I'm proud of my hair to but, kinky. . . well that i can't have. I'm sorry but i like my hair nice and permed.

Good for you.

Perm, straight, whatever: you are free to do whatever you want. As long as you look good.

I've done perm and all that jazz, didn't work too well for me.

madamkoko:


No i'm saying that Men who think similar to those referred in the post are intimidated. Why would should a human being say, I'm not dating this person because they've been abroad for more than 5 years, it is someone's fault that they came abroad for their education. I don't know. (examining Nigeria's bad educational structure)

How come its ok for the Men to be abroad and not the women? such nonsense

Point being: as long as you keep your values and acknowledge the importance of your culture. Being abroad and or not being abroad doesn't make you more or less Nigerian.

Thanks.  Now, don't you agree that so many of those girls are not being sought after because they have lost the values of their culture?  Soon as they jand they want to overdoo the oyinbo themselves.

HCH3COO:

Why    What have you observed  

Well i have noticed guys born in naija who come aboard have this perception on the Naija girls who were raised/born aboard.

$$Rhino:

jamo = jamaican babes

Cos lots of our babes want to be like then, meanwhile most jamo boys would do anything to marry a nija babe.
Anyhow, nothing like a nigerian woman with nice onion ass

Well there aint that many Jamaicans where i live but i doubt i would want to be like them. Ha ha onion, more like . . .

i didnt know abroad was a place.

in abroad, what the

onyinye2:

Well i have noticed guys born in naija who come aboard have this perception on the Naija girls who were raised/born aboard.

What perception   Stop halving your sentence.

Gamine:

i didnt know abroad was a place.

in abroad, what the

koshi jade if you have nothing better to add. olodo

madamkoko:


Good for you.

Perm, straight, whatever: you are free to do whatever you want. As long as you look good.

I've done perm and all that jazz,  didn't work too well for me.

Yeah and i have tried the whole natural thing too. But it got to the point that i was breaking combs and it was just yuck.

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HCH3COO:

What perception   Stop halving your sentence.

Dont tell me what to do. Im just saying they think that oh we are spoiled and yada yada

The truth of the matter is that most naija girls abroad are considered hustlers,if u catch my meaning.Naija guys biliv they're only in a r/shp 4 wat they can get out of it & send to their families bak home,so they avoid them like the plague.

cold:

The truth of the matter is that most naija girls abroad are considered hustlers,if u catch my meaning.Naija guys biliv they're only in a r/shp 4 what they can get out of it & send to their families bak home,so they avoid them like the plague.

May i ask where these stereotypes are coming from?? was it something on naija babe did??

I think the Nigerian girls abroad get caught in the dilemma of too worlds (the western and the Nigerian); they adapt to the new society; which makes the Nigerian guys scared that girls are unstable and thus choose going back to Nigeria, I do not support this, but what can they do?

onyinye2:

Dont tell me what to do.

You don't have to get all hotheaded over being asked to jot full sentences.  I'm not a mind reader.

I'm just saying they think that oh we are spoiled and yada yada

Are you  

Oracle14:

I think the Nigerian girls abroad get caught in the dilemma of too worlds (the western and the Nigerian); they adapt to the new society; which makes the Nigerian guys scared that girls are unstable and thus choose going back to Nigeria,  I do not support this, but what can they do?

I wonder why folk feel this way. I mean i got the best of both worlds. Both Nigeria and The States.

Oracle14:

I think the Nigerian girls abroad get caught in the dilemma of too worlds (the western and the Nigerian); they adapt to the new society; which makes the Nigerian guys scared that girls are unstable and thus choose going back to Nigeria, I do not support this, but what can they do?

and sometimes, i blame our family back home, cos the kinda pressure that is put on anyone abroad, will make a good girl gone wild

onyinye2:

I wonder why folk feel this way. I mean i got the best of both worlds. Both Nigeria and The States.

How did you get the best of both worlds

$$Rhino:

and sometimes, i blame our family back home, because the kind of pressure that is put on anyone abroad, will make a good girl gone wild

Pressure makes good girl go bad? What sort of pressure is this, do you mind explaining

Water boy, i am not spoiled at all. I have had to work hard for everything.

$$Rhino:

and sometimes, i blame our family back home, because the kind of pressure that is put on anyone abroad, will make a good girl gone wild

Pressure ke?

Different strokes for different strokes. I ques some people find it

difficult to adapt to changing enviroment.

How many times do they have to call her from back home for her to send money, some babes that just land from nija, 3 weeks after that, the father is calling her that, he wanna take chieftancy title and we all know what that means, so u think pressure like that wont make a good girl go wild and bad?

HCH3COO:

How did you get the best of both worlds

I got to experience both cultures

onyinye2:

I got to experience both cultures

Through being born to Nigerian parents? Or because your Nigerian parents implemented Nigerian culture in your home and exposed you to the way Nigerians live or because you see it? Seeing is not enough.

onyinye2:

I wonder why folk feel this way. I mean i got the best of both worlds. Both Nigeria and The States.

don't mind them
our very own hotfunmi aka redhotchic already gave a diagnosis that I agree with.
some of our Nigerian men have nothing but ordinary akamu aka ogi in their balls.
In Igboland we call them efulefu

$$Rhino:

How many times do they have to call her from back home for her to send money, some babes that just land from nija, 3 weeks after that, the father is calling her that, he want to take chieftancy title and we all know what that means, so u think pressure like that wont make a good girl go wild and bad?

How does that make a good girl go bad    you mean she turns into a ho because money is being demanded from her  

Queenisha:

don't mind them
our very own hotfunmi aka redhotchic already gave a diagnosis that I agree with.
some of our Nigerian men have nothing but ordinary  akamu in their balls.
In Igboland we call them efulefu

Cheiii, you wicked small oh, u mean they aint got nothing going for them? haba

Queenisha:

don't mind them
our very own hotfunmi aka redhotchic already gave a diagnosis that I agree with.
some of our Nigerian men have nothing but ordinary  akamu in their balls.
In Igboland we call them efulefu

Ha ha, efulefu!!!

HCH3COO:

Through being born to Nigerian parents?  Or because your Nigerian parents implemented Nigerian culture in your home and exposed you to the way Nigerians live  or because you see it?  Seeing is not enough.

Yes my parents implemented Nigerian culture in your home, in our life, in our school work, everything. And i grew up in an area that was mostly nigerian people.

Yeah and i have tried the whole natural thing too. But it got to the point that i was breaking combs and it was just yuck.

LoL @ breaking combs.

madamkoko:

LoL @ breaking combs.

Every new comb i would buy, i would break it, bend it, deform it. I just had enough and was like perm my hair from root to tip.

$$Rhino:

How many times do they have to call her from back home for her to send money, some babes that just land from nija, 3 weeks after that, the father is calling her that, he want to take chieftancy title and we all know what that means, so u think pressure like that wont make a good girl go wild and bad?

The guys family is calling too demanding for money calls from Nigerian to send money will never end from both man and woman

people jus say stuff without being perfectly sure n in da process, givin oda people a bad name. actually nigerian guys abroad jus use da girls, whether white, black or wateva 2 get wat they want not realli because the wanna b wid them or they luv them so pls there's absolutely nuin wrong wid girls abroad n moreova, errbdy gat diff. preferences n sum guys will prefer a girl straight 4rm hme.

$$Rhino:

Cheiii, you wicked small oh, u mean they aint got nothing going for them? haba

LOL
someone earlier said Nigerian men preferred to go home and marry.
Who wants a man with inferiority complex anyway?
Let them run to Njikoka and Akagbe and bring those "pure" wives.
what's my own