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Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by biolabee(m): 6:20am On Jul 05, 2013 |
deols: @Efemmena xy Are you now claiming that harem is not real bcs it is not common practice today That the old prophets n sultans did not have harems |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Matthewbriggs(m): 6:28am On Jul 05, 2013 |
ileobatojo: Read my post again, I am never in support of polygamy and never stated men been key providers makes them polygamous. Instead I am implying that men by nature are polygamous and like to have multiple sexual partners." The key providers" point was to highlight how men in this present dispensation are still in charge making it more easy from them to embrace polygamy than bigamy even if both is legalized. |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by tbaba1234: 6:34am On Jul 05, 2013 |
biolabee: This 'harem' thing is just an abode for women in the household. |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by biolabee(m): 6:41am On Jul 05, 2013 |
tbaba1234: Oga mi sir Your post is not clear The point is can muslims can have more 4 wives whether they're slaves or housegirl or concubines If the old prophets had 4 wives and 5 slaves that he slept with now n then..... is that haram? Answer carefully |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by biolabee(m): 6:44am On Jul 05, 2013 |
tbaba1234: So the prophets n sultans n rich people kept nubile nubile young women out of goodness of their hearts in their homes to play and mAybe do hospitality for others? |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by tbaba1234: 6:57am On Jul 05, 2013 |
biolabee: You want a simplistic answer that does not exist. A muslim can have four wives , the 'slaves' have exactly the same rights as his wives. So they were not women just slept with now and then, like you put it. And yes, in an era where slavery was common, the easiest way to liberate the slave was to marry them and bring them into your household. Tell me where the child of a former slave woman also had the rights of inheritance as all women in the abode. |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by tbaba1234: 6:59am On Jul 05, 2013 |
biolabee: Even if he has just two wives, it is still a harem. Would you give your wives to other men to sleep with? |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Matthewbriggs(m): 7:00am On Jul 05, 2013 |
kulyie: are you ok? Did i tell you i am interested in men for a relationship. Anyway there is no need for replying you.your post lacks coherence,substance and point,i dont know what you are on about and sincerely,i dont care.your shallow mindedness is pathetic to say the least :/ That's good to know, am truly happy for your decision cos its 1 less future case of male molestation prevented. |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by biolabee(m): 7:32am On Jul 05, 2013 |
tbaba1234: dude,,, the irony is being lost on you You come here with a high horse trying to claim one religion is righteous than another when there is historical evidence that prophets or sultans ( who are descendents of people closest to the prophet) had more than four wives If your point that that a true practitioner of islam should not have more than four wives,good i agree with this but if you say muslims have never had more than 4 wives, then my friend, you are being economical with the truth |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Nobody: 8:31am On Jul 05, 2013 |
Matthew briggs:smh sicko :/ deal with what is giving you mental and attitudal issues first before you get bothered about another person :/ |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by deols(f): 9:17am On Jul 05, 2013 |
Efemena_xy: No.I didnt contradict myself and my stance has been made known and has not changed. I quoted you only to correct the thought that men can have 4 wives and as many concubines as possible.But No. they can only have four wives and nothing more. With tbaba's explanation, it appears the slave girls are termed concubines, which even in my dictionary is wrong. So, again my post to you was to change the misconception that Muslim men can have concubines according to the Islamic law. Now about the OP, I already stated that allowing polygamy is fine by me. I agree with some feminist views but I am not |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by deols(f): 9:23am On Jul 05, 2013 |
Matthew briggs: ouch |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by tintingz(m): 2:53pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
kulyie: that is a lie fabricated by men who lack self control.if all men are polygamous in nature,why are the likes of bill gates,obama,the founder of apple,i cant remember his name and the facebook guy,mark something. why are they not married to 4 wives.it is when you want to perform an action that is contrary to common sense and rationality you hide under the guise of religion (islam)Lolz... See your level of ignorance Those bolded peeps you mentioned are living in the west, how do you expect them to marry 4 wives where polygamy is illegal... Do you even know if they sleep with misstress outside. |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
kulyie: smh sicko :/I don't understand that man. See the way he jumped on your case and started attacking and insulting you because you said you are not interested in marriage. Hia! Na wa for some nairalanders and their inability to respect other people's choices. 1 Like |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by tintingz(m): 3:02pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
kulyie: but it speaks well of human nature to encourage polygamy.face it you are just encouraging double standards and the world has moved past it.civilization and the new world order has created more opportunities for men and women.take it or live it.if you choose to remain in stone age,that is your cup of tea but there are more kinds of marriages available to people now and please dont give me that african culture crap,the culture has only succeeded in killing your thinking faculties.you use religion when it suits you and you use morality when it suits you.heterosexual marriages and polygamous marriages.there are more depending on whichever that rocks your boatAnd the west doesn't kill your thinking?? SMH |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
deols:Salam deols, please what do you take the term 'feminist' to mean? 1 Like |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by tbaba1234: 3:12pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
biolabee: What moral high horse are you talking about? The only reason, I made a comment on this was to clarify a previous comment. I think I did so for those with understanding. Take deep breaths, relax and read again. It might become clearer. |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by tintingz(m): 3:34pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
deols: @tintingz, do you really need all of these arguments.I'm NOT a chauvinist nor support chauvinism What i dislike is when some women calling themselvs feminist hating men and generalize all men as rapist and animalistic creature... Reading from the feminist i quoted out about men you can see the hate in them Feminism is a group of hate on men, imagine kulyie who poured hot water on someone's face because he broke her sister's heart, just imagine the scence... I pray i dont meet someone like kulyie! |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by tintingz(m): 3:43pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
