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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 9:06pm On Dec 13, 2013
chikeorji123: The reason while l comented here is b/c l saw the name Dailynews....
Hi Chike, merry xmas in advance, really been a whilesmiley
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 9:11pm On Dec 13, 2013
youngprofdguru:
Guy u rant too much, you fought with a woman lindaikeji so everyone should clap for you now or be scared of u.....
Real men don't talk to much, dey see things like dis as shit.... so stop ranting n throwing unnecessary threat
Kapush!!!!
Anyway, I only referenced Linda to show u how far I can go to fight against copying my work without reference. I did same with other website owners that copied my work without reference...any author will do same...local and international cos its not easy to write informative/intelligent article or story.

But like u said, I will let it go for now...but I am already working towards securing a software that will help me crawl through websites to gather places where my work is being published....and if any refused to reference my blog or hub as the source, will surely take it up via DMCA. Maybe u don't know the gravity of the offence, don't worry, its well.
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by GentleFrank(m): 9:12pm On Dec 13, 2013
That's nice !
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by paranorman(m): 9:34pm On Dec 13, 2013
b.omolu:



You have said it all. Yet you forget the other ladies who actually do the opposite of all you have said. Yet Guys still leave them in chasing after the 'hot' and 'sexy' babes out there, claiming that they are boring. You should also enlighten guys about going for the right kind of women, because trust me hot and sexy ladies are getting married every Saturday, while the decent ones are still single.

true talk bro, but also, most dude wanna date a hot girl and end-up with a decent one. That's why the hot ones are always hooked, and atimes, you'd b suprise when you tease a decent pretty babe about her boyfriend and she tell you she aint got none! Besides, some of dem decent girls were once very bad,den, dey had men comin but when her biological clock has turned faster they they imagined, dey turn new leaf under the guise of 'husband-huntin'.. Seriously, when you see some babes, you'd pity their future husband that you aint know in advance. Some of dem decent girls also lack manners. Life itself is not fair.. We shouldnt put all the blame on our women, we men have bad roles we played in makin this problem.. Its high time we men started being responsible.

Ps.. To the men not boys; Never judge a book by the cover. atimes, what you want might not b what you actualy need. When a good responsible man hooks a virtuous woman, he has d best tresures in the whole world.. That why its written in the bible that," he who finds a wife has found a good tin, and he obtains favor from the Lord.. A virtuous woman is d wife d bible is talkin about. While the bibles teaches a woman to be submisive to her husband, it also teaches that the man should love her as he loves himself.. "two should become one".. That's why she's called ur better half. There'r are still virtuous woman out dere for good responsible men.. Just watch and pray.

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by caesaraba(m): 9:34pm On Dec 13, 2013
youngprofdguru:
Guy u rant too much, you fought with a woman lindaikeji so everyone should clap for you now or be scared of u.....
Real men don't talk to much, dey see things like dis as shit.... so stop ranting n throwing unnecessary threat
Kapush!!!!

See how you betrayed yourself with this true post of yours as opposed to the well grammatically constructed article by DailyNews which you copied and pasted without referencing.

Better go back to your OP and modify it with appropriate references or stand firm in your ignorance and prove to everyone that although you were trying to sound brilliant with a stolen article, you are just another empty-headed oaf and member of the copy & paste crew who does not have the most minute of abilities to create anything intellectually original. Ball's in your court kiddo.

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by andyanders: 9:51pm On Dec 13, 2013
From your write up here, you are a real virtuous woman and any man that marries you has a jewel.Keep it up. You have stated the truth about the ladies
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 10:19pm On Dec 13, 2013
DailyNews: Christmas clothehehegringrin...me no get money for Victoria Secret wears ogrin thanks for your concern but I am not Adeniyi Samuel ogringrin
lmao i know ure not samuel.that was just an illustration cheesy as per the xmas cloth,im just messing with you grin

Enjoy wink
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 10:22pm On Dec 13, 2013
caesaraba:

See how you betrayed yourself with this true post of yours as opposed to the well grammatically constructed article by DailyNews which you copied and pasted without referencing.

