playcharles: God will continue to punish our past rulers for mismanagement and corruption, if u agree, click liked button

Continue to blame ur ineptitude leaders untill ur water pass garri

Orikinla: If you don't like this post, that is your headache and heartache.

What I hate most is to see boys who cannot even feed themselves looking for relationships with girls.
They are in fact, the most sexually active in Africa.
You see jobless guys who should focus on being creative and innovative like their mates in America, Europe and Asia, but their best pursuits are looking for girls to date and they cannot offer these impressionable and vulnerable young women nothing more than S*E*X. And that is why the National Agency for the Control of AIDS, NACA, reported that 3.4 million Nigerians were living with HIV/AIDS, the second largest globally.

Later you see them and their ill bred kids and suffering and smiling baby mamas increasing the population of the poor masses in the slums where they breed anti-social characters, robbers and other criminals who become socioeconomic liabilities and threats to the society.

You want a girl to be your honey, but you don't have money.
You better go and get busy first to add value to your life and stop being a romantic nuisance.

Only a re-tarded girl will date any empty suit.

ROMANCE WITHOUT FINANCE IS NOTHING BUT A NUISANCE.
~ BLANCHE MC MANETT

Dude, there ia a word for all these epistle you wrote,


GIGOLO!!!!!!

On the other hand, from their perspective, does it really matter? If a guy without a job is bedding a lot of women, i think he is talented. It is just that he hasn't noticed his huge talent yet!!.From the so called "negative" angle/perspective, he could be a remarkable por.nnstar where he would amass a whole lotta money but get a lot of public outcry based on his source of income.

from the "positive angle/perspective", any guy that boinks regularly or has an amazing sexlife can mean only one thing. He is charming(No detergent-OMO!!!! ),perhaps charismatic,maybe sociable,confident,cocky and wait ,.....listen to the most important,............very convincing. In such situations, The individual would make a perfect marketer especially to the opposite sex since he he eats apple on a regular basis so this can also transcend to his hidden ability to convince peeps from Venus.You don't just boink without saying a damn thang or no possible attraction except it is a red-light pooosie we talking bout here which invariably money(finance) would be involved!!.

pekelepekele: & y are the galz also saying yes to their request , in fact i pity some gals that doesn't know wears quality .

Imagine most guys now a days with their raw okirika collection of 1k , 2k and aboki perfume running after gals .

You see them they never forget to use powder , use their mama relaxer to coil their hair .with a n50 white handkerchief .

& gals will be like nigga is got future , nigga smells good

Lol, but you gotta make the most of what you have.

At least he has the decency to take a shower, coil his hair for the ladies, use his Sosorobia cologne, and starch his okrika shirt.

When he blows up now, he can switch it up to Head and Sholders shampoo, Givenchy Cologne, and Louis Vuitton Shirt.

sholypopz:

Do u have red hair like Joan or what is this one talking? Are u not african again?

God bless u 4 bringing dis topic.

So what do we say about "finance without romance?"

Finance and romance sure goes together but the sad truth still remains (Girls like broke guys with "sweet mouth" and you just can't understand them)

sheky24: Finance and romance sure goes together but the sad truth still remains (Girls like broke guys with "sweet mouth" and you just can't understand them)

Guys pls for your own Good don't Listen to the highlighted part because its a fat lie! Sweet mouth ko......Sweet mouth ni! NIGERIAN GIRLS PREFER MONEY TO SWEET MOUTH!

pekelepekele: & y are the galz also saying yes to their request , in fact i pity some gals that doesn't know wears quality .

Imagine most guys now a days with their raw okirika collection of 1k , 2k and aboki perfume running after gals .

You see them they never forget to use powder , use their mama relaxer to coil their hair .with a n50 white handkerchief .

& gals will be like nigga is got future , nigga smells good

LWTMB!

ogugua88: True, but at the same time, I don't think a girl should chase only men with fat pockets or be discouraged by someone who isn't stable or wealthy. Today's circumstance(s) can be different tomorrow. I'd have no problem dating someone who wasn't financially stable, as long as stability is his goal and he's working towards it. Sometimes what he needs is motivation, and that motivation can be a woman.

If the guy is broke and a loafer, then pas possible.

I like your way of thinking.God bless you

No cross No crown
No money No love....kai!! this world is wicked.

You want a girl to be your honey, but you don't have
money.

I laff o!

Thing is, love goes fine and good with money, no doubt. The question is, is love driven by money?

Romance without Finance is not only a Nuisance bt a Pestilence.

