# I don tire o. Nigerians babes this, Nigerian babes that.

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Lol.. Got choked up laughing!! Are u really a woman for real?

Brilliance9000: [b]You would only have to discuss all these, particularly number 2( MONEY) if you are looking to marry a Nigerian woman(most in my judgment love money more than their husbands, children and themselves...very sickening)....very arrogant, selfish, coterie of people. Do yourself a huge favor and marry yourself a white or other women besides Nigerian women. Most of these women besides Nigerian, already know all these and know how to treat their men. Don't start up debate with me, because I have been there; married a sister(Nigerian); was unhappy for years as with most of my friends(educated...doctors, engineers, lawyers) until we all set to try something different...non Nigerian women. WE ALL FOUND HAPPINESS AND HAVE WONDERFUL FAMILY. The common denominator is that these women have a different upbringing and approach to life.Money is never an issue with them...NEVER, even if you have it in abundance. It means virtually nothing to them.

THIS TREND WILL CONTINUE UNTIL NIGERIAN WOMEN LEARN TO STOP BEING ARROGANT AND MONEY HUNGRY. You can never win arrogance with a man...never except he is a weak man. He will rather, win it, leave you/divorce, or kill you. He is a man for a reason. The best you can do is to bring your demure, womanly, soft-spoken side....believe me, 99% of guys will listen and have a dialogue with you like a princess. [/b]

Decryptor: Spinsterhood will forever be your portion in Jesus Name...Amen

SELFWORTH: All these unrealistic expectations about marriage will only lead to the divorce court. A million questions like these cannot prepare you for it.

There are no guarantees in life including marriage. People change, season comes and goes. Each new day is dipped in the mystery of God that no human being can ever plan for.

Wisdom is the principal thing. Only the grace of God can sustain a marriage.

KingPradas: This your list is copy and paste from

http://www.bubblews.com/news/153822-20-things-to-discuss-with-him-before-marriage

Come one show some originality.

Brilliance9000: [b]You would only have to discuss all these, particularly number 2( MONEY) if you are looking to marry a Nigerian woman(most in my judgment love money more than their husbands, children and themselves...very sickening)....very arrogant, selfish, coterie of people. Do yourself a huge favor and marry yourself a white or other women besides Nigerian women. Most of these women besides Nigerian, already know all these and know how to treat their men. Don't start up debate with me, because I have been there; married a sister(Nigerian); was unhappy for years as with most of my friends(educated...doctors, engineers, lawyers) until we all set to try something different...non Nigerian women. WE ALL FOUND HAPPINESS AND HAVE WONDERFUL FAMILY. The common denominator is that these women have a different upbringing and approach to life.Money is never an issue with them...NEVER, even if you have it in abundance. It means virtually nothing to them.

THIS TREND WILL CONTINUE UNTIL NIGERIAN WOMEN LEARN TO STOP BEING ARROGANT AND MONEY HUNGRY. You can never win arrogance with a man...never except he is a weak man. He will rather, win it, leave you/divorce, or kill you. He is a man for a reason. The best you can do is to bring your demure, womanly, soft-spoken side....believe me, 99% of guys will listen and have a dialogue with you like a princess. [/b]

babyosisi: The list above is for Oyibo
Nigerian women have a separate list and as God will have it,our list is shorter too

Here it goes

1, Can you pay the bride price in my village and cater for me financially? Oh yes we want to know ,

2.when are you changing that beat up car to a berra jeep,please don't carry that thing to enter my father's compound I take God beg you ..before nko,the people riding jeeps,do they have two heads

3. Can you afford my trips to America to deliver our babies? E he nau ,Ifeoma and Adeola went to America to born pikin ,will my own be different

4. I ji kwa ego Dubai? I hope you have money for Dubai.if not biko tell me now now let me find my will of God,if it is not you.

5. I am doing my wedding shopping in London.,everything down to pant will be imported ..i have said my own

6. Is your mother still alive? For how long?i hope she is not planning to visit biko if she happens to be alive

7. After the igbankwu and Society wedding,will there still be plenty money left?oh yes,na love I go chop?

8. Is there impotence in your lineage?i want you to answer whenever I call so tell me let me know how to hazhie my life and pattern my future