5 Ways to Sky Rocket Your Success With Women.


Hi Nairalanders, I hail. It's xxxteddyxxx again.

This write up might contain some controversial viewpoints, but it's important to know that these viewpoints are what have worked for me over the years. You might not agree with some, but do not take them with levity. Inculcate them into your dating arsenal, and you will surely experience massive progress.

It is your job to get your dating life fixed. Nobody will do it for you. You can't continue doing the same thing, and be expecting different results. Success is not a destination, it's a journey. To begin with, here are five (5) ways you can sky rocket your success with women.

•1 Create the Right Emotions-

It is no news that women are emotional beings. To attract and to keep women attracted, you have to start thinking emotionally. For women, the concept of attraction is wholly emotional, not logical. That is why it is said that " men fall for what they see while women fall for what they hear".

So instead of asking: "How can I get her number," or "How can I get her to sleep with me," or " How can I get her to go out with me this weekend," ask " What are the unique attraction states I can get her into to make her go out with me?"

See for women it's all about states and how you make her feel. There are several attraction states you can create for women: Lust, Love, Laughter, Sadness, Feeling of Loss, Jealousy, Arousal, Trust, Comfort, Intimacy, Connection etc.

However, it is very important to create a balance. Making a girl feels only Lust and Arousal will backfire in the long run because you end up being tagged as a player or she gets to talk herself out of the whole interaction.

Also, making a woman happy all the time and giving her gifts without making her feel Lust, Love, or Arousal, will only turn you into a "Nice Guy". Do you know what happens to "Nice guys" when they try to stretch the interaction beyond the confines of friendship? They get the classic reply: " Can we just be friends," or " You are just like a big brother to me, let's just be friends."

The best stance is to give a woman a feeling of Lust, Arousal, Jealously while lacing it with feelings of Trust, Comfort and Connection.

•2 Act Like a BoyFriend From Day One.

You don't need a woman's permission to start acting like a boyfriend. Millions of years of evolutionary advancement have gifted women with unique traits of identifying men who are viable candidates for procreation. The stronger men had an array of women to choose from, while the weak men ( the modern day wussies) enjoy the leftovers. Thus, you must start acting like a boyfriend or showing your boyfriend potentials within the first few minutes of meeting a girl. If you don't, you risk ending up as a friend.

However, cautionary measures must be put in place, so you don't bring the past behaviour of other guys to the forefront of her memory. You must be unique in your approach.

Your approach must have a beginning, middle and a close. You don't start with "sister how you doing today," or "Can I know your name?" That's childish. You need to show the potentials of a boyfriend by calling her babe from the beginning. " Babe, I have seen you around a few times, but we haven't met," is better.

Never ask a girl out. It's better to act/behave like a boyfriend, and do all the things a boyfriend does from the beginning. If you ask, you have unknowingly lowered your chances of getting her. Chances are that, which is most often the case, she has a boyfriend but she just wants a fling or something new. Reminding her creates a feeling of guilt in her mind. If you have been showing some boyfriend potential from the beginning, you cant end with her as just a friend. Only nice guys who don't express their core desires go down that lonely road.

•3 Get Her to Invest.

The role of emotional investment in a relationship cannot be over-emphasised. By investment, I mean the little things ( the work you put in) you do to make relationship/convo/chat work or move forward.

Everything you put into a relationship to make it work: your finances, showing you care, buying of gifts, sending airtime, and even little things like starting a chat/sending your photos ( whether she asks or not) falls under the canopy of investment.

However, it is crucially to know that the one who invests less is the one in control of the relationship. Do you always make the calls, buy her gifts, send airtime, do her undeserved favours to move your relationship forward, while she does nothing? You are the one making all the moves to get to her, while she is relaxed, doing nothing. This kind of relationship can drain you, and make your life a living hell. Runaway from it.

For women, the biggest investment is Sex, and getting a woman to give you are greatest investment is not magic. As far as you carefully balance emotional states as outlined in step 1, you are good to go. Don't be surprised when she sends you airtime, bombards you with calls, sends you a naughty photo, or tells you she is ho***ny.

•4 Only Reward Her When She Deserves It.

To make a girl invest more in you, you must reward her efforts. Rewarding her efforts instinctively creates a Pavlovian response in her, putting her in a position to do more for you. Trust me, most women are caring and nice, and they would go a long way to please you. Though, they are exceptions.

It's important to know that women are emotional beings. They need to be pushed emotionally before they can act. When a girl is not giving you the right behavioural response, it means her emotional states (Step 1) are not carefully balanced. That is why it is very crucial you note the thing a girl does to move the interaction/relationship/forward.

