yellowpawpaw:
Haba madam Efe!
How can they tell her to do that?
She should use her brain naw.
Benjohnson no dey again?

chaircover: I always try to see the good in people first unless I have any reason to doubt you.

Unless the MIL has shown me previous signs of being a bad MIL, being fetish and she is taking both my husband and I there,
then I dont see the problem. I know what my bible says and I am not a kid and will know when the church is deviating away from the word of God and know when to run if need be, but how will I know unless I go there?

If you are actively TTC, and nothing has happened after 2 years, then yes there is cause to go and see a doctor

In these kinds of situations, one has to be wise. If mama is genuinely trying to help and has no ulterior motive and you refuse to go, how does that make you seem?

I would go with my husband and my mother . . we are all looking forward to this baby.

vanitty: Please follow her
It will save a lot of hassles
If you can get your husband to tag along, even better
However, please be very alert and cautious.
Once you feel something diabolical is about to happen, get away from there.
Come to think of it, it will be best if you go with your husband. Try and persuade hubby to tag along.
Good luck

bellong: I want to assume you understand the doctrines of Christ. If the church does not conform to the teachings of Christ, forget it. However, to give unto Ceaser his due, in cooperation with your husband, you can follow her.

I will implore you and your husband to know that the miracle you seek is right with you. Have you done all the necessary medical tests to ascertain a clean bill of health. If you have done it, do not panic babies will come soon.

Children are the heritage of God and He gives them in His own time.

debrief08: I didn't make up my mind, I asked valid questions, and I oversee a parastatal and I say factually that most miracle babies in churches are from baby farms.
Most of the fake testimonies on fertility in churches are either purchased or silently from IVF.
I asked if the church was a lab?
Where do they produce babies from and dash people?
I will say it without mincing words, Pastors who promise babies have no right to do so.
God gives babies and not through agents.
God has helped Doctors and Lab Technicians identify problems and find solutions utilise it.
I also asked why oyibos who brought us religion are not jumping from prayer house to prayer house.

debrief08: Still haven't answered my question oh.
The people who brought Christianity to us why are they not jumping from miracle center to miracle center in search of fruit of the womb?
Most of you live abroad because the structures work and proper medical equipments, please help me answer if the places you live when a couple haven't concieved in 2 years they will start looking for miracle center abi they will go to hospital first.
I stand by my words, less than 1 percent of the miracles they sell can be substantiated

uche13: Neither are you God to know who and who is lying. There are fakes but you aren't God's policeman commisioned to detect fakes and genuine people. You still haven't answered my question. What is the fate of those with no medical solution?

bamboke:

I don't even know the church myself but she said people with issues go there and they pray into oil for you. I am so skeptical. Though I had dreamt about her coming to tell me about this and also about looking for how to send me out of her son's home and now she has asked me to go to the church.

coogar: well - the churches in nigeria are filled with hypocrites and pretenders. there was a video that went viral few years ago about a pastor ramming a woman that looked like a housewife. i am 100% certain she was being "helped" to get a child in what they would later tell us was a "spiritual deliverance"...

slimyem: Isn't that the video where the woman was shouting "holy ghost-fire-enter! fire-enter! fire-enter" as the man was ramming into her?