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|Men And Their Indecent Dressing by joomiegal(f): 11:35am On Jun 04, 2008|
Guys And Their Indecent Exposure - The Flip Side (From A Female View!)
As a Christian, I've often gotten rather sick ova guys whining and blaming ladies' dressing for their sins! yes, i know som of my sisters out there are rather wild, but i always felt the guys should get a grip on their own hormones.
when the topic of dressing comes up, all attention shifts to the ladies, n then WE take the bashing endlessly. wot about the guys? why do they feel its ok to prance about in nothing but boxers, do they think we're made of wood?
Face it 99% of guys will think nothing of sitting with a lady visitor in just boxers and chatting 4 hours. they feel just because they don't have boobs its ok. my neighbour just the other day innocently changed his top in front of me, and left me struggling 4 air, the body was, wow.
now wot if, i'd grabbed the poor guy and blamed it on indecent exposure, harassment, oppression etc, nko? lol and thats wot u guys claim we do to you.
they feel just because they don't have boobs its ok.
well its not, and me i am protesting!!!
You guys need to start looking at how YOUR dressing affects ladies, and while you're at it, please lose the drooping jeans - it aint sightly!!!
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by Frizy(m): 12:08pm On Jun 04, 2008|
For a guy talking to a chic with only boxers is indeed a shame. I agree with you that guys may feel indifferent but please you must not compare that with girls dressing half nude. That is tempting.
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by JeSoul(f): 1:44pm On Jun 04, 2008|
joomiegal:LOL, dagg girl you had me rolling on that one , I have been there before . I think the guys r just not aware that women can also be tempted visually. Though not nearly as much as guys are.
so christian men here you have heard joomiegal - watch your dressing (or lack of it) too!
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by RThESlyR: 2:14pm On Jun 04, 2008|
face it 99% of guys will think nothing of sitting with a lady visitor in just boxers and chatting 4 hours. they feel just because they don't have boobs its okI disagree with this one madame. . .
No guy with his right senses will put on ''just boxers'' in the presence of visitors especially female visitors.
I agree with the fact that many guys are doing that but errrhh 99%?. . . i strongly disagree.
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by lucabrasi(m): 2:24pm On Jun 04, 2008|
if a guy does,then u rab him as well like other guys supposedly grabs indecently dressed girls
a guy wearing boxers depends on the level of familiarity not forgetting that boxers is not the same thing as g-strings, u can wear boxers and a tee shirt just outside ur house or the front but u cant wear a pair of women's udies same way, also a guy can chill topless with friends so there s really no basis for comparison,
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by RThESlyR: 2:28pm On Jun 04, 2008|
lucabrasi:Couldn't have said it better. . .
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by Lady2(f): 8:20pm On Jun 04, 2008|
my neighbour just the other day innocently changed his top in front of me, and left me struggling 4 air, the body was, wow.
HAHAHAHAH IH MY GOODNESS. Now you have left me looking for air with this. LOLOLOLOLOL.
Giiiirrrrrllll I understand.
In that situation, being a Catholic, I do the sign of the cross and say "Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning so shall it be now and forever, Amen."
or 3 Hail Mary's.
I have to be single since I am not ready for marriage. When I am done with school God will send a good friend to come and the wait won't be for long. Amen.
But um comparing a man wearing boxers to a woman's undies showing is not exactly fair comparison o. One shows more skin than the other. You can actually outline a woman with her undies but not a man with his boxers o.
Most boxers look like regular shorts anyway.
I own some and walk out wearing one.
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by imhotep: 11:09am On Jun 05, 2008|
Please forgive us guys, for we know not what we do.
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by longman83(m): 1:24pm On Jun 05, 2008|
This thread is funny . Boxers may not be as explicit as a woman's undies, but it is still inappropriate for guys to chill with girls with just boxers on. As for the whole shirtless business - well, maybe girls aren't all the same in this regard. Personally I don't go shirtless even in the comfort of my own home, and I recall that my female housemate and some of my other female friends have complained that they've never seen me shirtless. They were Christians too,
Your point is well taken nevertheless. Guys ackrite!
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by sheniqua: 2:45pm On Jun 05, 2008|
My sister you've spoken well
Personally I don't like seeing strange men with boxers.
I'm a Christian too.
It's almost impossible for your eyes not to zero in on his "arsenal" when you see such
and their endless "abunna" grabbing just screams, "take a look at the actual size"
It can be disgusting too.
it's like they're checking if it's still there and at the same time showing it off
That's just my guess.
I can even handle all that,I'm covered by the blood
the one that I find utterly disgusting is an overweight man shirtless and wearing little shorts.
A big don't if you ask me
For one the shorts at the center dissappear into the crotch area and they keep pulling it down
then on the top,you are basically forced to look at the disgusting man boobs without an accompanying double D bra.
the overhanging belle nko?.
and then if he has bush growing on his chest,needing a lawn mower, that's a whole 'nother issue
let me stop so far,I'm sure we all get the picture
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by Radiant(f): 2:50pm On Jun 05, 2008|
Which kain topic person no go see for una
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by dee02(m): 2:52pm On Jun 05, 2008|
What about a wrinkly dilapidated 75 yr old fella rocking some stretched draws?
Or a pale, "past his sell by date" 80yr old daddy flashing his stale vegetables?
Would you call that indecent dressing too or would you throw your guts up?