Better go back to your OP and modify it with appropriate references or stand firm in your ignorance and prove to everyone that although you were trying to sound brilliant with a stolen article, you are just another empty-headed oaf and member of the copy & paste crew who does not have the most minute of abilities to create anything intellectually original. Ball's in your court kiddo.
no fighting,no tempers rising.keep calm smiley cool
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 10:25pm On Dec 13, 2013
youngprofdguru:
Guy u rant too much, you fought with a woman lindaikeji so everyone should clap for you now or be scared of u.....
Real men don't talk to much, dey see things like dis as shit.... so stop ranting n throwing unnecessary threat
Kapush!!!!
bobo yi kulu temper na cheesy this is xmas season so we are to show love and not anger smiley

oya pele.otito my dear tongue
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by chikeorji123(m): 10:29pm On Dec 13, 2013
DailyNews: Hi Chike, merry xmas in advance, really been a whilesmiley

A while? the last time l hola u lgnored my call maybe for a personal reason..it's a privilage seeing the last month,merrry xmas too..
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by godman01(m): 10:56pm On Dec 13, 2013
youngprofdguru: 1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn't like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.

Paul Agwu & Youngprofdguru.........
on point, wa sere!
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 11:01pm On Dec 13, 2013
paranorman:

true talk bro, but also, most dude wanna date a hot girl and end-up with a decent one. That's why the hot ones are always hooked, and atimes, you'd b suprise when you tease a decent pretty babe about her boyfriend and she tell you she aint got none! Besides, some of dem decent girls were once very bad,den, dey had men comin but when her biological clock has turned faster they they imagined, dey turn new leaf under the guise of 'husband-huntin'.. Seriously, when you see some babes, you'd pity their future husband that you aint know in advance. Some of dem decent girls also lack manners. Life itself is not fair.. We shouldnt put all the blame on our women, we men have bad roles we played in makin this problem.. Its high time we men started being responsible.

Ps.. To the men not boys; Never judge a book by the cover. atimes, what you want might not b what you actualy need. When a good responsible man hooks a virtuous woman, he has d best tresures in the whole world.. That why its written in the bible that," he who finds a wife has found a good tin, and he obtains favor from the Lord.. A virtuous woman is d wife d bible is talkin about. While the bibles teaches a woman to be submisive to her husband, it also teaches that the man should love her as he loves himself.. "two should become one".. That's why she's called ur better half. There'r are still virtuous woman out dere for good responsible men.. Just watch and pray.
Mr man, say amen to this prayer... May you live long, may you find a wife that deserves you, and may cankerworm never eat up your wisdom. You so hit the nail on the head.

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by GHANAOGA: 11:03pm On Dec 13, 2013
godman01: on point, wa sere!

Nonsense!! Are the single ladies crying to you..make we hear... I will rather my sister remain single than follow all these fuuls calling themselves "men".kwasiiaaa.gbemela!! Aboa!
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by MightyFortress: 11:53pm On Dec 13, 2013
U try.
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 12:04am On Dec 14, 2013
For me, the advice i would give single ladies is to KNOW your value, be of good behavior and develop a strong character and persona.
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Janedoe26(f): 12:04am On Dec 14, 2013
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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 12:08am On Dec 14, 2013
Jane doe26: A good wife most times comes to a Good man. Improve your English language and maybe something good will come to you. Just saying
Oops, that hurt!

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by charismatic1(f): 3:47am On Dec 14, 2013
Plagiarism is a big offence which has ruined some people especially in the western world,however,Nigerians do not see it as a big deal which it isn't their fault 'cos we were not taught or well tutored on that.

Let us start by creating the awareness.

For as many that want to repost or quote,please try and use the right formats(APA, MLA etc).


Nice post and i concur with most of the points stated.

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Fourwinds: 4:13am On Dec 14, 2013
I don't know what is d problem with girls dis days as if dey ca not see.. greed as taken over deir heart so dey lose focus.
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 4:31am On Dec 14, 2013
andyanders: From your write up here, you are a real virtuous woman and any man that marries you has a jewel.Keep it up. You have stated the truth about the ladies

But oga I be Guy oh......
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 4:39am On Dec 14, 2013
caesaraba:

See how you betrayed yourself with this true post of yours as opposed to the well grammatically constructed article by DailyNews which you copied and pasted without referencing.

