AdimGreat: This ladies talks is becoming unbecoming. Why ar u guys obsessed with ladies lately hun??

Um....they are complaining that there are no husbands

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Irokoroots:

Go and pick a house girl from your village and marry. She would cook and clean for you all day. She wouldnt know how to read, so you can be sure that she swouldnt spend all her time on bbm.

Idiot! Dont go and learn how to cook your own food and clean your house. People like you are the main reason women are not married not this bogus hullabaloo the OP copy and pasted.

Yet another Odenson.

jinkees: wetin carry you go find woman wey get masters degree for UK you should have gone to the village to look for your speck so that you guys can understand each other better because I doubt if that UK babe would understand this horrible grammer

And what makes a uk graduate more unique? If you have issues with the write up, then deal with it and don't find an excuse to lynch the dude. Only insecure people and those guilty of these would rather troll than make meaninful contribution. Pls don't pick offence, you know you are my sister.

jinkees: why are all you guys hatting on women all of a sudden? please if ur broke or heart broken dont bring the pain down on the women they re beautiful and wonderful creatures that makes the world complete it takes only a real man to realize that.

Where's the dislike button? BTW you sound so pained!

youngprofdguru: 1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn't like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.

Paul Agwu & Youngprofdguru.........

and everyone keeps reposting my work even without credit, gosh! Nigerians! I first published this on my blog last year after composing it one night like that and then re-posted it here on nairaland romance section...since then, I have encountered it on virtually all Nigerian websites, blogs and forums including facebook and every poster keep claiming to be the original writer, too bad of we Nigerians. This is intellectual stealing and its so disheartening to say, sighs

DailyNews: and everyone keeps reposting my work even without credit, gosh! Nigerians! I first published this on my blog last year after composing it one night like that and then re-posted it here on nairaland romance section...since then, I have encountered it on virtually all Nigerian websites, blogs and forums including facebook and every poster keep claiming to be the original writer, too bad of we Nigerians. This is intellectual stealing and its so disheartening to say, sighs

Hahahahahhahahahahahhahaha! Pele.......

Mr poster pls try and give credit to people for their intellectual work pls...its not cool at all to copy another person's intellectual work and re-post, claiming to be the original writer. I am sure many regular visitors on nairaland can still recall when I first published this article here and days later, it went viral from my blog to facebook, to all naija blogs, too bad I must say...its all good. But pls poster change for your own good.

HAVE YOU BEEN TO THESE PENTECOSTAL CHURCHES LATELY....IT'S ALL FILLED UP WITH OLD CARGOES AND DIVORCEE...TO BE HONEST MAJORITY OF SINGLE GIRLS AIN'T MARRIAGE MATERIALS CAN'T IMAGINE GETTING MARRIED TO THESE NAKED BUST AND PUSSY SHOWING GIRLS. GETTING A GOOD GIRL IN LAGOS IS LIKE SEARCHING FOR A VIRGIN IN IKPODO AXIS OF IKEJA. YES I KNOW VILLAGE GIRLS AIN'T SAINTS BUT THEY STILL HAVE AFRICAN CULTURE IMBEDDED IN THEM PLUS THEIR EDUCATION. I CAN'T MARRY AN OWAMBE,ACHEBE SOWING LADY EVERY TIME.LOOKING LIKE A BARBIE DOLL WITH FAKE EYES, FAKE EYE LASHES,FAKE NAILS, FAKE BREAST FAKE ACCENT ETC.


90% of lagos babes are friendship materials not a wife material. take a walk along street and see their nasty manners coupled with their empty brains

tonychristopher: HAVE YOU BEEN TO THESE PENTECOSTAL CHURCHES LATELY....IT'S ALL FILLED UP WITH OLD CARGOES AND DIVORCEE...TO BE HONEST MAJORITY OF SINGLE GIRLS AIN'T MARRIAGE MATERIALS CAN'T IMAGINE GETTING MARRIED TO THESE NAKED BUST AND PUSSY SHOWING GIRLS. GETTING A GOOD GIRL IN LAGOS IS LIKE SEARCHING FOR A VIRGIN IN IKPODO AXIS OF IKEJA. YES I KNOW VILLAGE GIRLS AIN'T SAINTS BUT THEY STILL HAVE AFRICAN CULTURE IMBEDDED IN THEM PLUS THEIR EDUCATION. I CAN'T MARRY AN OWAMBE,ACHEBE SOWING LADY EVERY TIME.LOOKING LIKE A BARBIE DOLL WITH FAKE EYES, FAKE EYE LASHES,FAKE NAILS, FAKE BREAST FAKE ACCENT ETC.


90% of lagos babes are friendship materials not a wife material. take a walk along street and see their nasty manners coupled with their empty brains

alpha conde: For those ladies who are saying they must get married this year. Just wanna inform them that Its just 2 saturdays left.

