Mujah1deen: islamization is not always by force Islam is a peaceful religion

Those who were around me did not prove to be peaceful Forcing my dress code. etc.

Remember one time I asked for simple prayer, there I was given a paper with some Arabic writing and told to bath with it. I honestly didnt understand that.

Again, two big Alhajis ( one naija and one senegalese ) thought there were gonna add me on their list of their wives. Pathetic Form there I am uncomfortable

chineloSA:

I am Catholic. Though I was not planning to convert, but you learn and you eventually love something because of those who practice it have good behavior.

They always compelled me to do things I was not comfortable with.

I didn't feel comfortable at all.

Eeeya sorry ooo .
I don't get how they compelled you to do things you weren't comfortable with? Are you related or do they live around you ?
Anyway, count it as a bad experience, however he shouldn't discourage you from seeking the truth, and seeing the beauty and purity of Islam.

Mujah1deen:

Eeeya sorry ooo .
I don't get how they compelled you to do things you weren't comfortable with? Are you related or do they live around you ?
Anyway, count it as a bad experience, however he shouldn't discourage you from seeking the truth, and seeing the beauty and purity of Islam.

I knew people who knew them, so I was invited to come.
Alhajis were enough to make me run a mile Those two big old men with beards. smdh.

chineloSA:

Those who were around me did not prove to be peaceful Forcing my dress code. etc.

Remember one time I asked for simple prayer, there I was given a paper with some Arabic writing and told to bath with it. I honestly didnt understand that.

Again, two big Alhajis ( one naija and one senegalese ) thought there were gonna add me on their list of their wives. Pathetic Form there I am uncomfortable

Maybe you took their advices for orders.
As for the prayers, you should have let them know that you don't speak/read Arabic.
Did they propose you or what? What's wrong with being the 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife?
You know some people don't know how to express their feelings, they were probably in love with you.

Mujah1deen:
Maybe you took their advices for orders.
As for the prayers, you should have let them know that you don't speak/read Arabic.
Did they propose you or what? What's wrong with being the 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife?
You know some people don't know how to express their feelings, they were probably in love with you.

islam is falsehood.not my tingy.can u even say one extraordinary experience u've encountered in islam? u beta convert

Mujah1deen:
Maybe you took their advices for orders.
As for the prayers, you should have let them know that you don't speak/read Arabic.
Did they propose you or what? What's wrong with being the 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife?
You know some people don't know how to express their feelings, they were probably in love with you.

They just came so strong for my liking. Why bath with a paper?? Really, I still don't understand.

Yes, they proposed. Old men na. Why would I want to be a 2nd or 3rd wife. I am very jealous oo.
But that was not the point, they wanted to steal me from my boyfriend then. when they knew him and he was part of the congregation they visited. How pathetic can an Ajhaji go. So that shaddy behaviour made me view them in a different way.

Besides I cant join their life of poverty, as an Alhaji, living on handouts!!! No ways.

chineloSA:

I knew people who knew them, so I was invited to come.
Alhajis were enough to make me run a mile Those two big old men with beards. smdh.

Humm. It is not easy to leave a religion that you have always known to embrace another one where you don't know anything, it takes a lot of time to assimilate everything and Change your "wrong" ways or bad behaviors .however those "Alhajis" shouldn't discourage you to learn about Islam, and why not embrace it fully later

God's Love Terbanacle is perfect

Mujah1deen: Humm. It is not easy to leave a religion that you have always known to embrace another one where you don't know anything, it takes a lot of time to assimilate everything and Change your "wrong" ways or bad behaviors .however those "Alhajis" shouldn't discourage you to learn about Islam, and why not embrace it fully later

My bad its not Alhajis its Sheik. One from Naija and one Senegal.

I forgot your church structure

chineloSA:

They just came so strong for my liking. Why bath with a paper?? Really, I still don't understand.