kulyie: exactly illk love to see the looks on the faces of those pathetic and miserable judgemental chauvenistsI'm not chauvinist and i dont hate feminist but feminism the group that cause women to hate men |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by biolabee(m): 3:43pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
@tbaba1234 your comment was very clear... trying to prove muslims dont marry more than 4 correct me if i am mistaken |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Nobody: 3:59pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
fellis:heheheeh you dey mind am when i no leave my mouth/fingers with laundary man.i know how to handle men like him na abi after i give him his answer,he tackle me again it goes to tell you that some people no gbojuboro.see the mouth sef,e dey do me like say make i slap am before he complete his mumu talk |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Nobody: 4:05pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
tintingz: I'm not chauvinist and i dont hate feminist but feminism the group that cause women to hate menhehehehehe yorubas talk say alfa dey burn,you still dey ask for im bear bear what is the difference between feminism and feminist.is it possible to to divorce a person from her beliefs. Is it possible to tell a pastor devil loves you or tell an alfa to follow you to a strip club :Dyou are just a clown deceiving yourself |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
tintingz: I'm NOT a chauvinist nor support chauvinismo really? So what would you have had me do.ok if you were kulyie,how will you have handle such a guy.and by the way,dont pray for such because it will not be answered.one day you will meet or come across ladies like kulyie or even kulyie herself :p 8-) |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Nobody: 4:19pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
tintingz: And the west doesn't kill your thinking?? SMHon the contrary,it enhances my thinking faculties and given me a wide range of opportunities.imagine education and civilization wasnt brought to africa,people like you would have been using leafs of fruit tree tied with rope to cover your penis. Think about that :/ imagine what would have become of you if you were a stark illiterate.abi the peeps that make phones,tv,laptops electicity,planes etc,did they make it in africa.even if africans have innovation,its about magun,jazz,how to snatch someones husband or wife.abeg spare me joor :/ |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Nobody: 4:25pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
tintingz: Lolz... See your level of ignorancesee your level of mental squalor.why are you always lying to prove a point.so akon who is known to be a polygamist and doesnt hide it hails from your village abi.smh.even the guy that they played out his life in the movie,'why do fools fall in love' whats that his name sef,cant remember it now.he hails from your home town abi.abeg stop saying what youre not sure of.everything has to do with self control and internal discipline |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by biolabee(m): 4:35pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
Is akon legally married to more than one wife or he cohabits with them Madam you harsh oo Intellectual squalor |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
biolabee: Is akon legally married to more than one wife or he cohabits with themplenty people dey vex my spirit for this thread starting with the op but i don cool down for now 1 Like |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
@Kulyie, why don't you wanna marry? |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
tintingz: I'm NOT a chauvinist nor support chauvinism So in your mind feminism is the female version of chauvinism? Wonders shall never end. And you quoted extremist feminists whose ideologies have nothing to do with feminism then started claiming that all feminists hate men. As a muslim you should know better. What if I quote the things boko haram militants say about Islam and then claim that Islam supports violence because boko haram says so? Does that seem sensible to you? Anyway your own no too consain me. Am waiting for deols to tell me what she thinks feminist means. 2 Likes |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Nobody: 5:20pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
alutacontinua: @Kulyie, why don't you wanna marry?because of the nature of my job which will most likely take its toll on the marriage it wont even give me the time for home management or a man (dont bother to ask me what i do for a living) and there are some certain life styles of mine that i am not WILLING TO SACRIFICE ON THE ALTER OF MARRIAGE or a man.am too strong willed.3 my freedom and independence to make certain decisions that will not need to put into consideration husband,my love for my freedom,privacy and space.my attitudal trait that cant accept no you cant do this from any man,the fact that i can have kids and other things attached to the institution and still live single,the fact that it is not uncostitutional and nobodys father will arrest me for it,i also make my rules.i find it difficut or impossible to subject my will to a man and so on and i am living peacefully and happily with my life which is not affecting anybody moreover kulyie is the law maker of her life not society 2 Likes |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Matthewbriggs(m): 6:08pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
kulyie: because of the nature of my job which will most likely take its toll on the marriage it wont even give me the time for home management or a man (dont bother to ask me what i do for a living) and there are some certain life styles of mine that i am not WILLING TO SACRIFICE ON THE ALTER OF MARRIAGE or a man.am too strong willed.3 my freedom and independence to make certain decisions that will not need to put into consideration husband,my love for my freedom,privacy and space.my attitudal trait that cant accept no you cant do this from any man,the fact that i can have kids and other things attached to the institution and still live single,the fact that it is not uncostitutional and nobodys father will arrest me for it,i also make my rules.i find it difficut or impossible to subject my will to a man and so on and[b] i am living peacefully and happily with my life which is not affecting anybody moreover kulyie is the law maker of her life not society[/b] On reading this, I apologise for coming hard on you, you are truly happy been single, I respect your decision and wish you the best. But please do tone down on your man hating that seems to fill every thread I see with your name. I might be wrong but I think you are a man in a woman's body, so I can understand your pain. (no pun intended referring to your extremely strong willed personality) Enjoy your life. Men are not the enemy, the society is. There are good men out there, If you ever decide to settle down which I doubt you will, I pray the right man find you, one who will love you for you, For your strength and weakness. A man that will heal your wound and put smile on your face. Cheers Milady. |
Re: Legalize Polygamy! By Jillian Keenan A Feminist by Nobody: 6:21pm On Jul 05, 2013 |
Matthew briggs:wonderful,i cant believe my eyes.so you are this pleasant. chisos i had to remove the contact lenses i was wearing to read again,i thought it was my lenses deceiving me.intresting.so there are still pleasant men in nairaland.if that is the case,then i believe nigeria can be one of the top economies in the world beating america,france,germany and russia gdp put together with a sane and clean environment. Abi shey i dey dream ni anyway thanks for understanding 1 Like |
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