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Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by Deen4me(m): 3:29pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
ummsulaym: mahram issue... Why should the husband in the first instance bring in someone into the home and make the wife uncomfortable in her own home. Did they (the relatives) not have a home prior to the couple getting married ? Its a recipe for disaster, the woman has the right to her privacy , this is not of Islam. And by the way it applies to both sides of the family i.e husbands and wives side. These are the little mistakes we bring in from culture that mess up marriages The couples should have their privacy to themselves to get to know and understand each other better. Me personally will never do this, I see no reason why someone should be disturbing my flow for my house |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by ummsulaym(f): 3:40pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
@Deen4me kinda funny though but that's the truth... Think that's an issue i shouldn't forget to discuss prior to nikkah... @all, do you know islamic stand on adoption? P.s: not cuz you dont have children of your own but would just like to |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by Sissie(f): 4:01pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
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Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by ummsulaym(f): 5:00pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
Sissie: wa'leikum salam... Still cant stop laughing... But that's the blatant truth... Shukran jazeelan |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by Sissie(f): 5:01pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
ummsulaym: @Deen4me There's is adoption in Islam but it's different from the conventional way of adopting, it's more like taking responsibility of a child upon yourself, but he doesn't become your own child. He/she can't bear your name as its surname because he's not your child, he has to bear his/her own name. If one choses to adopt a baby and breastfed him, he becomes your foster child and a mahram. If one adopts a child and didn't breastfed him, he's still a non mahram and have to be treated as one when he/she matures. |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by ummsulaym(f): 5:28pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
Sissie: but from an orphanage where neither the mum nor the dad is known, whose name does he/she bears as surname? |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by Sissie(f): 5:37pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
ummsulaym: He can bear the name of the place he was found or hails from, as a surname. |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by kubby04: 10:40pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
[quote author=ibit-abid-qudrt][/quote]Are u saying she can't travel down with her Brother-in-law & his family cos he's not her Mahram? |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by kubby04: 10:46pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
Salam, once he grows up and becomes a non mahram, you send him out, he should go back to his family house, your habibi can still pay for his upkeep.[/quote] That doesn't sound realistic. Usually, in such situations, even d husband can't refuse to takE d kid in unless he wants to make life difficult for his wife. |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by Sissie(f): 11:09pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
kubby04: Salam, once he grows up and becomes a non mahram, you send him out, he should go back to his family house, your habibi can still pay for his upkeep. It is realistic. I dont understand he can't take the kid in unless he wants to make life difficult for her? How? |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by Nobody: 7:09am On Oct 14, 2013 |
Sissie:Sis it's realistic for those husbands with "agboye"( sound aqeedah). |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by Nobody: 3:52pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
kubby04: Are u saying she can't travel down with her Brother-in-law & his family cos he's not her Mahram? not me, but sorry it appears as the rules go, that she cant travel with non-Mahram. but now d case is that , u said they are supposed to travel with the brother in laws' family right.so d family are lyk mahrams of the brother in law. lyk i m looking at it in d light of being alone with non-mahram now, cos one can be with a non-mahram man, provided the man's mahram(e.gfemale) are ther with hiim. but i dont know if that applies o travelling. Probably some more knowledgeable person, could enlighten us on this matter?. d brothers r also welkom to chip in. |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by harmeenart(f): 11:41pm On Oct 14, 2013 |
Assalam alaykum yaa akhawaat fi deen ibit-abid-qudrt:It doesnt apply wit travelling sis.There's an explicit hadith that states that a believing woman should not travel except with her mahram. But anybody else could enlighten us more And before I run comot,lemme quickly say: Taqabbalallahu minna wa minkum May accept it from us and from u. May Allah forgive us our sins,grant us contenment and the best in both lives.Aamin. A ku odun o.Send my meat o ;DAssalam alaykum yaa akhawaat fi deen ibit-abid-qudrt:It doesnt apply wit travelling sis.There's an explicit hadith that states that a believing woman should not travel except with her mahram. But anybody else could enlighten us more And before I run comot,lemme quickly say: Taqabbalallahu minna wa minkum May accept it from us and from u. May Allah forgive us our sins,grant us contenment and the best in both lives.Aamin. A ku odun o.Send my meat o :p |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by Nobody: 12:58pm On Oct 15, 2013 |
wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu. kk noted, d rling doesnt apply to travelling nd eid mubarak to u too, ns all d sis |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by ummsulaym(f): 9:23pm On Oct 15, 2013 |
This message is no doubt a little late cuz I have been very busy, though been peeping @ nairaland. Well, it's better late than never ********To my sweet family on NL******* Earth can forget rotating, birds can forget flying, candle can forget melting, heart can forget beating *******BUT******* Umm-Sulaym couldn't forget to wish you ''happy Eid-Ul-Adha'' May the noor of the Eid illuminate your heart, mind, soul and may all your prayers be answered... Remember me in your prayers.... *********EID MUBARAQ******** |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by deols(f): 10:02pm On Oct 15, 2013 |
ummsulaym: This message is no doubt a little late cuz I have been very busy, though been peeping @ nairaland. Well, it's better late than never Thank you dear. Eid Mubarak to you too |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by HSM(f): 11:18pm On Oct 15, 2013 |
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Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by HSM(f): 11:33pm On Oct 15, 2013 |
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Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by kubby04: 8:32am On Oct 16, 2013 |
JazakumllahKhayra. Eid Mubarak everyone. |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by ummsulaym(f): 5:16pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
sisters, I've been hearing stuffs like 'only sisters party' organized mostly on Eid for sisters to get together... Just want to know what it's about and how its usually organized like the order of programe for instance... I will like to organize such sisters' get-together one of these EIDs... Jazakallahu khayr |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by Sissie(f): 11:33am On Oct 17, 2013 |
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Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by ummsulaym(f): 1:53pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
tnx sis... But do u think there is any song or kind of music supported by islam? Have been hearing different things about that topic.... Some said it's haram in entirety, some said its ok if it doesnt have beatings while some others says beating or not, as long as the song content isn't offensive to Islam... Tnx again sis |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by Sissie(f): 2:12pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
ummsulaym: tnx sis... Nasheeds are allowed islamically songs with the local drum (I have forgotten what the drum is called) is allowed but the song contents must not be offensive to Islam, with bad words e.t.c. music with instrumentals I.e piano, guitar is not. If it's haram in its entirety then it means nasheeds are haram too, which is not true. Will try and get some reference for this. |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by HSM(f): 6:05pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Sissie: it's called duff drums |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by Sissie(f): 6:45am On Oct 19, 2013 |
HSM*: Thanks |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by ummsulaym(f): 9:12am On Oct 19, 2013 |
I didn't see sis sissie and sis deols yesterday o and I missed una... Hope all is well? Guess sis deols' absence is majorly as a result of her 'Idawo'... Whoever gets in contacts with her should say me success to her... I miss her posts |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by Sissie(f): 9:55am On Oct 19, 2013 |
ummsulaym: I didn't see sis sissie and sis deols yesterday o and I missed una... Hope all is well? Guess sis deols' absence is majorly as a result of her 'Idawo'... Whoever gets in contacts with her should say me success to her... I miss her posts Wa alaikum salam, just didn't feel like posting much yesterday, thanks. you can send deols a pm. |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by deols(f): 3:38pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
ummsulaym: I didn't see sis sissie and sis deols yesterday o and I missed una... Hope all is well? Guess sis deols' absence is majorly as a result of her 'Idawo'... Whoever gets in contacts with her should say me success to her... I miss her posts Thank you dear.. I already said that in my reply. It is never too much though.. Yh! it was d idanwo..done wv it but I am still quite busy. |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by Sissie(f): 3:45pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
deols: Salam, how was it, pray you ace it. |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by deols(f): 3:50pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
Sissie: Amin Thank you..twas good. alhamdulillah |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by Sissie(f): 3:51pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
deols: Nice, alhamdulillah. Oya come back and start posting, I miss you oh. |
Re: Muslim Sisters Circle by ummsulaym(f): 4:05pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
Sissie: tell am |
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