playdude:
You guys are jokers sincerely speaking.
I've discovered that those so called hard to get are empty headed beings who lose savour and taste after they finally oblige you but those simple to get are really the loaded ones.
There's a girl that held me on for 3 Whole Months just to get a number, today, i don't pick her calls again because i saw she wasn't worth the chase. I'm tired of her, she is now d one chasing. I try to annoy her and just get her off my back. I won't stop untill i simplyput her off.
Hard to get equals Trying to be who you are not.

Mynd_44: A woman actually knows if she likes a guy or not from the first one hour he talks to her. She already knows if she will change her mind or not. The rest is just to disturb you and grease her silly ego which the guys are too happy to do.

She already knows her answer and the guy is just some pawn in some silly childish games girls (note not women) play in the name of making their minds

Caracta:

Taaa! I disagree. Except if she was just attracted to his looks...and the looks won't save her in the long run.

Mynd_44:
Note I said woman. We all say first impression don't matter but actually it does. If you talk to someone for an hour, a woman(not girl) would be able to find out a lot about that man except of course she choose to push her nose up and not listen to him or she is trying to find out what tags he is wearing or how much he is worth.

You will be able to see if he is confident, you will see how intelligent he is from the way he replies you and you will know if he is comical if he tries to input jokes, you will know all these from the first convo. The whole, "I will think about it" is whatwomen do to grease their ego and make themselves feel wanted

Mynd_44:
Note I said woman. We all say first impression don't matter but actually it does. If you talk to someone for an hour, a woman(not girl) would be able to find out a lot about that man except of course she choose to push her nose up and not listen to him or she is trying to find out what tags he is wearing or how much he is worth.

You will be able to see if he is confident, you will see how intelligent he is from the way he replies you and you will know if he is comical if he tries to input jokes, you will know all these from the first convo. The whole, "I will think about it" is whatwomen do to grease their ego and make themselves feel wanted

playdude:
Mor like they see as the modus operandi of any relationship request whether the practicalities are different or not. Even when some have been wishing you speak to them for ages, they still put up the attitude feeling that a negation will portray them as cheap.
Times are changing anyway, guys too are wasting less time since there are more choices available everywhere.

Caracta:

Ok, lemme speak for myself. I don't know about the women out there. It takes me more than an hour to know if I like a guy enough to date him. We are not talking about friendship here, we are talking about relationship, and in my own case, long-term relationship. It won't take me forever to give an answer. After few days, if I like you enough I would let you know. If I don't, please get off my back.

And lemme add that some men, even after saying "no" to them, they still keep pestering and stalking you. Even when you show all the red signs in the world, they no go gree. Some of you here have done it before or are doing it presently, so you people should stop forming Jack Bauer ;P

Caracta: If a girl is 'forming' for you, leave her and move on to the next one. Chikena! As simple as Polynomials!

Caracta: Which brings me to the question, what is the length of 'hard to get'? How many hours, days, weeks, months, years, decades, can you tolerate a girl's 'posting'?

The answer to the question will help a long way. We already know some of you prefer within an hour.

Boy: Will you be my girlfriend?

Girl: (within 10 seconds) Yes

Boy: Will you marry me? (someone you just met)

Girl: Yes. Lets go to the altar tomorrow.

Caracta: Which brings me to the question, what is the length of 'hard to get'? How many hours, days, weeks, months, years, decades, can you tolerate a girl's 'posting'?

The answer to the question will help a long way. We already know some of you prefer within an hour.

Boy: Will you be my girlfriend?

Girl: (within 10 seconds) Yes

Boy: Will you marry me? (someone you just met)

Girl: Yes. Lets go to the altar tomorrow.

Matthew briggs:

LoL at least after 3 dates or 1 week a girl should be able to make up her mind.

Odunharry: isnt it foolishness?some play hard 2 get when u move on and dy see u with anoda gal dy bcme jealous.

Mynd_44:
Here is a little thought, "hard to get" is not restricted to when the guy asks the girl out. Merely flirting with girls these days comes with them forming pampers.

Oh and a guy who meets a girl and within an hour asks her out is suspicious. He can start with being friends but even that na war.

Caracta:

Why flirt with a girl you don't have feelings for? Odikwa risky. A-ca-not nice. Ontop wetin na? Why toy with her emotions?

Caracta:

Why flirt with a girl you don't have feelings for? Odikwa risky. A-ca-not nice. Ontop wetin na? Why toy with her emotions?

Caracta: Under a week kwa? Hehehehe. What of girls that are slow emotionally or confused like you said? Any extra week? Something might be holding us back, you know?

Odunharry:
a week is 2 much gan....
At least dy v bn friends b4 d guy decided 2 ask her out...

Mynd_44:
I see someone at the cinema and I wanna be friends so I walk over and comment her on her dress jokingly, a typical Nigerian would look at me and not smile. She will expect me to follow her around the whole place like some damn stalker.

Mynd_44:
Note I said woman. We all say first impression don't matter but actually it does. If you talk to someone for an hour, a woman(not girl) would be able to find out a lot about that man except of course she choose to push her nose up and not listen to him or she is trying to find out what tags he is wearing or how much he is worth.

You will be able to see if he is confident, you will see how intelligent he is from the way he replies you and you will know if he is comical if he tries to input jokes, you will know all these from the first convo. The whole, "I will think about it" is whatwomen do to grease their ego and make themselves feel wanted

uj_sizzle:
Friend material and relationship meterial aint the same thing bro esp for a woman who thinks longterm.

Caracta: If a girl is 'forming' for you, leave her and move on to the next one. Chikena! As simple as Polynomials!

uj_sizzle:
Funny enough, it's not as if some men don't toast more than one girl at once hoping that one deal will click for them
Try your luck things

uj_sizzle:
Friend material and relationship meterial aint the same thing bro esp for a woman who thinks longterm.

uj_sizzle:
Friend material and relationship meterial aint the same thing bro esp for a woman who thinks longterm.

sexkillz: Long story cut short. A girl who likes you already does so within the first 60 seconds of setting her eyes on you. Her playing "hard to get" depends on the time frame it has taken from the moment she set her eyes on you, to the moment you approach her, in some cases, cos she could accuse you of being hard to get fro ignoring her initial "sign".

A girl who likes you will not waste your time. You will see it in her eyes and in her demeanour around you, except you are a dull, aka, a learner.

A girl who wastes your time doesn't really like you, neither does she dislike you. She is just waiting for an action you'll take that will finally tilt her towards "like" or "unlike" for you. So she plays "hard to get".

The one that doesn't like you at all will treat you with disdain from get go.

The ones with the problem are those that don't know what they want. They can't say yes, they can't say no. Always looking for a sign to say yes or no, and when the sign finally comes, the guy's ministry could already be on it's way to the permanent site!

There's nothing like knowing what you want and going for it! Praise tha lord.