agrovick:

Incrizz, I had to bring you to your own thread as we have literally taken over someone else's.
Well I happen to struggle with using the right words to describe things but let me give it a try.

I will say the 2% involves going wild - a deviation from what you would have done on a normal day or a deviation from what society expects. You know damn the consequences kind of act as long as I'm having fun.

Am I on track?

Incrizz:

I'm so glad you did. 'Been hoping you would do something about it...whew!


On track in a way.
Like, acting in a way to see how wild YOU can get. And most times, those things I do to have a feel of that "cave man" , I'm not serious about it but just joking but you would not know.

I'm not alking about expensive jokes and lies. No.

Anything to know how wild you can get...I'm usually at the peak of playfulness when this happens. But you would never know.
You'd be so involved in the process that the giggles and laughter may leave you stewing in anger even more.


Most ladies have it or do it but are just not aware of it.
Makes any sense

Whatever. *rolls eyes*

agrovick:

Haha.. Anything for the Xena-Venus cross breed lady..

Are those things by chance related to say lighting a spark with stones or go hunting for wild animals

Ok... My curiosity level has officially peaked, you must be quite a handful..

Hahaha, not judging. This infrequent burst of 'craze' I believe is one of those things that makes you exciting

BTW, your siggy.. Are you like the clairvoyant?

Incrizz:

Do tell me about Xena and Venus sometime. I want your version, not google's

Lol...you are so funny lol.
No.
Related more to: let me try to explain.
You are male, I am female right? Males are strong, females are weak(right? hehe )
That mannish, that male thingy, whatever it is, must be felt (not in anyway talking about intimacy), must show through. And we do anything to make that happen. (Gosh I don't even know what I'm typing anymore ). Can't explain further. But I think it's a way of judging if we're safe around you, should you ever get into the "beastly" mode/mood.

Sincerely, I think I'm a handful I don't think someone who's got no mastery of his emotion can deal. Infact, I pity him in advance lol.

No not clairvoyant.
Have you ever heard about the Holy Spirit of God? Well He is a person and reveals stuff, God's mind to God's children.

The dream I had, if I should share it with you, may hardly make any sense but I knew what it meant. Whether you beliver it or not, the ball has been set roling for the antichrist's rule. That dream just let's me know that the plot just got thicker. You see this recession or hardhip or whatever is going on in the world? Things like these would make it easy for people to receive him, when he promises and gives relief.
Atheist who all want a sign before they believe, would get more than enough when the antichrist causes signs and wonders and lightening to appear in the sky at will.
(I am to open a thread for this though)

So are you a philosopher, or a hunter or a psychologist or what?

agrovick:

..How about I actively Google them out and tell why I think you are a cross of the two?

We are doing compliments already

Let me see if I read you correctly, you are saying ¹it's to test your partner's commitment
² To see if you can cope with his worst behavior?

Incrizz:

Precisely.

Doing compliments? I don't understand that, what does it mean?

"Test"? "commitment"? Those are strong words from what I'm trying to say. Guys are strong in a way a woman's not. You just want to have a feel of it. And it's not on purpose. It's an unconscious act, I have just learned to recognise when it's happening.
Especially when the guy is cool calm collected. It doesn't happen with every guy because some guys exude that strength without effort, unconsciously, all the time.
It's when the lady has never sensed it that she may start to act up just to have a feel of it from her man o.

Let me play a scenario,
She snatches the remote anytime you are engrossed, watching and does something silly like changing the channel.
It's becoming a habit and you're getting irritated so, you tell her and let her know you're not condoling it further. If she is satisfied, she doesn't try it again.
If she is not, she takes it further.
But she is not doing it on purpose.

