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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by mazizitonene(m): 4:09pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
AdimGreat: This ladies talks is becoming unbecoming. Why ar u guys obsessed with ladies lately hun??Um....they are complaining that there are no husbands 1 Like |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Macbriz(m): 4:09pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
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Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by symbian03(m): 4:16pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
Irokoroots: Yet another Odenson. 1 Like |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Lordlexyy: 4:20pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
jinkees: wetin carry you go find woman wey get masters degree for UK you should have gone to the village to look for your speck so that you guys can understand each other better because I doubt if that UK babe would understand this horrible grammerAnd what makes a uk graduate more unique? If you have issues with the write up, then deal with it and don't find an excuse to lynch the dude. Only insecure people and those guilty of these would rather troll than make meaninful contribution. Pls don't pick offence, you know you are my sister. |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by symbian03(m): 4:21pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
jinkees: why are all you guys hatting on women all of a sudden? please if ur broke or heart broken dont bring the pain down on the women they re beautiful and wonderful creatures that makes the world complete it takes only a real man to realize that. Where's the dislike button? BTW you sound so pained! |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 4:24pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
youngprofdguru: 1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?and everyone keeps reposting my work even without credit, gosh! Nigerians! I first published this on my blog last year after composing it one night like that and then re-posted it here on nairaland romance section...since then, I have encountered it on virtually all Nigerian websites, blogs and forums including facebook and every poster keep claiming to be the original writer, too bad of we Nigerians. This is intellectual stealing and its so disheartening to say, sighs 1 Like |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 4:28pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
DailyNews: and everyone keeps reposting my work even without credit, gosh! Nigerians! I first published this on my blog last year after composing it one night like that and then re-posted it here on nairaland romance section...since then, I have encountered it on virtually all Nigerian websites, blogs and forums including facebook and every poster keep claiming to be the original writer, too bad of we Nigerians. This is intellectual stealing and its so disheartening to say, sighs Hahahahahhahahahahahhahaha! Pele....... |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 4:30pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
Mr poster pls try and give credit to people for their intellectual work pls...its not cool at all to copy another person's intellectual work and re-post, claiming to be the original writer. I am sure many regular visitors on nairaland can still recall when I first published this article here and days later, it went viral from my blog to facebook, to all naija blogs, too bad I must say...its all good. But pls poster change for your own good. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by tonychristopher: 4:32pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
HAVE YOU BEEN TO THESE PENTECOSTAL CHURCHES LATELY....IT'S ALL FILLED UP WITH OLD CARGOES AND DIVORCEE...TO BE HONEST MAJORITY OF SINGLE GIRLS AIN'T MARRIAGE MATERIALS CAN'T IMAGINE GETTING MARRIED TO THESE NAKED BUST AND PUSSY SHOWING GIRLS. GETTING A GOOD GIRL IN LAGOS IS LIKE SEARCHING FOR A VIRGIN IN IKPODO AXIS OF IKEJA. YES I KNOW VILLAGE GIRLS AIN'T SAINTS BUT THEY STILL HAVE AFRICAN CULTURE IMBEDDED IN THEM PLUS THEIR EDUCATION. I CAN'T MARRY AN OWAMBE,ACHEBE SOWING LADY EVERY TIME.LOOKING LIKE A BARBIE DOLL WITH FAKE EYES, FAKE EYE LASHES,FAKE NAILS, FAKE BREAST FAKE ACCENT ETC. 90% of lagos babes are friendship materials not a wife material. take a walk along street and see their nasty manners coupled with their empty brains 2 Likes |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 4:40pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
tonychristopher: HAVE YOU BEEN TO THESE PENTECOSTAL CHURCHES LATELY....IT'S ALL FILLED UP WITH OLD CARGOES AND DIVORCEE...TO BE HONEST MAJORITY OF SINGLE GIRLS AIN'T MARRIAGE MATERIALS CAN'T IMAGINE GETTING MARRIED TO THESE NAKED BUST AND PUSSY SHOWING GIRLS. GETTING A GOOD GIRL IN LAGOS IS LIKE SEARCHING FOR A VIRGIN IN IKPODO AXIS OF IKEJA. YES I KNOW VILLAGE GIRLS AIN'T SAINTS BUT THEY STILL HAVE AFRICAN CULTURE IMBEDDED IN THEM PLUS THEIR EDUCATION. I CAN'T MARRY AN OWAMBE,ACHEBE SOWING LADY EVERY TIME.LOOKING LIKE A BARBIE DOLL WITH FAKE EYES, FAKE EYE LASHES,FAKE NAILS, FAKE BREAST FAKE ACCENT ETC. |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 4:43pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
alpha conde: For those ladies who are saying they must get married this year. Just wanna inform them that Its just 2 saturdays left. Bros abeg yarn d koko to all d ladies in 'A Thread For Single Ladies'. D year is gone already. 1 Like |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 4:45pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
