striktlymi:

Hmmm...what are those things you consider "humanly possible"?

striktlymi: Second question: How does a Catholic single determine whether an individual will continue being a 'faithful Catholic'? I have seen cases where people who have been 'champions' of the faith lose faith.

striktlymi:
There have been cases where some Catholic mothers have advised their girl-children to commit abortion and some other acts condemned by the Church. Your concern here is not just perculiar to those who are not Catholics, it cuts across.

striktlymi: I still have an ish with your use of "faithful Catholic" for two reasons, as I mentioned before: 1) Who is a Faithful Catholic? 2) How does one tell for sure that the 'faithful Catholic' won't turn out an enemy of the Church later on?

striktlymi: I still maintain that the way it should go is by assessing the individual as a person and not give him or her any undue advantage based on Religion or creed. If our focus is on whether the individual is Catholic or not then we might end up making a mistake in our choice of a life partner.

striktlymi: I re-iterate, Catholics are expected to cherish their faith for its awesomeness and anyone chosen by the Catholic single should be one that understands and respect this faith which naturally should extend to the kids.

striktlymi: If in the cause of this personal evaluation of the candidate, we find out that we cannot accept the individual's beliefs and vise versa, then it is left for us to look elsewhere. It is not worth it to be with someone who cannot respect your beliefs or whose beliefs you cannot respect.

POPE II: Lovely lovely. Sorry guys I have been very busy I will catch up tomorrow, interesting topic we have .meanwhile Sal c I'm still waiting your answer. Abi r u married with a non Catholic

striktlymi:

I do not agree!

The incidence of divorce in Catholic homes is a growing threat. We see Catholic ministers who grant divorce under the guise of annulment. Granted, in general the Church condemns this act in the strongest possible terms but still there seem to be a disconnect between what the Church Teaches and what some members (Clergy and Laity) decide to do.

woky: Sal.C fit don marry non-catholic o

but e no bad shaa

Harmvirus: Good evening y'all.what is happening here?

Harmvirus: Good evening y'all.what is happening here?

woky: the catholic church doesnt encourage inter-faith marriages thus doesnt condemn it aswell.. What are their vital reasons for not encouraging inter-faith marriages??

Sal C: Good evening sister, we are talking about you as a Catholic marrying a non catholic.
Your input is needed.

Sal C: Hi FrancisTony what's your view about the current discussion?

FrancisTony: errmmm *scratchesHead* only for adults Ma.

italo:

1. For us, marriage is a sacrament. It was designed by God to join man and woman in unitive love and bring children into the world.

Administering the sacrament to one who doesn't believe these or has little regard for it is a desecration of the sacrament...just like administering communion to a Protestant or a Muslim.

2. Why bring kids into the world and have them led straight into error?

Etc...

woky: See dis MAN ooo

FrancisTony: I'm serious Sir!!

woky: papa sinedu wat ar u tryin to say

FrancisTony: Papa chinedu kor, papa chinedu ni. LOL, Marriage discussion is for adults i.e people above 20.

FrancisTony: Papa chinedu kor, papa chinedu ni. LOL, Marriage discussion is for adults i.e people above 20.

woky: look at this man oo

abegi, hw ya wife joor??

Sal C: Hmm

woky: God will grant you ur hrt desire in Jesus name

Sal C: Abeg where Syncan dey?

woky: Amen

u take style scars dis day o



BTW.. whr is Syncan

Syncan:



I'm Present, brothers and sisters!

A combination of natural factors such as location, cares and concerns hindered me briefly, but I've never been far away. There's been quite a lot here...will go through and make my contribution soon. So nice to be actively involved again. Woky got your mail, responded but it was returned undelivered.

"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law". Galatians 5:22-23. It is visible here. God bless you all.

Sal C: Welcome back brother. Good to have you back.

God bless you too.

striktlymi:

I am quick to speak out against any form of perceived or actual descrimination because it is quite wrong to see first, one's creed, culture, Religious or Irreligious affiliation etc before seeing the individual as a human being.

We are one under God and based on this premise, it would be grossly unfair to ask a Catholic single to base his or her assessment of a future spouse on whether the individual is a Catholic or not.

Our assessment of a future spouse should be based strictly on the individual's qualities and not his private orientation because a good husband or wife will NEVER deprive you of that which you hold dear.

The most Holy faith we share as Catholics is a gift that each one of us should cherish. Anyone who tries to deprive us from this gift can't be said to be a great marital candidate; just as we are not supposed to deprive people of what they hold dear.

Thus, assessing an individual for marriage based on the Catholic way could be done without necessarily descriminating the individual on the grounds of the individual's religious or irreligious affiliation.

Maria-Goretti:
Even my mom still harmers on it.....you should try to marry a Catholic.
Then I keep telling her......you dont know whom God has destined for me. supposing he's a non-catholic, should i now obey my mom and disobey God?
we are alll sons and daughters of God. I think some people needs to understand that more..

woky: hmmmmm..