Better go back to your OP and modify it with appropriate references or stand firm in your ignorance and prove to everyone that although you were trying to sound brilliant with a stolen article, you are just another empty-headed oaf and member of the copy & paste crew who does not have the most minute of abilities to create anything intellectually original. Ball's in your court kiddo.
You sound intelligent, but young man I wanna ask you
HAS ANYTHING GOOD COME OUT OF YOU?
#Idiot
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 4:43am On Dec 14, 2013
kulyie: bobo yi kulu temper na cheesy this is xmas season so we are to show love and not anger smiley

oya pele.otito my dear tongue
Better so he advice him to stop ranting n he SHOULD be focused
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by DMainMan: 7:05am On Dec 14, 2013
youngprofdguru:
Guy u rant too much, you fought with a woman lindaikeji so everyone should clap for you now or be scared of u.....
Real men don't talk to much, dey see things like dis as shit.... so stop ranting n throwing unnecessary threat
Kapush!!!!

It seems u dont know aw it feels if some1 steals your work after so much time spent in writing them.

I was also a victim on nairaland. After writing an article, a guy copied and paste my story to his already lacklustre writeup.

He made front page. D thing really pained me as he didnt make any reference to me.

But unlike u, d guy felt guilty and apologised when I accused him.

Change your ways guy. It pains a lot.

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by BluePearls(m): 7:44am On Dec 14, 2013
faakay:

You hit the nail bro! Quality!

jeez man....must you quote the whole page? You be learner?

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by paranorman(m): 10:11am On Dec 14, 2013
PocketEconomist: Mr man, say amen to this prayer... May you live long, may you find a wife that deserves you, and may cankerworm never eat up your wisdom. You so hit the nail on the head.

amen o.. Thanks bro, appreciate eet. cheesy

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 10:25am On Dec 14, 2013
DMainMan:

It seems u dont know aw it feels if some1 steals your work after so much time spent in writing them.

I was also a victim on nairaland. After writing an article, a guy copied and paste my story to his already lacklustre writeup.

He made front page. D thing really pained me as he didnt make any reference to me.

But unlike u, d guy felt guilty and apologised when I accused him.

Change your ways guy. It pains a lot.
DIDN'T STEAL ANYBODY'S WORK OGA, I DON'T EVEN KNOW DAILY NEWS BEFORE......
SO Y ALL DIS CONDEMNATIONS!!!!!!!!
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 10:37am On Dec 14, 2013
kulyie: no fighting,no tempers rising.keep calm smiley cool
Lol, of course I know...enjoy the season too cheesy
chikeorji123:

A while? the last time l hola u lgnored my call maybe for a personal reason..it's a privilage seeing the last month,merrry xmas too..
Yeah, u are right Chike....just being cautious pls...once beating, twice shy...how are u preparing for the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ? Do have a lovely harmattan season smiley
charismatic1:
Plagiarism is a big offence which has ruined some people especially in the western world,however,Nigerians do not see it as a big deal which it isn't their fault 'cos we were not taught or well tutored on that.

Let us start by creating the awareness.

For as many that want to repost or quote,please try and use the right formats(APA, MLA etc).


Nice post and i concur with most of the points stated.
All I can say is: God bless you...and to all the sane-thinking Nigerians. I can now see that Nigeria still have hope, goodmorning smiley

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 10:38am On Dec 14, 2013
DMainMan:

It seems u dont know aw it feels if some1 steals your work after so much time spent in writing them.

I was also a victim on nairaland. After writing an article, a guy copied and paste my story to his already lacklustre writeup.

He made front page. D thing really pained me as he didnt make any reference to me.

But unlike u, d guy felt guilty and apologised when I accused him.

Change your ways guy. It pains a lot.
Like I said earlier, he won't understand until he falls victim to it...Thanks so much DMainMan smiley

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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by bomolu: 12:28pm On Dec 14, 2013
Jane doe26: A good wife most times comes to a Good man. Improve your English language and maybe something good will come to you. Just saying
Nice one girl. you talk true. lolz cheesy
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 1:32pm On Dec 14, 2013
tnx siR.. smiley
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by lymelyte(m): 4:37pm On Dec 14, 2013
Please what is the current access bank exchange rate for 1dollar to naira ?
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Dauduagba: 5:29pm On Dec 14, 2013
Your points are very relevant.

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