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Re: Is This An Affair? by Xerxes1(m): 12:50am On May 23, 2008 |
Many foreign ladies would date more Nigerian men than foreign dudes will date Nigerian ladies. Thats a well-known fact. Nigerian ladies are illiterates(can't read between the lines) and it's very sad. I am even scared now that half of the people i talk to on NL might start feeling i love them. Nigerian women r plagues one must avoid. |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Nobody: 12:50am On May 23, 2008 |
you know your problem jackal?u argue blindly,and u can't stand it when someone tells d truth or challenges u,we r talking about a married man here not single friends,even me as a woman y will i have a male friend that will be emailing everyday,ok u email them everyday,do u see them everyday?can u have a marrried woman as a friend and keep seeing her everyday?we r not talking about chics here we r talking about marriage emailing is not d problem but must they see each other everyday,is emailing not enough for them,that they have to still see each other again |
Re: Is This An Affair? by annamaria: 12:51am On May 23, 2008 |
Xerxes, Jenny, Rampant, guys, let's calm down, ok. Doesn't have to decend to a fight, seriously. I appreciate everything y'all have said. I take it all in. No need to get worked up on my account. Biko, let's stop oo. |
Re: Is This An Affair? by RampantT(f): 12:52am On May 23, 2008 |
Xerxes.: Now, I really dnt blame those foreigners who come here and bash you naija men. With the way you describe your mother and sisters to them, why wnt they think you men are useless pile of sh*t? |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Nobody: 12:53am On May 23, 2008 |
@annamaria no probls sweetie |
Re: Is This An Affair? by RampantT(f): 12:53am On May 23, 2008 |
annamaria:you're right. . I'm sorry jare. I've said my piece. . . |
Re: Is This An Affair? by 4Him1(m): 12:53am On May 23, 2008 |
Xerxes.: I agree with the first line (in highlights) 100% Nigerian ladies as illiterates? No. Xerxes you are missing a key point here, these are MATURE adults not just "friends" chatting about Arsenal and traffic hold-ups. Affairs don't start in a flash, they begin with that first little platonic hello then the constant emails and phone calls before graduating into a raging fire neither is able to stop. I'm a guy, even i know that the way to easily get a woman to like you is to make her feel very comfortable in your presence. |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Nobody: 12:55am On May 23, 2008 |
Xerxes you are missing a key point here, this are MATURE adults not just "friends" chatting about Arsenal and traffic hold-ups. Affairs don't start in a flash, they begin with that first little platonic hello then the constant emails and phone calls before graduating into a raging fire neither is able to stop. my point exactly,God bless u 4him |
Re: Is This An Affair? by TheSly: 12:56am On May 23, 2008 |
Xerxes.:Touche. . . . . . . . . . |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Xerxes1(m): 12:58am On May 23, 2008 |
jennykadry: They can see each other anytime they choose to AS LONG AS the 2 parties maintain a sense of responsibility. Bloody hell. . . . . married women in ma office flirt with me on a daily basis and i put every down as jokes. I wouldn't touch any married woman so ma mindset is locked against the devilish feelings that might arise. . . . . .It's the mentality, the orientation, the will power. The fact that a guy sees a babe everyday does not put it down to an affair. . . . .i will never subscribe to that. 4 Him: Well then, lemme speak for maself. There's nuthing any married woman can do to get me seduced or enticed. . . . she's just wasting her fucking time. Be that as it may, i still don't agree the poster is in love already. . . . .now that it's bovvering her, she should stop/reduce the communication. |
Re: Is This An Affair? by annamaria: 12:59am On May 23, 2008 |
Ehh, Jenny, I didn't say we see each other everyday. I said we do either mail or YIM or call or text. Not necessarily see o. We are both very busy people and most times we see it's even in the course of work. No ideas there, please. And who is this Jackal? |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Nobody: 1:01am On May 23, 2008 |
thats u xerxes ,clap for urself,but we r talking about someone else here, mind u d married women r in ur office u all work together,good for u,but dis ones work in diff offices but still find time to see each other everyday(apart from mails)and as if its not enough they still mail each other even weekends,wat r we not talking here,abeg leave matter |
Re: Is This An Affair? by RampantT(f): 1:02am On May 23, 2008 |
annamaria: Am not trying to say this is similar to your situation. But if I can't bare to stand one day without texting, calling, or yim this dude, then I more than like him. I may not love him, but its def more than friendship |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Nobody: 1:04am On May 23, 2008 |
Ehh, Jenny, I didn't say we see each other everyday. I said we do either mail or YIM or call or text. Not necessarily see o. We are both very busy people and most times we see it's even in the course of work. No ideas there, please. let me quote u anna I work in the same organisation with this guy but we're not in the same office. We got to know each other at a church function and started emailing, very casual stuff in the beginning. I know his wife and kid. T[b]he thing now is no day passes without either seeing [/b]or calling or emailing or YIMing. It used to be only Monday to Friday but now, even weekends, we exchange quite a lot of emails, usually general stuff, jokes, current issues etc etc. I enjoy talking to him and his friendship means a lot to me. He advises me a lot about relationships and is quite protective of me, more like a big brother. was dat not ur statement annamaria jackal is xerxes |