Yes, they proposed. Old men na. Why would I want to be a 2nd or 3rd wife. I am very jealous oo.
But that was not the point, they wanted to steal me from my boyfriend then. when they knew him and he was part of the congregation they visited. How pathetic can an Ajhaji go. So that shaddy behaviour made me view them in a different way.

Besides I cant join their life of poverty, as an Alhaji, living on handouts!!! No ways.

That's very rude .I feel you, however you met the wrong side .they don't represent Islam, their behaviors don't represent Islam.

I'm kinda confused, you call all Muslim grown men Alhaji or they were real alhaji ? I ask because I have never met a poor alhaji, they are not all extremely rich but definitively not poor.

Mujah1deen:

That's very rude .I feel you, however you met the wrong side .they don't represent Islam, their behaviors don't represent Islam.

I'm kinda confused, you call all Muslim grown men Alhaji or they were real alhaji ? I ask because I have never met a poor alhaji, they are not all extremely rich but definitively not poor.

Sorry, they are both Sheik.

chineloSA:

My bad its not Alhajis its Sheik. One from Naija and one Senegal.

I forgot your church structure

it makes more sense lol

chineloSA:

Sorry, they are both Sheik.

what were they doing in your congregation?

BTW, polygamy is not bad .

Mujah1deen: what were they doing in your congregation?

BTW, polygamy is not bad .

I dont want polygamy, abeg. I am too jealous. NO, NO, NO. Talkless of poverty polygamy, living on handout and grace of Allah

chineloSA:

My bad its not Alhajis its Sheik. One from Naija and one Senegal.

I forgot your church structure

and it is mosque not church

chineloSA:

I dont want polygamy, abeg. I am too jealous. NO, NO, NO. Talkless of poverty polygamy, living on handout and grace of Allah

what about a wealthy man? Wealthy enough to cater for all your needs?

What do you mean by I'm too jealous? He will still perform his duties so you have nothing to worry about

Mujah1deen: it makes more sense lol

So, Sheiks are allowed to steal woman. Is that why it make sense

chineloSA:

They just came so strong for my liking. Why bath with a paper?? Really, I still don't understand.

Yes, they proposed. Old men na. Why would I want to be a 2nd or 3rd wife. I am very jealous oo.
But that was not the point, they wanted to steal me from my boyfriend then. when they knew him and he was part of the congregation they visited. How pathetic can an Ajhaji go. So that shaddy behaviour made me view them in a different way.

Besides I cant join their life of poverty, as an Alhaji, living on handouts!!! No ways.

You sound terribly ignorant.

So, Alhajis are beggars where you live? I doubt they would have come on to you if they didn't feel you welcomed their attention.

I know an American girl who was complaining to me about a Nigerian (Christian) guy. She was having a conversation of a sexual nature with him. When he told her he was interested in having a girlfriend even though he was married, she continued to entertain his advances - asking him all kinds of things and flirting with him. That's a test from a Naija guy to see what kind of woman you are. "Girlfriend/mistress," not even wife. She even invited him to her house and then called another boyfriend of hers, a married guy to come over and scare him away. She was just playing with all these men. . . and one day she paid an expensive price for it. Don't lead men on. They have feelings too.

Mujah1deen:

That's very rude .I feel you, however you met the wrong side .they don't represent Islam, their behaviors don't represent Islam.

I'm kinda confused, you call all Muslim grown men Alhaji or they were real alhaji ? I ask because I have never met a poor alhaji, they are not all extremely rich but definitively not poor.

Stop entertaining this creature. She's just using the opportunity to insult Islam.

Mujah1deen: what about a wealthy man? Wealthy enough to cater for all your needs?

What do you mean by I'm too jealous? He will still perform his duties so you have nothing to worry about

Money cant sleep with you daily, when he has other wives.