Bros abeg yarn d koko to all d ladies in 'A Thread For Single Ladies'. D year is gone already.

Lilimax: It is still very possible.

Anything can still happen

Possible in ur dream?

sandijey: In those days sir, how manyof our mothers went to school, how many of them worked? Most of our mothers were solely dependent on their husbands. That was why men could treat women however they wish, even when she knows her husband is cheating, she would still be blamed for not doing certain things and beg the man to come home! Mostof our mothers used to say, if not because of my children and I don't have money, I would have left your father a long time ago.

The situation of theeconomy has made women take up roles which are ordinarily for men, how do you tame a woman who is adding more or equal amount of money for the upkeep of the family. How is it possible for that's same woman to be a dutiful wife while taking care of the children, taking care of the home and taking care of her husband? Can u now see there is no correlation! There is no super woman anywhere! Something must lack. No insults please! Am just trying to be logical. If u want total control of a woman, make your wife a house wife and make bulk money! If not, get used to the kind of women out there! Times have changed, everything is different. The easy way out, marry your friend..............

I understand you perfectly, but generalization is always dangerous. Which way you look at it, our parental marriage has proven to be stable and enduring cos a lot of patience was injected to it which is what is lacking now as a result of woman empowerment and equality. If lasting marriage is what they (ladies) desire, then patience must be upheld. But if equality as detected by society is what they want, then get ready for divorce.

Ediss: MY people its true. There is this lady, MY God ! after all
HER socall degree which incloud a masters from UK she is still not a
wife materia she will be with HER phone day in day out and or spend all
HER time sleeping. B4 i talk One she will say bécus am working and she
is not working. She has never for once Cook for me or even clean MY
house. I just brack up with HER and never to go back. God will help me to get a goood wife

Bruv, ur 'engrish' has just caused me stomach-ache. Are u sure this wasn't why she behaved dat way just to 'brack' up wit u?

The problem here is that most Nigerian men believe the only reason women exist on earth is to get married and have children for them.

sandijey: In those days sir, how manyof our mothers went to school, how many of them worked? Most of our mothers were solely dependent on their husbands. That was why men could treat women however they wish, even when she knows her husband is cheating, she would still be blamed for not doing certain things and beg the man to come home! Mostof our mothers used to say, if not because of my children and I don't have money, I would have left your father a long time ago.

The situation of theeconomy has made women take up roles which are ordinarily for men, how do you tame a woman who is adding more or equal amount of money for the upkeep of the family. How is it possible for that's same woman to be a dutiful wife while taking care of the children, taking care of the home and taking care of her husband? Can u now see there is no correlation! There is no super woman anywhere! Something must lack. No insults please! Am just trying to be logical. If u want total control of a woman, make your wife a house wife and make bulk money! If not, get used to the kind of women out there! Times have changed, everything is different. The easy way out, marry your friend..............

I understand you perfectly, but generalization is always dangerous. Which way you look at it, our parental marriage has proven to be stable and enduring cos a lot of patience was injected to it which is what is lacking now as a result of woman empowerment and equality. If lasting marriage is what they (ladies) desire, then patience must be upheld. But if equality as detected by society is what they want, then get ready for divorce. If a relationship without trials is what you are anticipating, i wish you well. Beside, all things are possible.

1000 likes

youngprofdguru: 1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?

7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?

8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn't like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.

9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.

Paul Agwu & Youngprofdguru.........

100 trillion likes, infact for eternity. Low self esteem is d major reason why most women of these days are notin to write home about. They are alot of Pretty looking girls but just a few are beautiful because beauty means the inner part of a woman , even if she aint hot in appearance.
To get a good man to love a woman these days is just so difficult . Ladiez , shine ya eyes

You can open a thread about that, instead of barking like a rabid dog

jinkees: what is the head and tail of this dumb advise?? what of men that cheat on their wives and frustrate their lives after been married to them and these women end up heart broken miserable and devastated? many of them end up wishing they were never married .many women are miserable after the so called marriage. Does life begin after been married. you guys sound like marriage is the road to Heaven. abeg all this bull shit advise about marriage this and that. should go front A real man is a man that loves and understands his woman no mater not a man that wants a slave to cook clean while he is out their partying and having fun

my advise 2 dem iz dat dey shld al GO nd DIE.....atleast dey'll be lucky 2 win 2million:/my advise 2 dem iz dat dey shld al GO nd DIE.....atleast dey'll be lucky 2 win 2million:/my advise 2 dem iz dat dey shld al GO nd DIE.....atleast dey'll be lucky 2 win 2million:/

bannykel: Nice one but wat abt dos billionaires daughter's who are totally useless (sorry to say DAT) and still got nice, handsome & rich guys cos a Frnd of mine was one, we Neva tot she's gonna get a hubby but she got married b4 us all.

leave them make them dey rant

Lordlexyy: I understand you perfectly, but generalization is always dangerous. Which way you look at it, our parental marriage has proven to be stable and enduring cos a lot of patience was injected to it which is what is lacking now as a result of woman empowerment and equality. If lasting marriage is what they (ladies) desire, then patience must be upheld. But if equality as detected by society is what they want, then get ready for divorce.