From wat av seen, this poor guys of which most ar from humble background, tends to have attitude with great sense of humour dat d rich dudes can't buy wit their cash, cos most of them only think with their money.......however ego is a sure needed tin in romance but its shouldn't always be d case

Yeah well said Op. This is the exact phase am in right now, No relationship with any female till all my piece of Puzzle fits- jst platonic.. God Bless ma Hustle

The funny thing is that I get to meet some beautiful nice gurls/ladies at this point, u know... we get to chat,hang out, I even call them often but I won't set the table for anything "Unplatonic" if u know what I mean, it gets them worried. Thats when the interrogation happens " what do u want from me?" " Is like u are self centered" " do u really care about me?". Ofcuz I care about them its just that I need to show it through spendin/action to avoid being a Nuisance.

If you are a correct dude, you will know that without cash in a relationship, the whole thing will breed contempt IMO.
.
The painful thing is that you get to Miss some nice gurls that you are not sure u will see/meet when u reach the finish line. Am a loner, I tend to succeed alone, I don't fancy the idea of a man and woman building Something or getting any kinda support from women as someone mentioned earlier on- thats just how am wired.

Now am not sure if I will be able to love a woman 100percent after all this hustle because there is no way for me to know if its Me or the Money they love.

To me this whole thing works somehow.

Well, i believe the point thr op is trying to make is that guys(and girls, i might add) need to get their priorities right.

But there is somethin i need to address: the general tone of the comments here make it sound as though it is the entitlement of a girl to lavish her guy's money. A guy should spend for his girl because he wants to (and because he can afford to), not because of some erroneous societal perception that it is a 'duty'.

Are we saying that 'broke' guys cant find love? Are we saying that girls should go into relationships with the minset that they are going to 'take' rather than 'give'? Are we sayin that undergraduate guys(who mostly stil get money from their parents) cant find genuine love?

Yes, Everyone(boy or girl) needs to get their priorities right as there is time for everything.
But you dont have to amass millions before you find love. No, money in itself is not a prerequisite......

DICKtator:




Dude, there ia a word for all these epistle you wrote,


GIGOLO!!!!!!

On the other hand, from their perspective, does it really matter? If a guy without a job is bedding a lot of women, i think he is talented. It is just that he hasn't noticed his huge talent yet!!.From the so called "negative" angle/perspective, he could be a remarkable por.nnstar where he would amass a whole lotta money but get a lot of public outcry based on his source of income.

from the "positive angle/perspective", any guy that boinks regularly or has an amazing sexlife can mean only one thing. He is charming(No detergent-OMO!!!! ),perhaps charismatic,maybe sociable,confident,cocky and wait ,.....listen to the most important,............very convincing. In such situations, The individual would make a perfect marketer especially to the opposite sex since he he eats apple on a regular basis so this can also transcend to his hidden ability to convince peeps from Venus.You don't just boink without saying a damn thang or no possible attraction except it is a red-light pooosie we talking bout here which invariably money(finance) would be involved!!.

You were even laughing at your own joke.
Most gigolos end up as errand boys of their mistresses.

No reasonable woman respects any man who cannot pay his bills and take good care of his woman.

gsalvatore: Yeah well said Op. This is the exact phase am in right now, No relationship with any female till all my piece of Puzzle fits- jst platonic.. God Bless ma Hustle

The funny thing is that I get to meet some beautiful nice gurls/ladies at this point, u know... we get to chat,hang out, I even call them often but I won't set the table for anything "Unplatonic" if u know what I mean, it gets them worried. Thats when the interrogation happens " what do u want from me?" " Is like u are self centered" " do u really care about me?". Ofcuz I care about them its just that I need to show it through spendin/action to avoid being a Nuisance.

If you are a correct dude, you will know that without cash in a relationship, the whole thing will breed contempt IMO.
.
The painful thing is that you get to Miss some nice gurls that you are not sure u will see/meet when u reach the finish line. Am a loner, I tend to succeed alone, I don't fancy the idea of a man and woman building Something or getting any kinda support from women as someone mentioned earlier on- thats just how am wired.

Now am not sure if I will be able to love a woman 100percent after all this hustle because there is no way for me to know if its Me or the Money they love.

To me this whole thing works somehow.

good one!1000000 likes

Suhaibu: You want a girl to be your honey, but you don't have
money.

I laff o!

Thing is, love goes fine and good with money, no doubt. The question is, is love driven by money?

there are over a hundred thousand words in the dictionary to choose from, but definately, love driven specifically by money cannot be called love.

gsalvatore: Yeah well said Op. This is the exact phase am in right now, No relationship with any female till all my piece of Puzzle fits- jst platonic.. God Bless ma Hustle

The funny thing is that I get to meet some beautiful nice gurls/ladies at this point, u know... we get to chat,hang out, I even call them often but I won't set the table for anything "Unplatonic" if u know what I mean, it gets them worried. Thats when the interrogation happens " what do u want from me?" " Is like u are self centered" " do u really care about me?". Ofcuz I care about them its just that I need to show it through spendin/action to avoid being a Nuisance.