Aaaaah aaaah, my man and mine alone. I dont mind sharing with kids from previous relationship. But not sharing with other woman. Sorrry ooo. I am not that generous

chineloSA:
So, Sheiks are allowed to steal woman. Is that why it make sense

I was talking about the whole alhajis are poor or beggars living on handouts. I doubt people can steal a wife, if she becomes your wife that means she wanted to leave her husband. Period

isale_gan2:

Stop entertaining this creature. She's just using the opportunity to insult Islam.

I am talking to him Sir. So abeg leave us. I am not insulting anything but sharing my experience

Mujah1deen: I was talking about the whole alhajis are poor or beggars living on handouts. I doubt people can steal a wife, if she becomes your wife that means she wanted to leave her husband. Period

Didnt like their approach especially when they are in that position

chineloSA:

I am talking to him Sir. So abeg leave us. I am not insulting anything but sharing my experience

Okay.

isale_gan2:

Stop entertaining this creature. She's just using the opportunity to insult Islam.

We can correct her, don't you think so ? Especially if she didn't do that on purpose.

isale_gan2:

You sound terribly ignorant.

So, Alhajis are beggars where you live? I doubt they would have come on to you if they didn't feel you welcomed their attention.

I know an American girl who was complaining to me about a Nigerian (Christian) guy. She was having a conversation of a sexual nature with him. When he told her he was interested in having a girlfriend even though he was married, she continued to entertain his advances - asking him all kinds of things and flirting with him. That's a test from a Naija guy to see what kind of woman you are. "Girlfriend/mistress," not even wife. She even invited him to her house and then called another boyfriend of hers, a married guy to come over and scare him away. She was just playing with all these men. . . and one day she paid an expensive price for it. Don't lead men on. They have feelings too.

Leave the Christians na. They are always sinners. Sin every second, every millisecond. What do you expect from us Christians. We have changed Moses commandment to suit us.

Stealing is "Steal but dont be caught" What do you expect from us. Leave us please. We love sins son much. They taste good

chineloSA:

Didnt like their approach especially when they are in that position

If they weren't straight you would still complain.

Mujah1deen: We can correct her, don't you think so ? Especially if she didn't do that on purpose.

I took one Muslim friend to church one Sunday as a agreement to introduce each other to each others religion.

She just opened her food and started eating in the middle of mass. Thats how much she disregarded my religion

So how do I join such. How do I convert when Muslims look at me like an infidel

Mujah1deen:
If they weren't straight you would still complain.

Never been interested in them. I regarded them as father figures. Actually grand fada figure.

I was disappointed actually

chineloSA:

I took one Muslim friend to church one Sunday as a agreement to introduce each other to each others religion.

She just opened her food and started eating in the middle of mass. Thats how much she disregarded my religion

So how do I join such. How do I convert when Muslims look at me like an infidel

She probably didn't know what to do in a church, besides don't you
Christians eat the body of Christ?
She was ignorant about your religion, why you didn't give her some advices or hints before actually going?

I don't get your last question, don't you Christian/catholic look at pagans as infidels too ? at Muslims as terrorists? You even call every non Christian a pagan.

chineloSA:

Never been interested in them. I regarded them as father figures. Actually grand fada figure.

I was disappointed actually

age is only a number. And love doesn't know any limit

Mujah1deen: She probably didn't know what to do in a church, besides don't you
Christians eat the body of Christ?
She was ignorant about your religion, why you didn't give her some advices or hints before actually going?

I don't get your last question, don't you Christian/catholic look at pagans as infidels too ? at Muslims as terrorists? You even call every non Christian a pagan.

I dont think she didnt understand, she simply disregarded my religion. In Catholic church there is a lot of stand up sit down for someone to have time for a munch She was simply rude. she can never eat in a meeting at work, no one has to tell you that.
Why eat when i am having a meeting with my most important man??
Had I refused to put a headscarf on my head, she was going to e unhappy.

Catholics dont judge. Catholic make their standpoint clear and we let people choose. e.g. Catholicism is clear on homosexual, hence they don't marry them, but then again we don't discriminate against them. We love them and the come to church