I know that sometimes Weekends are the most dry times on romance section but this question has been on my Mind.
Have you Ladies/guys even dumped someone without giving the reason why or the true reason?
Or have you been dumped and your ex never told you why? or you didn't bother yo ask and the ex never bothered to explain.

If so why? what made you do it that way

I do it al d tym

Yes.

olumaxi: I do it al d tym

so you just tell them it's over and you don't say why?

jntyjnty007: Yes.

Why, what happened?

I guess its just an unwritten rule of breakup's, "never tell the other person why or they may feel bad about themselves". So the civil thing to do would be to just break up but not say why.

albridge: I guess its just an unwritten rule of breakup's, "never tell the other person why or they may feel bad about themselves". So the civil thing to do would be to just break up but not say why.

WackyJ1:
Why, what happened?

I just walked out quietly and discreetly. In life you discover some people are not to be trusted at all.

jntyjnty007:

I just walked out quietly and discreetly. In life you discover some people are not to be trusted at all.

Damn..

Alot,I just stop calling and before 2 weeks she is gonna realize that its reality...im gone

Yes.. But the mature thing is to sit down and talk with your partner to make it official

SniperInADiaper: Yes.. But the mature thing is to sit down and talk with your partner to make it official

But you gotta ask yourself how many matured people are out there

Mynd_44:
But you gotta ask yourself how many matured people are out there

Not enough

SniperInADiaper:

Not enough

Good

Yes, I don't knw why but we still talk as normal friends but nothing attached as b4.

WackyJ1:
so you just tell them it's over and you don't say why?

yeah,cos a king seldoms xplain his decision..besyds,xplainin y u r leavin may cause mor hatred..but leavin quietly is peaceful cos u dont knw wia u can stil meet in future

SniperInADiaper: Yes.. But the mature thing is to sit down and talk with your partner to make it official

So why did you leave and how did you do it

WackyJ1:
So why did you leave and how did you do it

How? Same as other posters. Just quietly left.

Why? Reasons vary. Everything from the guy being too possesive to him being a fool.

Yah... Ended my last relationship dat way.. Sometimes u jez look at d oda person and u imagine fingz she is capable of doin if u tell her d reason.. She myt even kill u or herself... Wait... Or even both of u self... So u jez leave quietly w'out a reason and nicely...

Everyone knows when a breakup is imminent.... Just like the Sword of Damocles...

So, it just doesn't come suddenly like Venus crashing on Earth.

Just pack your shyte together and let go...

Que sera sera!

Besides, personally, I hate reasons or excuses for anything that happens....

Most times, the kinda excuses or reasons given for the breakup don't give solutions, they only give feelings or guilt or incompetence in most cases...

Why feel "more bad" after an-already bad breakup??

Go figure!

Yes. I feel it's better that the person dosent feel worse due to his shortcomings. I told him in person but never said why. I let him believe whatever he wanted... Thus blame it on me. I left be cos he was immature, lazy, selfish, foolish dreamer and so not ready to settle
. I knew someday he would be ripe for another woman, one man's meat, so why should I Demoralise him.

I ended 2 out of 4 of my relationships without saying why because i see no reason why i should. The reasons speak for themselves naturally

If I gave a reason I would have been compelled to call CDC to quarantine her cheese factory a55.

Wen I was single,I'll jst do d breakup game bluntly cos its no use not revealing why,so d other party can do d necessary adjustment.

I have done it once...and it still hurts ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ till date cz I always feel I hurt her feelings....though anytime she flashes I call her but I don't want anytn wit her dunno why though!

Okija juju: Yes!!

The only time I broke up a relationship. It still hunts me till tomorrow.

Did you break up with the shrine's priest daughter?

Sometimes u urself can't say y..u just feel uncomfortable....I did d same ting some years ago but I knew y after like 5 years

SniperInADiaper: Yes.. But the mature thing is to sit down and talk with your partner to make it official

Never! And have you guys beg and plead and act good for a month and then turn around and dump me!

Never!

If you leave someone,at least tell them why because what is more painful than being abandoned is knowing you'r not worth an xplanation! I never leave for no reason.