Lilimax: It is still very possible. Possible in ur dream? |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Lordlexyy: 4:46pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
sandijey: In those days sir, how manyof our mothers went to school, how many of them worked? Most of our mothers were solely dependent on their husbands. That was why men could treat women however they wish, even when she knows her husband is cheating, she would still be blamed for not doing certain things and beg the man to come home! Mostof our mothers used to say, if not because of my children and I don't have money, I would have left your father a long time ago.I understand you perfectly, but generalization is always dangerous. Which way you look at it, our parental marriage has proven to be stable and enduring cos a lot of patience was injected to it which is what is lacking now as a result of woman empowerment and equality. If lasting marriage is what they (ladies) desire, then patience must be upheld. But if equality as detected by society is what they want, then get ready for divorce. |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 4:49pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
Ediss: MY people its true. There is this lady, MY God ! after all Bruv, ur 'engrish' has just caused me stomach-ache. Are u sure this wasn't why she behaved dat way just to 'brack' up wit u? 1 Like |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 4:49pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
The problem here is that most Nigerian men believe the only reason women exist on earth is to get married and have children for them. 4 Likes |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Lordlexyy: 4:49pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
sandijey: In those days sir, how manyof our mothers went to school, how many of them worked? Most of our mothers were solely dependent on their husbands. That was why men could treat women however they wish, even when she knows her husband is cheating, she would still be blamed for not doing certain things and beg the man to come home! Mostof our mothers used to say, if not because of my children and I don't have money, I would have left your father a long time ago.I understand you perfectly, but generalization is always dangerous. Which way you look at it, our parental marriage has proven to be stable and enduring cos a lot of patience was injected to it which is what is lacking now as a result of woman empowerment and equality. If lasting marriage is what they (ladies) desire, then patience must be upheld. But if equality as detected by society is what they want, then get ready for divorce. If a relationship without trials is what you are anticipating, i wish you well. Beside, all things are possible. |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by DonaldGenes(m): 4:50pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
1000 likes |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Megatone(m): 4:50pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
youngprofdguru: 1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels? 100 trillion likes, infact for eternity. Low self esteem is d major reason why most women of these days are notin to write home about. They are alot of Pretty looking girls but just a few are beautiful because beauty means the inner part of a woman , even if she aint hot in appearance. To get a good man to love a woman these days is just so difficult . Ladiez , shine ya eyes |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by POPEII: 4:51pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
You can open a thread about that, instead of barking like a rabid dog jinkees: what is the head and tail of this dumb advise?? what of men that cheat on their wives and frustrate their lives after been married to them and these women end up heart broken miserable and devastated? many of them end up wishing they were never married .many women are miserable after the so called marriage. Does life begin after been married. you guys sound like marriage is the road to Heaven. abeg all this bull shit advise about marriage this and that. should go front A real man is a man that loves and understands his woman no mater not a man that wants a slave to cook clean while he is out their partying and having fun |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by sathel(m): 4:52pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
my advise 2 dem iz dat dey shld al GO nd DIE.....atleast dey'll be lucky 2 win 2million:/my advise 2 dem iz dat dey shld al GO nd DIE.....atleast dey'll be lucky 2 win 2million:/my advise 2 dem iz dat dey shld al GO nd DIE.....atleast dey'll be lucky 2 win 2million:/ |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 4:55pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
bannykel: Nice one but wat abt dos billionaires daughter's who are totally useless (sorry to say DAT) and still got nice, handsome & rich guys cos a Frnd of mine was one, we Neva tot she's gonna get a hubby but she got married b4 us all.leave them make them dey rant 1 Like |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 4:56pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
