justplainpaul: lol, are u for real? you`re lost for words to the extent that you`re asking me stupid question. now get your head out of your a$$ and be reasonable for once.

Tonjeola1: This is serious

RedBenson:

Odikwa very serious!

Now advice to my single but marriage aspiring ladies. Have u ever considered trying to make urself available where there are alot of men but no or fewer females? Take a walk on a good evening esp. on Saturdays (barbing salon is always booming on saturdays) and go to a good barbing salon, pretend as if u want to charge ur phone, plug ur phone and stay there humbly but with good look from ur face down to ur toe. Am telling you, more than half of the men coming there to barb would look at you unceasingly and would want to talk to you. This had actually happened severally and at the end, guys ended up struggling over the girl. Just give a try! I will up load more places you can visit to make urself available before men. Goodluck!

Rooneyboy: This thread is just so funny and true, lately the amount of ladies that flock around me has been alarming.

I never imagined that it wld one day come to this

A whole me, avoiding ladies .

Its truly a MAN'S WORLD.

uj_sizzle: It's not the lack of men that's the issue i think, it's the lack of 'marriageable' men.


Men are scarce, boys are plentiful

sexytabhi:
lol,short for words because I don't want to exchange words with you. My dear,tabhi is a free babe,I love to have fun as in like cray,the minute I allow troublemakers like you in my internet life then I will begin to get silly and I am not ready to lose out fun. Life is too short to be a nuisance,ask those that knows how to catch fun,they will put you through. chop this kiss make your temper cool

justplainpaul: First of all i`m not your dear. And if u dont want to exchange word with me, why did u bother to quote me atall. i don`t want any ill infested kiss from u. And congratulation, u have entered the list of my most stupi,d people on the net. you`ll get your award in due time.

justplainpaul: If you were not married i could have gone 2tru fire to make sure you become my bride. this is the kind of woman every man wants as a wife.

ngdude: Seekin4a decent lady max. 26yrs, for a very serious rshp dat can lead to marriage, should be a graduate (working or not) and enterprising. Send me a mail ngdude86@gmail.co m

RedBenson:

For you abi?

Raggedy_Ann: Some of y'all have really InterestIng takes on thIs. In my opInIon tho, I'd say :Men are not scarce, women just have more/different requirements.
Back in the days, women were sImpler (gIrls marrIed for fInancIal
securIty and soon enough too, since they weren't expected to do much else) it was enough for a man to have a p*nis and financial independence and he would have been a catch for anyone.

Now, most women have evolved wIth educatIon, women's lib and what not. They're aware of their options - they don't have to be dependent on a man for money even though some still chose to be. But now women see husbands as companIons not just fInancIers. we want our men to be intelligent, good looking, honest, accommodating, educated, "NOT BUSH", articulate etc etc etc etc.... endless list

Women are being too precise and a bit closed-minded trying to choose prInce charmIng and men suited for the women in this "21st century" state of mind are scarce (if they do exist at all).

Because movies and songs keep telling us that there is such a thing as a transcendental, outta-this-world connection with a person, some refuse to compromise. Many women have expanded their horizons to include options across race and even gender and those who have not wait and wait
until they find him or lose their faith and begin to pay attention to anyone who's been put on hold for insurance ( if he's still available).

I don't believe this topic should give anyone a headache tho, any woman who wants to be married to a man will find one even in her forties (I have several cousins who did), it's just a matter of lowering one's standards if they don't luck out. At the end of the day, there are a lot of men out there. Maybe not stellar men but men nonetheless.

It is amusing that a lot of guys on this thread assume their market
value has increased because some women are lamenting about the scarcity of husband material. Haba! lol, No be all una type wey scarce.

S/o to the "few good men", you're awesome!

zentarr:

Guy chill abeg wetin this babe do yoU. You big pass this attitude na. Haba.

justplainpaul: First of all i`m not your dear. And if u dont want to exchange word with me, why did u bother to quote me atall. i don`t want any ill infested kiss from u. And congratulation, u have entered the list of my most stupi,d people on the net. you`ll get your award in due time.

RedBenson:

So you indirectly tellin us you are one of them 'lamenters/hunters'?

Amefrica:

I'm terribly sorry for the previous accusations.. I sure can feel ur pain..

1. It's not easy to be gang rap-ed at an early teen age..
2. To be jilted by countless guys..
3. To be used and dumped like a pile of bullsh*it..
4. So frustrated and concluded to be a lesbo
5. So ugly, to be asked out by a guy..
Just keep calm. All is well ! Don't let all these wear u down..

engrtee: Goodnews for guys

RedBenson:

From ur fantasy dream. Let us know when u wake up ok!

justplainpaul: lorretta u na still pikin nah. highest weh u go be nah 20. if u get the liver continue to dey attend to application forms till u turn 35. when that time come tell me afar.

pro01: On a serious note, this so-called "scarcity" of men is reaching a crisis point, from what I gather from observations. In the context of this report, by "men", we mean men that are actually willing and ready to get married. They are getting terribly scarce in comparison with the countless women desperate to get married. These days, there are so many guys in their mid-late 30s and even early 40s that are unmarried.

I think the number 1 problem is the economy. Most of these guys play the field and test the waters. They have dated and played with Naija women, so they know what women like the most (i.e. money and comfort). They know that marriage would be an unenjoyable experience if their finances cannot avail their wives and children of a certain level of comfort. They know how evil and disrespectful women can be towards husbands that don't bring sufficient bread to the table. Add that to the skyrocketting school fees, house rents, and miscellaneous expenses associated with family life these days, what you'd find is that many guys simply dread the prospect of marriage and do not entertain the thought for now.

lorretta u: me 20? Dude u need glasses

papi365: GUY DONT BE DECEIVED BY HER WORDS. HMM I SORI 4 U o

justplainpaul: This one nah another chioma in the making. she don pass 20 and she still dey do shakara for men. nah your babyface deceive me. i no know say u don old. maybe i need that glasses afterall.

justplainpaul: First of all i`m not your dear. And if u dont want to exchange word with me, why did u bother to quote me atall. i don`t want any ill infested kiss from u. And congratulation, u have entered the list of my most stupi,d people on the net. you`ll get your award in due time.

sexytabhi:

lertee:
this is the best picture to describe the ode man,he surely needs to grow up.