Good Girl:

The smiley icon in your post- ()

And anyone who does that is really laughing... Hahahaha! you just made me laugh tho' ..
Sweetie, not everyone who puts an icon do that really.. Ok ?!

@topic Bible's Prophecy fulfilln..God's word always come true.. abeg i go qik mari b4 men finish

Just call me, if you knw u are really serachin am just 26 base in ib,07069414891. Note,. u must be beautiful en mature dats al leave de rest for me.

Ampeaceful: @topic Bible's Prophecy fulfilln..God's word always come true.. abeg i go qik mari b4 men finish

I'm available !!

the bible is very correct oh.

demelza: In the last days, 7 women shall take hold of one man saying, we will eat our own bread and provide our own apparel, only let us be called by your name - Isaiah 4:1.
By the way who tells them that its only a man that can make them complete?
18th century thinking.

lertee: Good men are scarce,the ones ready for marriage are very few,the unserious rotten ones have taken over the society,may God help the good women around. I thank God for me sha

My dear, how will u know the serious one when na forming u take dey chase them.

Amefrica:

And anyone who does that is really laughing... Hahahaha! you just made me laugh tho' ..
Sweetie, not everyone who puts an icon do that really.. Ok ?!

Perhaps you weren't laughing in the real sense, but placing that icon in your post made the issue of a teenage girl being gang rap-ed sound like a joke, that's all.

lertee: Good men are scarce,the ones ready for marriage are very few,the unserious rotten ones have taken over the society,may God help the good women around. I thank God for me sha

The main issue here: ''the MEN who are serious and ready for marriage''. These lot are very few indeed.

NL member: @ All the unmarried women reading this thread.

For your own good you'd better stop thinking marriage is a do or die affair.
Get your priorities straight and do something to leave your footprints in the sands of time, be a notable person like genevieve or chimamanda. These women achieved greatness without marriage.
You can do the same.
One love

guy u just talkn gibberish,was forced to quote u wen I tire 4 ur talk........dis lady u mentioned hw many naija ladies go turn dis kain ladies......ask ursef dis question wil u date dem if they vnt made dia names YET!

All this posts here and there don't say the truth of the situation..

We live artificial lives in this part. Relationship is not about how much resources you put into it but how much time.

Be friendly, smile, date someone and take dem serious and don't be a desperado, it's a turn off

ngdude: Seekin4a decent lady max. 26yrs, for a very serious rshp dat can lead to marriage, should be a graduate (working or not) and enterprising. Send me a mail ngdude86@gmail.co m

Sharp guy, no dulling! lol...

Good Girl:

Perhaps you weren't laughing in the real sense, but placing that icon in your post made the issue of a teenage girl being gang rap-ed sound like a joke, that's all.

I got you.. If you go to read it well I was sarcastically talking to NL member.. But you are saying something else tho'.. No probs..
Wait !! Hope ur also not the type that plays hard to get.. You had better back off and embrace any good guy (not necessarily rich, handsome etc) that comes ur way..
My $1

Matthew briggs: I am not surprised by this development, Moreover I think this is a serious cause to be alarmed not just for women but for we Males. Because this report is about the scarcity of "Men" not "Males".

This means that the rate at which boys are turning into real men is dwindling rapidly.

I think the rise in unemployment, Increase in standard of living and the high cost of running a family are some of the factors responsible. But most importantly I think the rapid decline in morals, values and the lack of emotional maturity of the Nigerian male is a major cause of this development. Most guys are not marriageable they are still boys.

The irony is that majority of males on this thread are laughing at this development seeing it as an opportunity to mock females instead of asking them self This question

Am I still a boy or when I should be a man?

For we males most of us have some serious growing up to do.

For the females don't wait for Men. Who says you can't go for the boys and groom them to become Men, just make sure he really sees you in his future. Also lower your expectations but still keep your standards, amidst all live life and enjoy it, don't tie your happiness to a man lest you look desperate. When it's your time, your man will come be it at 20 or 40 just make sure you're eyes is wide open to notice him when he comes around, don't allow pride and your character defects to send him running. Learn to go after potential not after physical cash, think long term in relationships and stop wasting you time with the wrong un serious partner.

#just Saying.

Over sense dey worry this post So on point

Chei! I don suffer, because I've no bought a car, the only girl I loved with all my heart left me, though I felt the pain, but I guess that's life, the other day, I tried talking with one on Badoo,
but trying to promulgate my animus, but she's not pensive........
Though am alone now live in lagos, still searching....... If you care, reply here

gondon: The factor or contributing factor to d issue of lack of real nor marriageable men is d Nigerian economy. Gone r those days wen men will b idle.
Guys r up and doing, n d wrong nor play boys r on rampage..... Ladies should learn to accommodate responsible guys ohh, and learn to assist situations coz u can never tell wat d guy has in mind...
Also dey should try to differentiate d Sharp guys from d real guys and for dem to b more prayerful.......
Feel free to ring me for hints; if u care.((07030257586)))

scarcity of men is a global issue and not mainly the economy situation.

Without no-husband sydrome, and scarsity of men how wil Isaiah 4 v1 be made real?

they are not desperate yet.....they are just behind schedule......once I see chukwuma will you marry me?......then I would believe....

And some of the men that are ready for marriage have chose not to get married to women but love to be GAY. Am sure the unmarried women will be very furious at gays.

