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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by kinnad(m): 1:43pm On Sep 07, 2013
To be sincere,there are many nice guys out there,bt d ladies when they're still young,shakara 2 much. Our ladies nwdays dnt want to knw if u hav future prospects/ambitions,all dey want to knw is what u hav achieved already. too bad!

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by timwezzb(m): 1:43pm On Sep 07, 2013
Is good
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 1:44pm On Sep 07, 2013

Chioma (surname withheld), 35, has found herself patronising many of the social interaction sites on the internet. The banker told our correspondent that she is on Eskimi, 2go, Badoo, Whatsapp, Facebook, Twitter as well as 4clique, a site that was launched in Nigeria days ago. “We can’t tell the particular broom in the bunch that kills a fly,” she told P.M.NEWS on why she patronises such number of social interaction sites.
LSIPFB! Chioma don make me laugh sotay I piss for body. Buahahaha! It is well. May Amadioha bless your hustle, and may your 'broom' kill more flies than you can count!
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by zutu(m): 1:45pm On Sep 07, 2013
Kirinwa: As a caring nairalander,my advice to our single sisters is treat any man who approaches you nicely and respectfully.
Guys can you imagine approaching a lady to say hi and she's looking at you like you're ALIEN!Jeez.Some of them are architects of their own misfortune.I have discovered most times ladies hang out with playboys and sacrifice the future for a few meatpies or fried chicken while ignoring more serious guys who they consider boring without even giving them a chance.
nd unromantic god dn
catch dem
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by DonaldGenes(m): 1:45pm On Sep 07, 2013
-ɥɐu pןɹoʍ s,uɐɯ ɐ s,ʇı ʍouʞ ǝsoddns ɯǝɥʇ

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by bebechuks: 1:46pm On Sep 07, 2013
Hmmmmmm
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by judedwriter(m): 1:47pm On Sep 07, 2013
D laws of demand n supply. D less of supply, d more of demand. Women r complaining because dere is less supply of MARRIAGEABLE men-many guys out dere just want 2 f**k nd boast of their exploits to their pals. Many guys now see ladies as pleasure objects, nd u babes r making it easier 4 us by sumbiting ur bodies to us just because we propose marriage 2 u. If u r a GOODTHING, a GOODMAN will eventually find u. Be a scarce wife materialwink

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by greall1: 1:47pm On Sep 07, 2013
Do you know him before,why are you asking him if he can handle marriage,This nairaland funny some Time.







Oyinprince: U wan marry?? u fit handle marriage?
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Samdul: 1:47pm On Sep 07, 2013
women are like hunters??
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by UjSizzle(f): 1:48pm On Sep 07, 2013
Rooneyboy:

For once, I agree with this dude grin grin grin
See u, like say u fit land one babe grin
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by zanga420: 1:49pm On Sep 07, 2013
uj_sizzle: It's not the lack of men that's the issue i think, it's the lack of 'marriageable' men.


Men are scarce, boys are plentiful undecided
this is absolutely correct n on point. 1000likes

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by zanga420: 1:50pm On Sep 07, 2013
Kirinwa: As a caring nairalander,my advice to our single sisters is treat any man who approaches you nicely and respectfully.
Guys can you imagine approaching a lady to say hi and she's looking at you like you're ALIEN!Jeez.Some of them are architects of their own misfortune.I have discovered most times ladies hang out with playboys and sacrifice the future for a few meatpies or fried chicken while ignoring more serious guys who they consider boring without even giving them a chance.
word. Anyways best of luck to all
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by xynerise: 1:50pm On Sep 07, 2013
Mynd_44:
This one don search tire grin
grin grin

Never say Never, the romance section wooing challenge(Female) is on. cool
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by kinnad(m): 1:51pm On Sep 07, 2013
[quote author=Kirinwa]As a caring nairalander,my advice to our single sisters is treat any man who approaches you nicely and respectfully.
Guys can you imagine approaching a lady to say hi and she's looking at you like you're ALIEN!Jeez.Some of them are architects of their own misfortune.I have discovered most times ladies hang out with playboys and sacrifice the future for a few meatpies or fried chicken while ignoring more serious guys who they consider boring without even giving them a chance.[/quote gringringrin may u live long bro,u said my mind
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by SUBMARINE: 1:52pm On Sep 07, 2013
Pls pray for the financial success of men if u want to get married early.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by DonaldGenes(m): 1:52pm On Sep 07, 2013
[quote][/quote]Chioma (surname withheld), 35, has found herself patronising many of the social interaction sites on the internet.

"Sounds like a catch phrase to me we know,we've seen and we have heard this same platitude for eons, beyond that, what do they (ladies)want us to do when they keep fronting for us when they were still young and attractive? abeg don't harangue us with this same old story,
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by igbeke: 1:53pm On Sep 07, 2013
lertee: Good men are scarce,the ones ready for marriage are very few,the unserious rotten ones have taken over the society,may God help the good women around. I thank God for me sha
To some extent, u r wrong. A lady once told me that ladies prefer "the bad boys" to the humble and gentle ones. So why do u now complain wen d bad boy shows u how bad he can be?
Will dat crying lady tell me she has never bn 'toasted' by a serious guy. What did she do wit such opportunity? threw it away on a flomsy excuse (he is not from my village, he is not tall and handsome, most of all,; he is not so handsum).
Young ladies, pls get married once u r ripe and the right guy comes knocking so as to avoid dis "marriage one-chance".
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Rooneyboy(m): 1:54pm On Sep 07, 2013
This thread is just so funny and true, lately the amount of ladies that flock around me has been alarming.

I never imagined that it wld one day come to this grin grin grin

A whole me, avoiding ladies .