Lordlexyy: I understand you perfectly, but generalization is always dangerous. Which way you look at it, our parental marriage has proven to be stable and enduring cos a lot of patience was injected to it which is what is lacking now as a result of woman empowerment and equality. If lasting marriage is what they (ladies) desire, then patience must be upheld. But if equality as detected by society is what they want, then get ready for divorce. I totally agree. I don't no if patience is learned or inborn but a lot of people are lacking it! And there are many things responsible for lack of patience. The fact that everybody wants quick cash, quick job, quick house, quick marriage, quick children! Nobody wants to be patient! The problem is deep mhen! Its proving difficult for people to keep up! At the end of the day, marrying a friend is just the best! Someone u can tell anything to, share anything wiv! If not.............. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by DonaldGenes(m): 4:58pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
ITbomb: I thought it was another Dailynews utopian sermon lmaooooooooooo |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Lordlexyy: 4:59pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
wallflower: The problem here is that most Nigerian men believe the only reason women exist on earth is to get married and have children for them.What's your fancy baby? Marriage and child bearing are two very important factors that makes life complete. We all need it not for society sake but for our own fulfilment, it brings some measure of satisfaction if you have ever been there. |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Megatone(m): 5:00pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
b.omolu: I dont totally agree with you , besides if a guy marries you because you hot and sexy, what happens when you get older or he gets tired of it. He will look for another hot and sexy girl to replace you. Anyone can get married but the question remains dat marraige is not the end of your life or the world. Lots of marraiges crash these days because of self centeredness , but if you marry for true love, den its everlasting. A good man dat is ready to love is difficult these days because most girls are fake . Taiwan products |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by DonaldGenes(m): 5:03pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
DailyNews: and everyone keeps reposting my work even without credit, gosh! Nigerians! I first published this on my blog last year after composing it one night like that and then re-posted it here on nairaland romance section...since then, I have encountered it on virtually all Nigerian websites, blogs and forums including facebook and every poster keep claiming to be the original writer, too bad of we Nigerians. This is intellectual stealing and its so disheartening to say, sighs hahahhahaahahahhaahahahaa you dey vex ni? |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Annuity(m): 5:04pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
Numba 3 is my greatest turn off in gals |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by DonaldGenes(m): 5:05pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
DailyNews: and everyone keeps reposting my work even without credit, gosh! Nigerians! I first published this on my blog last year after composing it one night like that and then re-posted it here on nairaland romance section...since then, I have encountered it on virtually all Nigerian websites, blogs and forums including facebook and every poster keep claiming to be the original writer, too bad of we Nigerians. This is intellectual stealing and its so disheartening to say, sighs hahahhahaahahahhaahahahaa you dey vex ni? |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 5:06pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
tonychristopher: HAVE YOU BEEN TO THESE PENTECOSTAL CHURCHES LATELY....IT'S ALL FILLED UP WITH OLD CARGOES AND DIVORCEE...TO BE HONEST MAJORITY OF SINGLE GIRLS AIN'T MARRIAGE MATERIALS CAN'T IMAGINE GETTING MARRIED TO THESE NAKED BUST AND PUSSY SHOWING GIRLS. GETTING A GOOD GIRL IN LAGOS IS LIKE SEARCHING FOR A VIRGIN IN IKPODO AXIS OF IKEJA. YES I KNOW VILLAGE GIRLS AIN'T SAINTS BUT THEY STILL HAVE AFRICAN CULTURE IMBEDDED IN THEM PLUS THEIR EDUCATION. I CAN'T MARRY AN OWAMBE,ACHEBE SOWING LADY EVERY TIME.LOOKING LIKE A BARBIE DOLL WITH FAKE EYES, FAKE EYE LASHES,FAKE NAILS, FAKE BREAST FAKE ACCENT ETC.generalizations |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 5:06pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
quote author=Donalð Genes] hahahhahaahahahhaahahahaa you dey vex ni? [/quote] |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 5:12pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
Lordlexyy: What's your fancy baby? Marriage and child bearing are two very important factors that makes life complete. We all need it not for society sake but for our own fulfilment, it brings some measure of satisfaction if you have ever been there. I never said they were unimportant, just saying that it's not the ultimate reason for the existence of womankind. |
Re: Advice To All The Single Ladies In The House by Nobody: 5:13pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
sandijey:I know it sounds funny but it should be condemned. I still remember the very night I composed this write-up to assist some of my readers who do write me for relationship advice. I later reposted it on nairaland romance section of which the old regular visitors of romance section would bear witness to. Its just Sexkillz back then who was indirectly beefing me refused to move it to the front page. Days after I published this article on my blog, it went viral, a friend sent me a link where it was published on talkofnaija.com, naij, informationng, to name but a few and each of them keep claiming to be the original writer without referencing the source. Until u become victim of this, u won't really understand how painful it is. |
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