Reward the little things she does. Give her a chance to invest too. Don't do all the work. If you see her calls, pick it and answer. Stop playing Mr Nice guy: " Oh, she is calling me, I will miss the call and call her back, " or picking the call and saying: " Baby, let me call you back". When you behave this way, you limit her chances of investing.

Reward her with a call, after she has called you too. Don't be a wussy nice guy, who keeps calling and calling, yet she hasn't called you once. Don't send her airtime/gifts/shoes etc when you know she is not treating you with respect. When a girl doesn't value you, and you keep buying her nice things, you limit your respect, and you become predictable in her eyes. Consequently, she would give you fake attitudes, because she knows you would end up calling to resolve issues and buying her gifts.

•5 Always Look Good and Stay Busy.

Lastly, it's important you always look good. Do you know the amount of effort women put into themselves to look good? You need to start doing the same too. You need to change some things about yourself.

You don't like your body? Change it. Visit the gym, do some workouts.

You don't like your finances? Change it. Work more. Start a business, get a job, start blogging, graphics, etc.

You don't like the way you dress? Change it. Get some new clothes, shoes, caps etc. Take some new photos.

You don't like your life? Change it. Travel, go see a live show, learn to play a new instrument, write poetry, exercise, write music etc. Live life and be happy.

Always stay busy and have a life outside women. No one likes a man who stays online or in the streets 24 hours looking for new girls to lay. You are better than that. Women love to hear you are busy.


In summary.
•Give her different emotional states.
•Act like a boyfriend from the beginning.
•Get her to invest.
•Only reward her when she deserves it
•Look good, Live Life.

Incultating these 5 tips will surely sky rocket your chances with women. Don't forget, you cant be doing the same thing, and be expecting different results from women.

Other notable mentions not listed here are: Making her Laugh, Having an Abundance Mindset, Anger Management, Transitioning, Becoming Unpredictable, Making Her Miss You, and Stop Being Desperate.


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temizeee:
you probably pushed her away by being desperate for sx bro.. U don't need to force her to have sex with you.......u should av given her more time to feel secure with you, trust you(use more future projection tin) ... Acting like yr life
depends on sex wil turn most girls off.

Dope Bro....U 2 gbasky

Oga tedy i hail o. There is one girl i'm dating, but i have dated her cousin before unfortunately she got aware and she asks for break up. But i tried to explain to her but she is still adamant though she still talks and laughs with me sha but still firm on her decision. What should id o??

pls op,i ve this gal that i was dating before,actually the relationship did not long when i discovered that this gal was later avoiding me due to some mistakes that i made the day she came to visit me in ma aos.
i ask her a stupid question that ruins ma chance of bleeping her that day,the question was "do you ve a boyfriend". she first denied,but later she admitted that she has and she even went as far as mentioning the name of the guy which turn_out to be my neighbour in hostel,out of my stupidity i even admitted that i kno the guy,so since that day she has been avoiding me,if i called her she will not pick my call or return the call which was unusual.so i later note that she just want to flirt wth me(free bleeping things)but i jeopardize everything as a result of the stupid question.these happened last year,now i ve got her nbr back and she has been picking my calls.Now the question is,how do i fully gain her attention back like previously,cus i cannot just let her escape my bleeping

isaacsegun:
pls op,i ve this gal that i was dating before,actually the relationship did not long when i discovered that this gal was later avoiding me due to some mistakes that i made the day she came to visit me in ma aos.
i ask her a stupid question that ruins ma chance of bleeping her that day,the question was "do you ve a boyfriend". she first denied,but later she admitted that she has and she even went as far as mentioning the name of the guy which turn_out to be my neighbour in hostel,out of my stupidity i even admitted that i kno the guy,so since that day she has been avoiding me,if i called her she will not pick my call or return the call which was unusual.so i later note that she just want to flirt wth me(free bleeping things)but i jeopardize everything as a result of the stupid question.these happened last year,now i ve got her nbr back and she has been picking my calls.Now the question is,how do i fully gain her attention back like previously,cus i cannot just let her escape my bleeping

you don't need to ask a girl about who she's dating since you wanna date her too..... You should have just carry on with your game, even if another guy call her in your presence don react to it at all it will make her wonder y u re not jealous....if you play your cards well she will dump her boyfriend cuz u re not bugging her like other guys do
Asking her if she has boyfriend even if she does have makes her feel guilty(like she's cheating on him).... Damn! You even said admt u know her boyfriend..... Position yourself as the girl for a moment u will definitely loss interest na
Ma advice is to move on... There are more girls outdere, reversing a mistake like this is almost impossible.
Go awt there n have fun with more girls bro.

