true talk, i dont no everything but i praise good comments.

this is all i want for people to say something for or against what i said, not coming to insult me.

i understand what u said but how are the ladies to know who is a hypocrite. u know we guys always appear to be so nice at first and nothing will give our intentions away so easily. so how will they know?

diddy4dt:

true talk, i don't no everything but i praise good comments.

this is all i want for people to say something for or against what i said, not coming to insult me.

i understand what u said but how are the ladies to know who is a hypocrite. u know we guys always appear to be so nice at first and nothing will give our intentions away so easily. so how will they know?

I'm no "Love doctor", LOL, so I can't give a um, "hard fast" rule for what to look for to know if people are hypocrites or if they're genuine.  I think that's part of something you learn as you get older. And once you know yourself, you'll know the kind of people who are on your level, even if they're acting or pretending. Most of the time, we usually befriend people who are similar to us, anyways.
Personally speaking, though, I think it's important to build a strong relationship with someone even before bringing up the issue of sex. When you meet someone that you gel with and you're both really into each other, and you understand each other, you've taken the time to get to know each other, you're comfortable around each other and all that good stuff, and eventually it'll just feel natural to take it to another level. And there's nothing wrong with that as long as it's a mutual decision. I hope that helps.

it helps shaa. thanks alot.