Flaubert Ajiero: Are you beautiful, smart and intelligent and yet still single even though you aspire to get married.

It's true not every woman has the aspiration to marry while some do.

But if you're a woman and however do aspire to marry... here is an advice for you:

Cease From Taking Relationship/Marriage Advice From Single Women Like You.

These group of women have no experience of what it takes to get married nor even handle one,so they definitely have nothing much to offer(though few may anyway but don't take my word for it).

This doesn't mean you can't hear them out, of course you should but DO NOT take them to be your main source of information on what to do about getting or not getting married.

You should put your energy on making friends with married women either newly-married or even divorcees. These group of women have all the tricks with them. They got the experience first hand and can as well be able to share with you the information you need to succeed because they have been there.

The more you have married women as close pals, the more you'll get to have a clearer idea of what it's rather than fantasizing with singles like you with no experience on what marriage is all about.

Another point will be...START listening to men: This sound surprising but the point is, you want to get married to a man and yet you have no element of connection with men. I find it interesting how often women disregard honest commentary from men on the very issues they struggle to conquer.

Men give you all of the answers if you sit back long enough to listen. Men provide you even without knowing the things that will ever push them to marry any woman. So if you relate well with men and pay attention you would learn things that will push you up the ladder in the journey.

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