temizeee:
you don't need to ask a girl about who she's dating since you wanna date her too..... You should have just carry on with your game, even if another guy call her in your presence don react to it at all it will make her wonder y u re not jealous....if you play your cards well she will dump her boyfriend cuz u re not bugging her like other guys do
Asking her if she has boyfriend even if she does have makes her feel guilty(like she's cheating on him).... Damn! You even said admt u know her boyfriend..... Position yourself as the girl for a moment u will definitely loss interest na
Ma advice is to move on... There are more girls outdere, reversing a mistake like this is almost impossible.
Go awt there n have fun with more girls bro.

thanks @op

Gee pls, can u tell me more that rapport stage? also about convo topics or question examples cos i its awkward whenever i runout of words while chatting with a girl i like. i'm a little bit shy sha, Dat i admit. Thanks
*waiting for ur reply bro*

Hi everyone, big WELL-DONE to the op(xtedy nd others try to help)

av being following this thread since 2015 september, and never posted or comment.. I choosed to be silent..

Now turns to my turn i need help..

There is this lady i know through a friend of her, i told her friend that am kind of feeling somehow for this lady picture, she said i should go for her, she gave me her all details, the girl studing in uniben 200level,

she also gave me her username on facebook.. I decided to chat her up on facebook, after 3 weeks of sending hr msg,she replied.. Then i let her known that i am friend of her friend,she calm she said okay..

Now that my friend got back to school today nd calld me this nite dat she had xplained nd even said positive things about me to her,but she stil refusing due to her last relationship,that she had made up her mind not to date a guy till next 3 years... Guys help..

Remember i wanna start with her on facebook.

Get her attention!

And start calling her!

She myt even be on this thread self...

InLuvWithChrist:
Hi everyone, big WELL-DONE to the op(xtedy nd others try to help)

av being following this thread since 2015 september, and never posted or comment.. I choosed to be silent..

Now turns to my turn i need help..

There is this lady i know through a friend of her, i told her friend that am kind of feeling somehow for this lady picture, she said i should go for her, she gave me her all details, the girl studing in uniben 200level,

she also gave me her username on facebook.. I decided to chat her up on facebook, after 3 weeks of sending hr msg,she replied.. Then i let her known that i am friend of her friend,she calm she said okay..

Now that my friend got back to school today nd calld me this nite dat she had xplained nd even said positive things about me to her,but she stil refusing due to her last relationship,that she had made up her mind not to date a guy till next 3 years... Guys help..

Remember i wanna start with her on facebook.

Get her attention!

And start calling her!

She myt even be on this thread self...

Nice honest move. Your mutual friend has made things a little easier for you. You already know where to focus on...and that's Trust.

Trust plays a crucial role when it comes to dating. If a girl doesn't trust you, she won't stra.ff you. I mean normal girls, not oloshos.

You need not rush her based on relationship, love ish. Just focus on being a bf...without her permission. Assume you are dating her already. Don't ask her out biko. That shi...t is old school.

Don't talk relationship...Or love. Your focus should be fun chats, getting her number, and moving to whatsapp. Everything will be easy if you act like you know her already. be friendly, and she is yours.

bazestop:
Gee pls, can u tell me more that rapport stage? also about convo topics or question examples cos i its awkward whenever i runout of words while chatting with a girl i like. i'm a little bit shy sha, Dat i admit. Thanks
*waiting for ur reply bro*

if you can master the art of Transitioning, you will never experience problems when conversing with a chick. Rapport stage comes after stage 1. Rapport face is getting to know the babe deeeply, getting to know each other better.

Most guys miss out on this because they always put it as stage 1- which ULTIMATELY TAKES them down the friendzone path.

for examples and questions, read pages 4-9. I have given out lots of examples already. I am glad you are trying to get this area of your life fixed.

temizeee:
you don't need to ask a girl about who she's dating since you wanna date her too..... You should have just carry on with your game, even if another guy call her in your presence don react to it at all it will make her wonder y u re not jealous....if you play your cards well she will dump her boyfriend cuz u re not bugging her like other guys do
Asking her if she has boyfriend even if she does have makes her feel guilty(like she's cheating on him).... Damn! You even said admt u know her boyfriend..... Position yourself as the girl for a moment u will definitely loss interest na
Ma advice is to move on... There are more girls outdere, reversing a mistake like this is almost impossible.
Go awt there n have fun with more girls bro.

Salute Bro... YOU DOpe.

