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Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by youngprofdguru(m): 2:15pm On Dec 12, 2013
1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn't like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.

Paul Agwu & Youngprofdguru.........

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by youngprofdguru(m): 2:17pm On Dec 12, 2013
If you think we try vote for it to be front-paged!
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Kanwulia: 2:43pm On Dec 12, 2013
Over to the 'single-molding-cargoes'! kiss

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by POPEII: 3:00pm On Dec 12, 2013
Nice topic but I think I have already seen it before(on this forum) anyway preach bro ,hope they will humble themselves and listen .

Our queens are going gaga

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by youngprofdguru(m): 4:39pm On Dec 12, 2013
POPE II: Nice topic but I think I have already seen it before(on this forum) anyway preach bro ,hope they will humble themselves and listen .

Our queens are going gaga
Thanks Boss.....
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by youngprofdguru(m): 4:41pm On Dec 12, 2013
Kanwulia: Over to the 'single-molding-cargoes'! kiss
Ooops Guy d statement is not Dat OK....
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 4:48pm On Dec 12, 2013
Kanwulia: Over to the 'single-molding-cargoes'! kiss


Nne, wetin dey happen naw? grin grin grin grin

Been a while stranger wink wink wink


You look very cute o cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy. For ya age na so you young grin grin grin grin grin grin. Oh boy! ThaT MAN WEY DEY NACK YOU FOR HOUSE I HOPE SAY HIN DEY APPRECIATE YOU because YOU ARE A RARE TYPE. grin grin grin grin
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by adesiku(m): 9:32pm On Dec 12, 2013
@ op, u have said it all...if only our ladies can stop imitating the western culture wch I think is direct opposite to african culture

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by youngprofdguru(m): 10:46pm On Dec 12, 2013
adesiku: @ op, u have said it all...if only our ladies can stop imitating the western culture wch I think is direct opposite to african culture
Thanks master.....
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 10:15am On Dec 13, 2013
pDude:


Nne, wetin dey happen naw? grin grin grin grin

Been a while stranger wink wink wink


You look very cute o cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy. For ya age na so you young grin grin grin grin grin grin. Oh boy! ThaT MAN WEY DEY NACK YOU FOR HOUSE I HOPE SAY HIN DEY APPRECIATE YOU because YOU ARE A RARE TYPE. gringrin grin grin
lol.trouble sleep,yanga go wake am grin grin grin
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 10:21am On Dec 13, 2013
Kanwulia is that you in a red shirt shocked shocked

unbelievable.you look 28.you dont even look 40 talkless of 50
Even my big sis thats just 40 looks way older than you.please what is the secret cheesy

plus you even look sober sef as oppposed to your nl personaliyy grin

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by bastien: 2:34pm On Dec 13, 2013
Hmmm that one na there busy



Girls never finish 4 ma village,if lagos girl no fit b wife material,I go quickly port go village!

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by ITbomb(m): 2:37pm On Dec 13, 2013
I thought it was another Dailynews utopian sermon
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Ruq: 2:38pm On Dec 13, 2013
Like they'll listen, look Mayne i tell you it is better as it is today at least some are getting hooked. In the nearest future man you'll see a clearer picture of Sodom and Gomorrah Nigeria will turn into. But we cannot help and accept it as normal.
Cheers
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by nekaa(f): 2:40pm On Dec 13, 2013
okay they have hear.
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 2:40pm On Dec 13, 2013
youngprofdguru: 1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn't like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.

Paul Agwu & Youngprofdguru.........

You hit the nail bro! Quality!
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by bomolu: 2:41pm On Dec 13, 2013
youngprofdguru: 1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn't like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.

Paul Agwu & Youngprofdguru.........


You have said it all. Yet you forget the other ladies who actually do the opposite of all you have said. Yet Guys still leave them in chasing after the 'hot' and 'sexy' babes out there, claiming that they are boring. You should also enlighten guys about going for the right kind of women, because trust me hot and sexy ladies are getting married every Saturday, while the decent ones are still single.

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by bomolu: 2:41pm On Dec 13, 2013
You have said it all. Yet you forget the other ladies who actually do the opposite of all you have said. Yet Guys still leave them in chasing after the 'hot' and 'sexy' babes out there, claiming that they are boring. You should also enlighten guys about going for the right kind of women, because trust me hot and sexy ladies are getting married every Saturday, while the decent ones are still single.

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Dygeasy(m): 2:43pm On Dec 13, 2013
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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by jnrbayano(m): 2:44pm On Dec 13, 2013
The media/computer access/internet and enter10ment make a gargantuan impact on our ladies (permit me to add "our men"wink) as the OP pointed out but the big question is, "what kind of impact?"

Nice post there Mr OP....
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by GotNoSwaggg: 2:45pm On Dec 13, 2013
Where'd you copy and paste this from?
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by AdimGreat(f): 2:45pm On Dec 13, 2013
This ladies talks are becoming unbecoming. Why ar u guys obsessed with ladies lately hun??

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 2:45pm On Dec 13, 2013
That number 7 is so true, this is a nice food 4 though.
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by olahero(m): 2:46pm On Dec 13, 2013
Our Queens are going GAGA, nice pieces, hope they go catch use.
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by alphaconde(m): 2:50pm On Dec 13, 2013
For those ladies who are saying they must get married this year. Just wanna inform them that Its just 2 saturdays left.

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 2:53pm On Dec 13, 2013
See problem, what do you know about being a woman? How is it any of your business what women you're not even related to live their lives? also who made you the judge of what's right or wrong for the womenfolk?.
Just focus on living you own life according to your principles and leave others alone.

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by lymelyte(m): 2:53pm On Dec 13, 2013
shebi all d girls don go run hide.. grin dem dey do like say dem never see dis thread for frontpage.
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by larrytorch(m): 2:55pm On Dec 13, 2013
well written !
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 2:58pm On Dec 13, 2013
alpha conde: For those ladies who are saying they must get married this year. Just wanna inform them that Its just 2 saturdays left.
u badt

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Lilimax(f): 2:59pm On Dec 13, 2013
Nice one @ OP.
Very impactful.
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Lilimax(f): 3:00pm On Dec 13, 2013
alpha conde: For those ladies who are saying they must get married this year. Just wanna inform them that Its just 2 saturdays left.
It is still very possible.

Anything can still happen smiley
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Ediss(m): 3:04pm On Dec 13, 2013
MY people its true. There is this lady, MY God ! after all HER socall degree which incloud a masters from UK she is still not a wife materia she will be with HER phone day in day out and or spend all HER time sleeping. B4 i talk One she will say bécus am working and she is not working. She has never for once Cook for me or even clean MY house. I just brack up with HER and never to go back. God will help me to get a goood wife

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