Some of these Nigeria girls, they don't have any courtesy at all. They form over nothing! Can you imagine trying to approach a girl and being civil and eventually being looked down as if you're one broke a*s b*stard!

Maybe it's because our enviroment is hash or majority of them are not just properly trained. I called them chicken eaten girls. Majority of them, when you take them out, even when they have some decent grub on the menu list, it's always chicken they always gunning for! I wonder why they love eaten chicken...they can consume anything. They must stop that chop chop mentality...it's so disgusting!

Again, trying to explore their sexuality, you must fight before they give in. Even for them to satisfy you sexually, they must show themselves so that you won't have any negative impression about them being cheap. I wonder why they are like that.

Another one, when a guy isn't mobile, that one can be so painful! Haaa! Any guy that doesn't have a car in Nigeria is in soup! The way our sisters stair at guys when they're rolling in their ride...mennn! They instantly bone their faces if they're with guys that are not mobile, and starts showing some crazy attitudes to our lovely brothers because they ain't mobile.

Nigeria girls are vultures! They use religion, money and class to judge you! My advice to my brothers, don't ever have any funny impression in mind that you can change these our sisters. The moment you're in love and fall for the scam that you can change a mad girl to be a decent and a responsible house wife, know that you're in it. Most of them doesn't want to be changed.

Again, do you noticed some of them loved to be beaten! When you're arguing with them and they'll approach you and they will be like, slap me nau! slap me nau! 9ja girls are crazy ooo!

Abeg, our sisters try loosen up!! You're the only apple in our eyes! Your gra gra is too much!

lertee:
Big mouth am actually waiting for you..since you are already 60 I will manage your broken cord

I swear even at that 60, am still a hot cake in the market considering the situation on ground now. Btw, am just above 25 in reality, can i relief you the boredom of the subject matter at hand? It's just out of pity i want to do it so you wont commit suicide!

Emytex boy:

i think i like you. like wen dis kind of thing hapens. what do u think?

I'm lost

simple solution.... every naija man should marry atleast 2 wives by the way i know a lot of uneducated single men so the ladies have to look at other options afterall, iff you cant make the desirable affordable then you make the affordable desirable.

Ampeaceful: @topic Bible's Prophecy fulfilln..God's word always come true.. abeg i go qik mari b4 men finish

All i ever wanted was a peaceful woman who would give me peace at home and not turning my house into 'afghanistan war zone'. Now that ur moniker confirms it, can we hook up? Grab me now befor it's too late taking cognizance on the situation at hand. Grab me now!

#000000

Amefrica:

I'm available !!

u de hia aunty chioma etc de luk 4u on twitter,facebook,2go etc hunh Oya!!! waka go put rings on dia hands NW!

Boll2010: smh........only if u knw wat dis ladies do when u mit dem,some dnt v gud replies to men aproach n it pisses men off cuz we got bad bladder! I cld reach got a nairaland pin in dating rum searchin 4 men,as I wrote hi! Nxt tin I got is who is dis! I don't knw ya pls! Whr did u get my pin! I was vexed! I deleted her instantly,men needs sumone of gud manners nt a barking dog dat get u worried on ur way bak home from work!ladies work on ur approach!

i told one guy like dat on one romance thread,dat if he talks to a lady and the lady feels too beautiful or too expensive or too big to listen to him,he should just pass, that she's not just worth his time...!Sum ladies are just sumtin else.To talk to person na sin?

Such a disheartyn 1... Wah more can I say? Ladies, we should b polite n gwed mannered no marra d situation..

Τ̅☺ d unmarried lady. Pls don't mind d unserious guys Oº°˚˚°º . Fø̲̣̣я̅ u τ̅☺ be single now no matter Ūя̲̅ age means God is preparing u Fø̲̣̣я̅ d right man D̶̲̥̅̊α̇̇̇̊τ̲̣̣̥ is yet τ̅☺ come. And he wil definately come at d appropriate time. Pls don't be fustrated and don't play cheap on guys. Guys on social network wil just take advantage of u. Though a̶̲̥̅♏ young and just 2 yrs in marriage bt I councel a lot abt marriage.and there is dis fact D̶̲̥̅̊α̇̇̇̊τ̲̣̣̥ as we ave ladies cryin Fø̲̣̣я̅ husband §ø we ave plenty guys crying τ̅☺ get wife too. I ave dem around me plenty. §ø guys don't b flattered u too plenty well well wey D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ cry Fø̲̣̣я̅ wife. I rest my case

Profidada: Personally this issue is really affecting me cos my sis who is 32 is yet to marry and am not finding it funny. I have been thinking if i can convince her to get a job at the airports where she can have the opportunity of meeting different persons. Who knows it might just clique.

Your sister is young self.Mine don dey touch 40.Guy you wan marry?Let's do it the old way.Trade by barter.Your sister in exchange for mine.Hope your sister is beautiful?

I'm feelin soooo glad,afta all d yanga dem make dem stil dey wet their pillows every nyt,hahahaha...
buh i pity 4ladiez sha...
anyways my advice 4d ladiz,jst go 2sperm bank and get impregnated,not evry woman wil get married,cuz not even evry man wil get married_SHIKENA

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Nothing wrong with polygamy. Soon and very soon we are going to revisit that age old African tradition. Women shall line up and be counted.