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It all depends on who loves more in the relationship. The party who loves less or doesn't love @all seldom gets jealous. You cannot get jealous if you do not love your significant other.

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djeezy: It all depends on who loves more in the relationship. The party who loves less or doesn't love @all seldom gets jealous. You cannot get jealous if you do not love your significant other.

Wrong........so because I love you I must be jealous? If you love someone and trust the person, the issue of jealousy would not even arise cos you would be so comfortable with the person, you won't see that person as a cheat

From my personal experience, guys do. Generally speaking though, both genders are capable of experience jealousy.

Djeezy is right. Take the God-Man relationship for example. He loves us so much that His jealousy shows in epic proportions. The first of the ten commandments is a clear illustration.

''I am the Lord thy God, who brought thee out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. Thou shalt have no other gods before me. (Exodus 20:1-3).''

I think it's relative to the Man-Woman setting. The one who loves more tends to be more aggressive and dominant...in direct or subtle strategy. This person tends to be the one to set the rules and urges the partner to oblige or face the consequences.

Any person who loves much,has the highest jealous

chuksme: Any person who loves much,has the highest jealous

That's wrong

Everybody has the tendency of being jealous. It all depends on our level of maturity and understanding to handle it well.
Guys tend to take it far, because the jealousy thing gets mixed up with ego and everything now becomes too complex for them to handle well. So, i'll say it's guys but to say the truth, it's more of ego for guys rather than jealousy.

@Mynd, love has a way of bringing jealousy...healthy jealousy though, not the 'you cannot shake another man kinda jealousy'.

^^
You mentioned maturity in your comment. A flush of jealousy yes but maturity deals with it immediately and you will not even act on it.

PS. I know people who don't love their spouse but are more jealous than those who do

Mynd_44: ^^
You mentioned maturity in your comment. A flush of jealousy yes but maturity deals with it immediately and you will not even act on it.

PS. I know people who don't love their spouse but are more jealous than those who do

Note the part of 'love has a way of bringing healthy jealousy'
There are other things that could cause jealousy.

[quote author=alutacontinua]Everybody has the tendency of being jealous. It all depends on our level of maturity and understanding to handle it well.
Guys tend to take it far, because the jealousy thing gets mixed up with ego and everything now becomes too complex for them to handle well. So, i'll say it's guys but to say the truth, it's more of ego for guys rather than jealousy.

@Mynd, love has a way of bringing jealousy...healthy jealousy though, not the 'you cannot shake another man kinda jealousy'.[/quote
ive nva caught my bf being jealous of anythng relating to me.shld i conclude dat it's d ego thng or his level of maturity in d way n manner he handles it by nt showing it or because i love him more and dats y i get jealous more dan him?

Mynd_44:
Wrong........so because I love you I must be jealous? If you love someone and trust the person, the issue of jealousy would not even arise cos you would be so comfortable with the person, you won't see that person as a cheat

It's obvious you have never been in love. Would you get jealous if you feel nothing for someone? You need to understand how the heart works. I don't need to explain any further, perhaps you need a lil introspection.

@C'est moi, I think it's his maturity coming into play. The thought comes and he just waives it aside with maturity...Maybe you don't also give him serious reasons to start showing the jealousy.
That doesn't mean you should start giving him reasons

Some people are just good at hiding their jealousy, that doesn't mean they don't get jealous. You can say maturity is when you can successfully conceal your jealousy without anyone noticing.

alutacontinua: @C'est moi, I think it's his maturity coming into play. The thought comes and he just waives it aside with maturity...Maybe you don't also give him serious reasons to start showing the jealousy.
That doesn't mean you should start giving him reasons

#smiles,i tried somethngs bt it still didnt affect him.tnx.

djeezy: It's obvious you have never been in love. Would you get jealous if you feel nothing for someone? You need to understand how the heart works. I don't need to explain any further, perhaps you need a lil introspection.

I am pretty good at understanding people and see reasons why they do things. Jealousy is not part of me cos I chose to be practical. An yes I have been in love before and I don't get jealous so where is your argument?

Mynd_44:
I am pretty good at understanding people and see reasons why they do things. Jealousy is not part of me cos I chose to be practical. An yes I have been in love before and I don't get jealous so where is your argument?

No argument sir, you're simply ignorant. lol

djeezy: No argument sir, you're simply ignorant. lol

For your mind

Some people don't even know the meaning of jealousy? Is it possible to love without getting jealous? There is healthy jealousy not the hyper-active immatured tyoe you guys are used to.

It is normal to be jealous. You can't help it. Trust or no trust. Whoever claims to be in love and have never been jealous before is either lying or never truly loved the person.

Even God is jealous. He doesn't want to share us with another. That is healthy jealous...the type i'm talking about here.

Merkki: Some people don't even know the meaning of jealousy? Is it possible to love without getting jealous? There is healthy jealousy not the hyper-active immatured tyoe you guys are used to.

It is normal to be jealous. You can't help it. Trust or no trust. Whoever claims to be in love and have never been jealous before is either lying or never truly loved the person.

Even God is jealous. He doesn't want to share us with another. That is healthy jealous...the type i'm talking about here.

Mynd44 hope you've read this.

djeezy: Mynd44 hope you've read this.

I read it and I disagree....I am allowed to do that right?

Lmao but jealous of what? If someone is yours and you trust the person, what is there to be jealous of again?

ogugua88: Lmao but jealous of what? If someone is yours and you trust the person, what is there to be jealous of again?

...Sexxxy sweeery MOD Ogugua...may i flirt wit u?... ermm Its juss a simple question..No nned to Ban me

So bcus u trust the "person" and the "person" is urs,u never jealous right? Kikikiki... Na so! Make we dey form robot dey go na! Shior!

Merkki: Some people don't even know the meaning of jealousy? Is it possible to love without getting jealous? There is healthy jealousy not the hyper-active immatured tyoe you guys are used to.

It is normal to be jealous. You can't help it. Trust or no trust. Whoever claims to be in love and have never been jealous before is either lying or never truly loved the person.

Even God is jealous. He doesn't want to share us with another. That is healthy jealous...the type i'm talking about here.

Oh my! Bless u sis! Bless u!

Idowuogbo: So bcus u trust the "person" and the "person" is urs,u never jealous right? Kikikiki... Na so! Make we dey form robot dey go na! Shior!

lol@robot. They forget it's normal to feel jealous. We are humans and not robots. If God can get jealous, I wonder why mynd44 cannot.

djeezy: lol@robot. They forget it's normal to feel jealous. We are humans and not robots. If God can get jealous, I wonder why mynd44 cannot.

Well who said jealousy is abnormal or inhumane? Not everyone feels it. Simple.

djeezy: lol@robot.

abi na? We humans for Godsake! u can't avoid it.

ogugua88:

Well who said jealousy is abnormal or inhumane? Not everyone feels it. Simple.

Your entire life you've never felt jealous? Hmmm, I comment my reserve.

ogugua88:

Well who said jealousy is abnormal or inhumane? Not everyone feels it. Simple.

Not everyone? I disagree...

Bcus dey don't show it,don't mean dey don't feel it.