Omuka:
Oga tedy i hail o. There is one girl i'm dating, but i have dated her cousin before unfortunately she got aware and she asks for break up. But i tried to explain to her but she is still adamant though she still talks and laughs with me sha but still firm on her decision. What should id o??

free the girl and let her go.

She will only end up wasting your time.

Lots of hot girls are out there waiting to meet you, Y limit yourself?

xxxtedyxxx:


Nice honest move. Your mutual friend has made things a little easier for you. You already know where to focus on...and that's Trust.

Trust plays a crucial role when it comes to dating. If a girl doesn't trust you, she won't stra.ff you. I mean normal girls, not oloshos.

You need not rush her based on relationship, love ish. Just focus on being a bf...without her permission. Assume you are dating her already. Don't ask her out biko. That shi...t is old school.

Don't talk relationship...Or love. Your focus should be fun chats, getting her number, and moving to whatsapp. Everything will be easy if you act like you know her already. be friendly, and she is yours.

whao! she actually gave me her numbr yestrday to chat her on whatsapp,

she z nt used to facebook chatting..

Thanks man, i think she'z giving me more attention nw..

xxxtedyxxx:


free the girl and let her go.

She will only end up wasting your time.

Lots of hot girls are out there waiting to meet you, Y limit yourself?

thanks bro

InLuvWithChrist:

whao! she actually gave me her numbr yestrday to chat her on whatsapp,

she z nt used to facebook chatting..

Thanks man, i think she'z giving me more attention nw..

cool...nice to know...

just don't get boring and predictable.

stay scarce sometimes.

Remember, don't ever ask her out. don't ever ask her to be your Gf, and don't ever ask about her past relationships.

Allow her to bring up these things herself. For the mean time....just act like a bf. You don't need her permission to behave or act that way.

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nice job u doing tedd... big ups!! my ish is the straffin part.. i dont know how to persist when they resist. dunno if theres any strategy or steps that will minimize resistance. thanks

Oh my world!! Doff my hat for you bro.. I learned a lot already. Only I kinda have a mindset, don't know if it's a problem really.

I'm much of a logical being, always subconsciously weighing value got against value given even in conversations with ladies so most times I come across as bossy rather than caring or subtle like ladies prefer.
Then, I tend to have a sense of appropriateness. Like paraventure I get an inkling that a prospect has a bf, my brain just begins to tell me it's not fair to the bro or I wouldn't want such to happen to me. Subconsciously, I cut off.
Generally, I also find going through all of these hassles very unnecessary , like having to read all your insightful tips so I can up my dating game or a lady playing hard to get etc.

I think I lost the emotional touch of me. I wana know what you think

wow..nice job bro...

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temizeee:
you don't need to ask a girl about who she's dating since you wanna date her too..... You should have just carry on with your game, even if another guy call her in your presence don react to it at all it will make her wonder y u re not jealous....if you play your cards well she will dump her boyfriend cuz u re not bugging her like other guys do
Asking her if she has boyfriend even if she does have makes her feel guilty(like she's cheating on him).... Damn! You even said admt u know her boyfriend..... Position yourself as the girl for a moment u will definitely loss interest na
Ma advice is to move on... There are more girls outdere, reversing a mistake like this is almost impossible.
Go awt there n have fun with more girls bro.

And you call yourself a pick up artist..tjis advice is so lame getting her back is very possible.. All these wannabes sef

xxxtedyxxx:

•2 Act Like a BoyFriend From Day One.

You don't need a woman's permission to start acting like a boyfriend. Millions of years of evolutionary advancement have gifted women with unique traits of identifying men who are viable candidates for procreation. The stronger men had an array of women to choose from, while the weak men ( the modern day wussies) enjoy the leftovers. Thus, you must start acting like a boyfriend or showing your boyfriend potentials within the first few minutes of meeting a girl. If you don't, you risk ending up as a friend.

However, cautionary measures must be put in place, so you don't bring the past behaviour of other guys to the forefront of her memory. You must be unique in your approach.

Your approach must have a beginning, middle and a close. You don't start with "sister how you doing today," or "Can I know your name?" That's childish. You need to show the potentials of a boyfriend by calling her babe from the beginning. " Babe, I have seen you around a few times, but we haven't met," is better.

Never ask a girl out. It's better to act/behave like a boyfriend, and do all the things a boyfriend does from the beginning. If you ask, you have unknowingly lowered your chances of getting her. Chances are that, which is most often the case, she has a boyfriend but she just wants a fling or something new. Reminding her creates a feeling of guilt in her mind. If you have been showing some boyfriend potential from the beginning, you cant end with her as just a friend. Only nice guys who don't express their core desires go down that lonely road.

WACK!!

thesuave10:

WACK!!

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