I totally agree. I don't no if patience is learned or inborn but a lot of people are lacking it! And there are many things responsible for lack of patience. The fact that everybody wants quick cash, quick job, quick house, quick marriage, quick children! Nobody wants to be patient! The problem is deep mhen! Its proving difficult for people to keep up! At the end of the day, marrying a friend is just the best! Someone u can tell anything to, share anything wiv! If not..............

ITbomb: I thought it was another Dailynews utopian sermon

lmaooooooooooo

wallflower: The problem here is that most Nigerian men believe the only reason women exist on earth is to get married and have children for them.

What's your fancy baby? Marriage and child bearing are two very important factors that makes life complete. We all need it not for society sake but for our own fulfilment, it brings some measure of satisfaction if you have ever been there.

b.omolu:



You have said it all. Yet you forget the other ladies who actually do the opposite of all you have said. Yet Guys still leave them in chasing after the 'hot' and 'sexy' babes out there, claiming that they are boring. You should also enlighten guys about going for the right kind of women, because trust me hot and sexy ladies are getting married every Saturday, while the decent ones are still single.

I dont totally agree with you , besides if a guy marries you because you hot and sexy, what happens when you get older or he gets tired of it. He will look for another hot and sexy girl to replace you. Anyone can get married but the question remains dat marraige is not the end of your life or the world. Lots of marraiges crash these days because of self centeredness , but if you marry for true love, den its everlasting. A good man dat is ready to love is difficult these days because most girls are fake . Taiwan products

DailyNews: and everyone keeps reposting my work even without credit, gosh! Nigerians! I first published this on my blog last year after composing it one night like that and then re-posted it here on nairaland romance section...since then, I have encountered it on virtually all Nigerian websites, blogs and forums including facebook and every poster keep claiming to be the original writer, too bad of we Nigerians. This is intellectual stealing and its so disheartening to say, sighs

hahahhahaahahahhaahahahaa you dey vex ni?

Numba 3 is my greatest turn off in gals

DailyNews: and everyone keeps reposting my work even without credit, gosh! Nigerians! I first published this on my blog last year after composing it one night like that and then re-posted it here on nairaland romance section...since then, I have encountered it on virtually all Nigerian websites, blogs and forums including facebook and every poster keep claiming to be the original writer, too bad of we Nigerians. This is intellectual stealing and its so disheartening to say, sighs

hahahhahaahahahhaahahahaa you dey vex ni?

tonychristopher: HAVE YOU BEEN TO THESE PENTECOSTAL CHURCHES LATELY....IT'S ALL FILLED UP WITH OLD CARGOES AND DIVORCEE...TO BE HONEST MAJORITY OF SINGLE GIRLS AIN'T MARRIAGE MATERIALS CAN'T IMAGINE GETTING MARRIED TO THESE NAKED BUST AND PUSSY SHOWING GIRLS. GETTING A GOOD GIRL IN LAGOS IS LIKE SEARCHING FOR A VIRGIN IN IKPODO AXIS OF IKEJA. YES I KNOW VILLAGE GIRLS AIN'T SAINTS BUT THEY STILL HAVE AFRICAN CULTURE IMBEDDED IN THEM PLUS THEIR EDUCATION. I CAN'T MARRY AN OWAMBE,ACHEBE SOWING LADY EVERY TIME.LOOKING LIKE A BARBIE DOLL WITH FAKE EYES, FAKE EYE LASHES,FAKE NAILS, FAKE BREAST FAKE ACCENT ETC.


90% of lagos babes are friendship materials not a wife material. take a walk along street and see their nasty manners coupled with their empty brains

generalizations

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Lordlexyy: What's your fancy baby? Marriage and child bearing are two very important factors that makes life complete. We all need it not for society sake but for our own fulfilment, it brings some measure of satisfaction if you have ever been there.

I never said they were unimportant, just saying that it's not the ultimate reason for the existence of womankind.

sandijey:


Hahahahahhahahahahahhahaha! Pele.......

I know it sounds funny but it should be condemned. I still remember the very night I composed this write-up to assist some of my readers who do write me for relationship advice. I later reposted it on nairaland romance section of which the old regular visitors of romance section would bear witness to. Its just Sexkillz back then who was indirectly beefing me refused to move it to the front page.

Days after I published this article on my blog, it went viral, a friend sent me a link where it was published on talkofnaija.com, naij, informationng, to name but a few and each of them keep claiming to be the original writer without referencing the source.

Until u become victim of this, u won't really understand how painful it is.