Its truly a MAN'S WORLD. cool

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by ojimbo(m): 1:54pm On Sep 07, 2013
Its funny, i dont blame nigerian men, you call yourself RUNS BABE forgoten that you will get older soon, the worst thing men hate so much is for a girl to be receiving too much phone calls, dont think you are hot when much calls are coming in, one day you will like to change your phone number

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 1:56pm On Sep 07, 2013
xynerise:
grin grin

Never say Never, the romance section wooing challenge(Female) is on. cool

that won't solve this issue, besides that to me is bunch of people with free-time wooing anonymous strangers, the concept of that thread eludes me sometimes.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Rooneyboy(m): 1:56pm On Sep 07, 2013
uj_sizzle:
See u, like say u fit land one babe grin

Uj, I'm not after anybody anymore, ladies are the ones doing the chase game these days cool

Being a man is FUN

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Adolak(m): 1:58pm On Sep 07, 2013
Whenever i'm bored. I just know exactly where to come to.........cant stop laughing. Chai, ladies. Sorry o
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 1:59pm On Sep 07, 2013
ngdude: Seekin4a decent lady max. 26yrs, for a very serious rshp dat can lead to marriage, should be a graduate (working or not) and enterprising. Send me a mail ngdude86@gmail.co m
You dey look for woman wey you go take do JUJU abi? Responsible man no dey find wife on net. Any woman wey respond 2 this bros don sign her death warrant.
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by CastleandGreen: 1:59pm On Sep 07, 2013
It easy to get married only if you will take my advice ladies;
1, cut off from too many female friends.
2, minimize your activities on social websites.
3, don‘t look down on any man.
4, get educated and aquire a university decree.
5, don‘t frequent night clubs all the time.
6, learn to support your man.
7, join activity department in your church and get committed.
8, don‘t go into competion with any of your friends.
9, put your trust in Jesus Christ.
10, And lastly don‘t ever wish for ready made.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 1:59pm On Sep 07, 2013
obadiah777: yeah ya pumpum turn up to the party late. after the party is over grin grin
I don't think you understand what I meant

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by kinnad(m): 2:01pm On Sep 07, 2013
There's dis particular gal i so much cherished. always bought her inspirational books n many tins. she continued acceptin bt anytime i askd her for a hangout she wld refuse,until a day came she told me she had a guy. when i saw d kind of tout she called her guy,i almost wept. i stopd callin her,everytn ended. Now,after 2 years,she has startd callin me,askin me why i dnt care abt her anymore. Our gals are too blind to c d real guys cuz they're 2 materialistic,n dats why som guys decieve,use and dump them

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by lertee(f): 2:01pm On Sep 07, 2013
igbeke:
To some extent, u r wrong. A lady once told me that ladies prefer "the bad boys" to the humble and gentle ones. So why do u now complain wen d bad boy shows u how bad he can be?
Will dat crying lady tell me she has never bn 'toasted' by a serious guy. What did she do wit such opportunity? threw it away on a flomsy excuse (he is not from my village, he is not tall and handsome, most of all,; he is not so handsum).
Young ladies, pls get married once u r ripe and the right guy comes knocking so as to avoid dis "marriage one-chance".
little girls prefer the bad boys,when you know what you want and purpose in a relationship,you will never give a bad guy a chance. Who is even a bad guy.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by tivta(m): 2:01pm On Sep 07, 2013
Kingscee: You dey look for woman wey you go take do JUJU abi? Responsible man no dey find wife on net. Any woman wey respond 2 this bros don sign her death warrant.

NEVER EVER JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER. Do you know how many introverts are on nairaland? Haba. Just because so nigerians are frauds doesnt mean everyone is. I bet you'r a kid.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by emuesiriokpodu: 2:03pm On Sep 07, 2013
Women should learn how to make use of their youthful age..The more they waste their time looking for the perfect man the more they will be left unmarried...Women gets Older faster than Men...Make use of ur time
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 2:03pm On Sep 07, 2013
spongeback:
I don't think you understand what I meant

turn up - get lively and active
pummpum - private parts
. am i in the ballpark or am i way off base ?
Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 2:03pm On Sep 07, 2013
On a serious note, this so-called "scarcity" of men is reaching a crisis point, from what I gather from observations. In the context of this report, by "men", we mean men that are actually willing and ready to get married. They are getting terribly scarce in comparison with the countless women desperate to get married. These days, there are so many guys in their mid-late 30s and even early 40s that are unmarried.

I think the number 1 problem is the economy. Most of these guys play the field and test the waters. They have dated and played with Naija women, so they know what women like the most (i.e. money and comfort). They know that marriage would be an unenjoyable experience if their finances cannot avail their wives and children of a certain level of comfort. They know how evil and disrespectful women can be towards husbands that don't bring sufficient bread to the table. Add that to the skyrocketting school fees, house rents, and miscellaneous expenses associated with family life these days, what you'd find is that many guys simply dread the prospect of marriage and do not entertain the thought for now.

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Re: Nigerian Ladies Worry Over Scarcity Of Men by Nobody: 2:05pm On Sep 07, 2013
lertee:
little girls prefer the bad boys,when you know what you want and purpose in a relationship,you will never give a bad guy a chance. Who is even a bad guy.

I won't say a bad boy, because the context of the word "bad" is relative, i think most women fancy being with a$$holes the guy who they can't predict the one that always lie because it keeps them guessing, some girls think their love is strong enough to change them, girls like to fix things. sadly by the time its too late the reasonable one she should have been with is with someone else that see his worth. then some are just masochist they enjoy the whole pain and saga because its what she's use to if coming from an abusive home.

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