Re: Is This An Affair? by RampantT(f): 1:05am On May 23, 2008 |
LOL! Jenny! |
Re: Is This An Affair? by annamaria: 1:05am On May 23, 2008 |
Women get wahala sha! Na wa! Jen, did you miss the either and or? I have to ge to bed, work in the morning. |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Xerxes1(m): 1:05am On May 23, 2008 |
annamaria: Who is Jackal? jennykadry: So which is worse? The women u see everyday kissing u on the cheeks everytime u sort out their networks or someone u are yet to kiss? A man gotta have loads of principles and self-control. In a place like UK where women cry foul randomly. . . . . .A guy's ass would be in jail if he thinks he is on something when it's nuthing!!!! |
Re: Is This An Affair? by arianne(f): 1:06am On May 23, 2008 |
annamaria: meet xero himself! hi hon, how u doin? u know what, don't answer. rampant- like a dog returns to its vommit? remember? (can't believe i didnt get banned that night) |
Re: Is This An Affair? by RampantT(f): 1:09am On May 23, 2008 |
arianne: Seun migh tnot have your posts. . , lucky you. Abegi, leave the "boy" to his own mentality. I'll rather have a naija mentality than the one he's owning up to |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Nobody: 1:09am On May 23, 2008 |
Women get wahala sha! Na wa! Jen, did you miss the either and or? i saw clearly honey,so aside from d mails u people still see eachother please before u go,i will advise u to run faster dan your legs can carry u away from that man,if u like i can borrow u my own leg to add to urs,nothing like brother's protection,let your boyfriend or another single male be protective towards u and not a married man,biko,ejimu afa chukwu ariogi |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Xerxes1(m): 1:09am On May 23, 2008 |
annamaria: Can u blame them? It's the end of the month. arianne: Land of ma bloody fathers. . . . . .Christmas came early. |
Re: Is This An Affair? by RampantT(f): 1:09am On May 23, 2008 |
Abegi, am out. , let me pop in some Yoruba movie jare. . . .laterz! @poster Hope you find the answer |
Re: Is This An Affair? by frank316(m): 6:40pm On May 23, 2008 |
all these girls, una no go leave married men alone. go and find your own husband and leave person property |
Re: Is This An Affair? by omoovie(f): 6:53pm On May 23, 2008 |
Annamaria, You said his wife never comes up in conversations. That is indeed a red flag. If this (whether it's an affair) is really bugging you and you want to continue this friendship with the guy I suggest you ask him off handedly to "meet the woman behind the man" so to speak. It will give you a chance to meet his wife and let her know about you and her husband's friendship and so it becomes a couple and a family friend rather than 1/2 a couple and a family friend. If she knows you and hangs out with you solo (doing girl stuff) or all three of you together that (at least most of the time) reduces the opportunity for the relationship to go up to kentro level. If the wife know you it's harder for the man to start considering backyard runs unless his just a callous dog and if that's the case then you don't need to be his friend. |
Re: Is This An Affair? by mamaput(f): 6:53pm On May 23, 2008 |
dose his wife know about it. ithat is one thing you should ask yourself. |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Nobody: 6:55pm On May 23, 2008 |
all these girls, una no go leave married men alone. no be so @topic we are all human beings and like i quoted yesterday,there is no doubt some kind of feelings have started creeping in,can someone please tell me what a single babe is doing chatting and mailing a married man everyday,including saturdays and sundays |
Re: Is This An Affair? by banni: 8:40pm On May 23, 2008 |
At the moment it seems like friendship but fact you are worried means there is something giving you the red light signal. I would be cautious as dating a man who has a girlfriend or worse is married can only led to problems. |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Nobody: 8:42pm On May 23, 2008 |
ofcourse they are both friends no doubt,im not saying they r dating,but i still insist some kinda emotional feelings has started creeping in and dats y she had to open a thread |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Xerxes1(m): 9:07pm On May 23, 2008 |
jennykadry: I disagree with you. |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Nobody: 9:08pm On May 23, 2008 |
give ur point |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Xerxes1(m): 9:14pm On May 23, 2008 |
Ma point is. . . . .she is not in LOVE yet and there are no feelings. A man and a woman can have harmless conversations for weeks without any prickish moves!!!!! |
Re: Is This An Affair? by Nobody: 9:17pm On May 23, 2008 |
then y is she scared,did u not read her post?did u not see d force at which dat post was typed,dat post was filled wt so much emotions,and even if d poster has refused to comeout and tell d truth no problem,nobody is forcing her,they are not dating,and im still repeating it,they aint dating,but d feelings are there for sure |
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