If you are a correct dude, you will know that without cash in a relationship, the whole thing will breed contempt IMO.
.
The painful thing is that you get to Miss some nice gurls that you are not sure u will see/meet when u reach the finish line. Am a loner, I tend to succeed alone, I don't fancy the idea of a man and woman building Something or getting any kinda support from women as someone mentioned earlier on- thats just how am wired.

Now am not sure if I will be able to love a woman 100percent after all this hustle because there is no way for me to know if its Me or the Money they love.

To me this whole thing works somehow.

Goodluck in your hustle.

"Being dead broke is the root of all evil
Get money, my nigga, do good with your people"

listening to Rick Ross.

Let He that has ear hear.

pekelepekele: & y are the galz also saying yes to their request , in fact i pity some gals that doesn't know wears quality .

Imagine most guys now a days with their raw okirika collection of 1k , 2k and aboki perfume running after gals .

You see them they never forget to use powder , use their mama relaxer to coil their hair .with a n50 white handkerchief .

& gals will be like nigga is got future , nigga smells good

#falls from okada# my belle ooo hahahahahha

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playcharles: God will continue to punish our past rulers for mismanagement and corruption, if u agree, click liked button

Em....MODs, please I need help....can't seem to find the 'liked' button

Orikinla: If you don't like this post, that is your headache and heartache.

What I hate most is to see boys who cannot even feed themselves looking for relationships with girls.
They are in fact, the most sexually active in Africa.
You see jobless guys who should focus on being creative and innovative like their mates in America, Europe and Asia, but their best pursuits are looking for girls to date and they cannot offer these impressionable and vulnerable young women nothing more than S*E*X. And that is why the National Agency for the Control of AIDS, NACA, reported that 3.4 million Nigerians were living with HIV/AIDS, the second largest globally.

Later you see them and their ill bred kids and suffering and smiling baby mamas increasing the population of the poor masses in the slums where they breed anti-social characters, robbers and other criminals who become socioeconomic liabilities and threats to the society.

You want a girl to be your honey, but you don't have money.
You better go and get busy first to add value to your life and stop being a romantic nuisance.

Only a re-tarded girl will date any empty suit.

ROMANCE WITHOUT FINANCE IS NOTHING BUT A NUISANCE.
~ BLANCHE MC MANETT

Best thing I've seen on Nairaland for sometime now

scientology:

ure so foolish...infact naija guys many of dem are foolish...WHEN DID SOFTWARES BECOMES WOMEN OF VIRTUES...have u seen her before...how do u know she has virtue...is it pictures and posts that determines virtue...ur comment is quite irritating and sounds stupit

Dont mind the niggah...he has never been complimented by a pretty lady..he just open his unclean mouth and called someone he has never set eyes on a virtuous woman?? niggah just dey try curry favour...

gsalvatore: Yeah well said Op. This is the exact phase am in right now, No relationship with any female till all my piece of Puzzle fits- jst platonic.. God Bless ma Hustle

The funny thing is that I get to meet some beautiful nice gurls/ladies at this point, u know... we get to chat,hang out, I even call them often but I won't set the table for anything "Unplatonic" if u know what I mean, it gets them worried. Thats when the interrogation happens " what do u want from me?" " Is like u are self centered" " do u really care about me?". Ofcuz I care about them its just that I need to show it through spendin/action to avoid being a Nuisance.

If you are a correct dude, you will know that without cash in a relationship, the whole thing will breed contempt IMO.
.
The painful thing is that you get to Miss some nice gurls that you are not sure u will see/meet when u reach the finish line. Am a loner, I tend to succeed alone, I don't fancy the idea of a man and woman building Something or getting any kinda support from women as someone mentioned earlier on- thats just how am wired.

Now am not sure if I will be able to love a woman 100percent after all this hustle because there is no way for me to know if its Me or the Money they love.

To me this whole thing works somehow.

You started late, I don dey the game tey tey!

Ask for thy blessings and work towards it.

I like your post but I will also like to add this two quotes.

" You've got to get up every morning with determination if you're going to go to bed with satisfaction. - George Horace Lorimer"

" All men dream: but not equally.
Those who dream by night in
the dusty recesses of their
minds wake in the day to find
that it was vanity: but the
dreamers of the day are
dangerous men, for they may
act their dreams with open
eyes, to make it possible."
.


God help us.

Op God bless you! Guys like you are so rare!
You see the broke a.sses giving the excuse that they want the girl to love them the way they are. Please how many of you can sincerly love a girl that does not have a womb?
Nonsense!
Guys of nowadays are so damn lazy!