funkybaby:

thank you jare.

some people here are something else.

so i need my man's PERMISSION before i build a house?

what about splashing money on a new car or victoria secret lingerie? do i also need his permission for that?

freakcin: LMAO @ smartchoice! Truth is bitter though. That's why smartchoice drew some ire on here.

@ OP, if a woman you call your wife deliberately withheld such info from you then you need to be worried. Even disengaging her from your life calls for great caution.

Nor mind all these peeps wey dey tell u sey. . . work it out oooh! They won't even come and pay last respect when u kpai b4 your allotted time. . . yes ooooh, that could happen considering the guts she's demonstrated thus far.

Tactfully part ways with her and confirm your paternity regarding the kids!

king100: Are you married? If yes, your marriage may not last based on your comment.That is why there are countless marriageable women outside there always looking good husbands.Some will never find because God knows their wicked intentions,let them fast and pray till kingdom come, nothing will happen.They will seek but not find.

Lilimax: Sounds so easy ?

smartchoice: Send her outta your life immediately!

gbanikiti: there's nothing wrong in a woman building houses and acquiring properties. Maybe the posters wife felt he would not approve it. To me,I don't need anyone's permission to build houses. Its my personal decision.

Ujujoan:

What's the meaning of this

The fact that you don't agree with her doesn't give you the right to talk like this abeg~

Polio:

Very daft.. You dont resolve issues like that!

gbanikiti: there's nothing wrong in a woman building houses and acquiring properties. Maybe the posters wife felt he would not approve it. To me,I don't need anyone's permission to build houses. Its my personal decision.

Ujujoan:

No . .. it means a full turn

Chatters:

You must be out of your mind to think the way you do. How can you offer such a useless advice. We have only heard from the OP. We must need to hear from the wife too. For all I know there's no smoke without fire.

Coldfeet: She has begged for ur forgiveness! What more do you want?? Don't let some disgruntled Nldrs sow devilish seeds in your marriage o! Some are asking u if those kids are yours? Now if that thought has never crossed your mind am sure now it is right? Pls let it goo!! Who knows maybe they wanted it to be a surprise to you. And about the whole ish about your wife acting up since she now earns more than you, are you sure you are not being paranoid?

smartchoice: Send her outta your life immediately!

texaco1: you are not getting the point , the man is not angry that his wife is rich or making progress in life , what is paining and hurting the man is that she betrayed his trust by doing what she did without informing him , if she had informed him and he refused but yet she went ahead that is another issue , but living , sleeping and eating with a woman that is building a house and yet she says nothing about it is LIKE SLEEPING WITH YOUR ENEMY , she can even kill the man if told to do so by the same people that told her not to inform her husband about the building project

fried-rice:
Sorry Bro, this is disheartening.
After 10 years? i feel your pains even though you sound stronger than most men would be.
The truth is, if you cant trust her, you cant love her, and if you don't love her you can never be happy being with her.
Your wife should be someone you grow old with, your confidant. Children would come, stay and leave later, but your wife remains. So if you feel you cant forgive and "forget" the you should start early looking for someone else, there a a whole lot good and responsible ones out there. IMO.

lertee:
Imgine wht you wrote,he should send her out his house over wht?
Wht she hs done is bad but is sending her packing the best solution?

funkybaby: why do i need my man's permission before i build a house

of course i will inform him before i start but that does not constitute seeking his permission.

its my hard earned money and i can spend it however it pleases me as long as I do not put my finances or the family in jeopardy

spawne:
Haba! That is definitely an unwise advice jor. How does that help matters? Did you read the part where kids were mentioned?

Ujujoan:

What's the meaning of this

The fact that you don't agree with her doesn't give you the right to talk like this abeg~

funkybaby:

***rubs baby bump while flashing fourth finger on the left hand with 18carats diamond ring***

smartchoice: Send her outta your life immediately!

Lilimax: the highlighted cracked me up
What else can I say... will give it a try

NLEFCC: You this man.......you seem to have an answer for everybody's response..........my preliminary conclusion is that your story is not true. Then again you claim that your wife begged you and u have forgiving her so why are you coming to report her here?

funkybaby: why do i need my man's permission before i build a house

of course i will inform him before i start but that does not constitute seeking his permission.

its my hard earned money and i can spend it however it pleases me as long as I do not put my finances or the family in jeopardy

Dee'aba:
Oga park well o,why ll u give such advice without considering the children. Don't you know that when two elephant r fighting the grass ll surely suffer n d grass in dis case is d children if you dnt av a beta advise then dont contribute at all rather than give one that ll shatter the whole thing.