She does it again and walks away, so you immediately go after her and wrestle the remote out of her hand. If this is satisfactory for her it all ends here. But if she not, as soon as you wresle the remote out of her hand, she gives you a very hot slap
(I'm just painting worst case scenario, not permitting violence against men)

For some ladies, it will be so satisfactory, to watch you raise your hand in the air as if you want to hit back, with your veins popping and your eyes filled with the fire of anger but you stop, and walk away or say something like, "don't you ever I repeat, EVER, try that again in your life or you would regret the day you were born (or whatever it is you have to say)

If you don't show a reaction where she can feel all your manly glory, she may slap you again and again when ever she feels like, as per she keeps pushing you again and again to do something..you know..drastic hehe

But a lot of men miss it by returning the slap or giving her two in quick succession ROTFL.
There is something she is looking for, she just wants to feel your authority, your strength or whatever it is that I'm trying to explain.

Doing it without getting violent (for a woman you love and you know truly loves you) usually cures that "craze" or thirst.

Yes your number 2 is part of it.

"Play fight" or getting rough with your lady makes a lot of sense. She wouldn't need to misbehave or be rude to have this thirst quenched (erm..I think)

I slept well, thank you.

agrovick:

Errr, you conveniently sidetracked the ending part of my previous post

Incrizz:

Lol..

Incrizz:
My gosh! I object
Venus doesn't describe me at all.
I don't have a streak of vegeance, or revenge or cruelness in me.



Xena? I don't relate
Lol...except that I wouldn't want my kids to go through any childhood experience that I went through and considered unpleasant.
Like, I still don't get why a Mama and Dada have to BOTH be out ALL DAY, chasing after cash for the sole purspose of trying to make ends meet (which never really seems to happen) while the househelp does the raising up of kids. Mama can own her business and train her kids please -I just don't get it, maybe you can help me understand?

FroshGirl:
The author of this piece never face a dog attack to compare lion.

I will never enter a house with dog after two dogs nearly killed me...

agrovick:


Hahaha, looks like I'm totally off but how come you went all gangster on her negative side but said nothing about the positives?

Seems I didn't get the Xena role across properly, she was a villain who later turned to the good path hence the redemption mission, it's her Warrior like qualities that is the basis of comparison though.

As regards the last part, I am in support of your views somebody needs to be home with the kids, it's now a choice between the Mama and the Dada.
Ideal situation:

The Mother runs a business that gives her the opportunity to spend quality time with the kids while the Dad is the career type.

A situation where the dad is the business one while the mom tows the career path shouldn't be ruled out either.

All in all there is the need to spend time with the Kids, nothing can replace that parental love, although I can categorically say that ideal arrangement seems to be an anomaly in the Nigerian setting judging by one or two scenarios around me but I can't judge since the goal is working towards ensuring comfort for these kids.

I would like to ask a question as regards the last bit though but I don't want to appear intrusive

PS - didn't get your mention on time

Incrizz:

i realised i didnt mention or quote you so, you weren't notified. Sorry.

hahaha her negative side blinded from the positive.

That you understand the whole Momma and Dada point i was trying to make will leave me sleeping peacefully tonight...........


Why not ask? If it's too intrusive I'll let you know.

agrovick:


Hahaha, pleasure to be of service

Considering I came across a similar discuss on one of your threads (the Mom & Dad part). I'm curious as regards the influence behind you been a champion of this cause, did you grow up in a home where both parents were the career type?

Incrizz:

Something of the sort.
Looking back, I wish they were in the living room in the evenings, with us, all of us watching TV together.
I miss that as per, I never got to experience it until in my adulthood.
The few times Mum was around and we got to do stuff together or I got to play with daddy's feet are some of my best memories ever.

Lol..

agrovick:


Now I understand better...
The good thing is even though you didn't get to experience that kind of life as frequently as you would have wanted, you turned out great.

That's a plus right?

I like the fact that you are family oriented, it's an attractive color on you

Incrizz:

agrovick:

Is that a hint of a blush that I see

Happy Sunday ma'am

Incrizz:

Lol...yup.
Felt so nice. Spread from the center of my heart out round it. I guess that's deeper than a blush?