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by dee02(m): 2:53pm On Jun 05, 2008|
Tacky g-strings is a turn off!
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by Xerxes4(m): 2:57pm On Jun 05, 2008|
It's getting uncontrollable!!!!!
Year 2008. . . . . .a woman is accusing men for visual harrassment. . .
Its a strange world.
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by kennyp: 3:04pm On Jun 05, 2008|
pls can anyone help me get a job pls
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by dee02(m): 3:10pm On Jun 05, 2008|
for fuc.k sake you stupid plank, this is not a job agency!
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by kingkams(m): 3:15pm On Jun 05, 2008|
face it 99% of guys will think nothing of sitting with a lady visitor in just boxers and chatting 4 hours. they feel just because they don't have boobs its ok
You got this one wrong, thats for sure.
my neighbour just the other day innocently changed his top in front of me, and left me struggling 4 air, the body was, wow.
I must confess, i like your sincerity. Most girls wouldn't have accepted it that way.
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by skyline(f): 3:18pm On Jun 05, 2008|
I cant help laughing at this. Somebody help me!!!
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by sheniqua: 3:24pm On Jun 05, 2008|
do you have boxers and a ripped physique?
If not go push wheelbarrow for main market
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by tulk2mi: 3:38pm On Jun 05, 2008|
In my wildest imagination i neva thot d male physique can actually attract, word is cough i mean was it disgusts, 4rm shirtless to the d main LGA.
So e dey attract ehn thinking e b like say i go begin exercise regularlyooo, 2 loose d extra belle, make my fine legs thick, jerry curl my hair 4rm LGA to de chest so that i feet sample dat nu boxers wen i get, e get this nu babe wey dey do shakara 4 me if she just see me, omo she go bow quik quik. oya push up push down 1, 2, 3, puff puff, e b like say my heart one fail me , HELEP! I DEY DIE OOOO!
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by JeSoul(f): 3:48pm On Jun 05, 2008|
tulk2mi:LOL. . .good luck with the jerry curls n push ups.
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by shylladear(f): 3:52pm On Jun 05, 2008|
if you won die die now
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by shylladear(f): 3:57pm On Jun 05, 2008|
i believe most of these guys go around with their boxers on purpose most expecially when they are in the presence of some people (girls to be precise) and also guys just to show off their physic.
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by ehie007(m): 4:30pm On Jun 05, 2008|
Ur arguments here are baseless, u cant compare both. Remember men are moved mostly by what they see, while women are moved mostly by what they hear.
we guys just generally like been free, and those that talk to ladies in boxers have no such hidden intentions, its just kinda a guy thing. i still cant believe that ladies are moved by seeing a guy in boxers, except its a guy she sleeps with or is in love with or a lady who just has sexual imaginations when she is around a boxer wearing guy.
So my dear poster, u cant use this as a basis for saying gues dress indecent.
You can perform a live practical, let a lady with pant and bra and a guy with boxers take a walk in a busy street and see the amount of guys or gals that we get aroused, in fact the will see the guy as giong mad,while we will see the almost Unclad lady as,
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by Seun(m): 4:34pm On Jun 05, 2008|
Why are men insisting that ladies are not affected by nude men. How would you know?
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by JeSoul(f): 4:58pm On Jun 05, 2008|
Abeg help me ask him oh.
ehie007, perhaps the guy does it innocently but it doesn't matter. I don't have to be in love with a guy to be physically attracted to him. Christian men also have a responsibility to cover up and not tempt the ladies. It goes both ways.
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by simmy(m): 5:05pm On Jun 05, 2008|
the comparison doesnt work, no sane dude will go out in public clad only in boxers yet u find females in public (sometimes even in church in their own version of , personally, i d only entertain my chic in my boxers but sometimes sh.t happens.
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by ekas(f): 5:11pm On Jun 05, 2008|
please this is a fact. we get attracted by a guys sexy physique,and its very tempting.
one might want to have a feel of the body,so plssssssssssssssssssssssssss cover up if you know u got the supple body
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by xyoung: 5:14pm On Jun 05, 2008|
now wot if, i'd grabbed the poor guy.
maybe the poor guy was also thinking the same,ie wanting to grab you also and ,
you too like bad thing girl[color=#006600][/color]
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by ehie007(m): 5:34pm On Jun 05, 2008|
Still not convinced that women are attracted when they see a guy in boxers. If the guy doesnt have a sexy bod nko, may be a lepa guy, guess its the sight of "junior" that attracts the ladies.
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by babycool(f): 5:37pm On Jun 05, 2008|
Who says that a woman is not moved by sight? For me, a guy with a very sexy physique (broad chest, flat abs, straight legs and six packs) wearing only boxers is as erotic as a woman wearing a pant and bra especially those with heavy packages at the middle! Just imagine such moving around with no inner restraints(you know what i mean) God! you need to see what some wear as swimming trunk at the pool, its like its's going to burst out from the Lycra! Some of ours bros now wear tight fitted pants with no underwear, every now and then they get an erection around you not knowing that we notice, abeg leave matter, we no be stick!
|Re: Men And Their Indecent Dressing by brainwave(m): 5:39pm On Jun 05, 2008|
@Poster, correction taken. Jokes apart, some of us male folks don't know there is a remote possibility that women can be harrased (just like men are by women) by the way we dress (especially around the house!).
@poster, Thanks 4 ur sincerity!
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