pro01:

Is this a question, a rhetorical question, or a statement of fact? I'm convinced that some of you people live on the internet, or perhaps in some remote society somewhere around Antarctica. Anyone that lives in Nigeria and is not detached from the reality of Nigerian culture and environment would not make these ridiculous arguments. That was how the other one was deceiving herself that men are no longer required to do all the spending in relationships. Granted that there are always a few exceptions, but what is the norm? People should stop distorting reality - there is a big difference between the internet and the real world. One shouldn't resort to baseless lies merely because she wants to sound smart or win an argument.

Of course a man almost always loses his wife's respect when he is no longer able to provide for the family. Some women are more patient than others, but ultimately, they ALL get tired of waiting for the man to overcome his "setback", and they then proceed to disrespect him in every way imaginable, including sleeping with other men.

My brother you sure are living in the real world. I have seen all what you mentioned above happen in the life of relatives, friends and neighbours.

juleze:

Not adultery, but fornication.
Fornication in this case refers to marriages that are wrong, for instance, incestuous marriages that were discovered to be so later, or marriages to divorcees, as Jesus said that he that marries a divorcee is committing adultery. He/ she's another's until death do them part.

Jueleze, I might not be going to church at this moment, but I know my bible lessons. Where did you read that story about FORNICATION standing for incestuous marriages? You must be using a different Bible from the one I know.

And I tell you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except her unfaithfulness, and marries another woman, commits adultery." Mathew 19:9 Weymouth Bible

I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery." Mathew 19:9
- World English Bible

Some versions of the Bible like the King James Bible say "And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery". I bet it is the word FORNICATION that has many people giving their own meanings to it. Juleze to get a better picture of of the defination of the biblical fornication go to http://www.thefreedictionary.com/fornication

isale_gan2:

This is just common sense. But God forbid they allow that to be taught in schools on in mass media.

Re OP, I think you're more likely to hear of a husband reacting this way (below) than offering forgiveness to a cheating wife.
http://gawker.com/5989819/riflemans-journal-host-shot-and-killed-by-jealous-husband-in-murder+suicide

So if protection is used then it becomes spiritual too, right?

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obadiah777: EXACTLY. NEVER QUITE UNDERSTOOD THE BIG DEAL ABOUT MARRIAGE MYSELF. PEOPLE THROW THIS LAVISH CELEBRATION FOR PEOPLE GETTING MARRIED. SHOULDNT IT BE THE OPPOSITE ? YOU SHOULD BE MOURNING FOR PEOPLE GETTING MARRIED. THEY ARE BOTH GOING INTO PRISON.

actually in Yoruba ,marriage,(igbeyawo) means carrying suffering(iya) to see how it looks.

I came across this and i find it interesting. This just happened to me.... still not sure what to do yet. But the story is also in public domain here in nairaland.

Both sides..its easier said than done...when reality dawns on one (like me here) its like im in a trance or watching movie...

peciouslove:
I came across this and i find it interesting. This just happened to me.... still not sure what to do yet. But the story is also in public domain here in nairaland.

Both sides..its easier said than done...when reality dawns on one (like me here) its like im in a trance or watching movie...

Were you the one cheated on, or did you do the cheating?

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i still say no because a woman cannot belong to two men at the same time