I guess naljiah07 summed up the thread for all of us.

Hannibal:

DaPhoenix n Onyinye. . . . . .Stop this childish kizzacks.

From all I have read, onyinye hasnt done anything wrong.

Dont know why they are getting on her case

Especially Daphoenix.

onyinye actually tried to be friendly about it all but not Daphoenix.

For goodness sake she wouldnt like to go down on anyone. Thats her opinion.

She shouldnt be crucified or called childish for that.

Its even commendable that she isnt trying to please anyone by joining the bandwagon.

Back to the topic:
1)When you look at couples with their babies with a deeper longing and interest.
2)When you start feeling awkward going to buy food outside.(Something u used to do with ease).
(3) When everyone around you starts calling u uncle(even those that shouldnt).
(4) When people greet you with "how is the family?" .
(5) When you attend up to 5 weddings in a row(all your friends). There are others but these pointers will do for now.

why is this adetrop something spamming my blog convo? he thinks i have slept innit, am still awake ooo, so man beware, !!///lol

When he is physically,mentally,spiritually & financially ready

u've all spoken well. it is good that a man be financially buoyant. however, that only does not make him eligible for marriage. it is often said that experience coms with exposure while maturity comes not necessarily with age. i believe that emotional stability, right motive, etc are more tenable.

a man is ready to get married when he can personally decide to do so. simple

1) When he is ready to begin his suffering OR

2) When he is mental OR

3) When he has the 5C's OR

4) When he really really REALLY loves the lady RARE

when he is discipline, mature to marry,have source of income(money)and Miss right is available

When he is ready to face charges n responsibilities

When he is ready to face charges n responsibilities.

when he has no other choice than to marry

A guy should be ready to marry when he is a MAN i.e. when he would be capable of meeting the wife, children, family's e.tc. needs in the Morning, Afternoon & Night.

M---------Morning
A---------Afternoon
N---------Night

M thankful for this topic though m getting a bit confused.

My boyfriend has a great sense of responsibility. He is someone you could call a family man. The way he treats people and even children, is a wonder to me.

He is ready to get married but the thing is that the money is not there yet. He works hard though but finacially, he is not ready yet to carry on responsibilities.

I have dated him for like 3 years now but then, i wasn't ready for marriage. I was giving him time thinking that by the time i am ready atleast he would have been settled financially. Now i am ready and he still isn't.

When i say financially ready, i dont mean he should own the world, but basics and a steady job or business that he does. He should to an extent take care of the wife and the children that would come.

He would still make it tho but i musnt have to wait. There is a time to everything, that's what i believe.

RIght now, i want to work out of the relationship cos honestly m getting tired of the whole thing.

Crucify me all you want but i need some honest advice. Thanx.

when he knows where the pussyhole is and can produce sperms capable of making babies!

_{now no one should crucify me!}

Tommorrow is always the best time to marry.

i see a lot of people on this thread relating a man's readiness to marry to financial stability- i absolutely disagree!!  Does that in essence mean that all the married people we see around are financially stable? absolutely not!! financial stability is relative, i would rather say a man is ready to marry when he finds a suitable and compatible mate while having a  reasonable source of income.

Does that in essence mean that all the married people we see around are financially stable?

Ask them ooo. like their father was b4 he married.

[size=24pt]A guy is ready to marry when he is ready to have a family[/size].

When he knows he can handle responsibilities in all cost

A guy is ready for marriage when He is able to think of the Future ahead of him after marriage

When he's fully loaded then he can settle down with any b*t*h that comes along.You know the saying "No money no Honey"

dante01:

When he's fully loaded then he can settle down with any b*t*h that comes along.You know the saying "No money no Honey"

Word

when he,he,he,infact cant say

when his mother brings a damsel from the village as wife. 

when he can go on all night
and get up in the morning
with a smile on the wifes' face.

Back to the topic:
1)When you look at couples with their babies with a deeper longing and interest.
2)When you start feeling awkward going to buy food outside.(Something u used to do with ease).
(3) When everyone around you starts calling u uncle(even those that shouldnt).
(4) When people greet you with "how is the family?" .
(5) When you attend up to 5 weddings in a row(all your friends). There are others but these pointers will do for now.


yes i like this, true talk.

A guy is ready to get married when he is matured enough to do so and has made up his mind to do so.That of course is after he has seen the lady of his dreams.

When he get the Approver from God.

ozigbo:

When he get the Approver from God.

[b][/b]God is NOT married to anyone.
He never enforces MARRIAGE to anyone. Even Apostle Paul claimed it is BETTER NOT TO EVER GET MARRIED.

the best day to get married is "TOMORROW"

A man is ready to marry when he must hav finished building up himself.
And off course u can only build up urself with God's Word. Build a nice carreer.
While he/she is still single, its the best time to spend time and build ur life, hav plan for ur future and work on that.
Build up ur speed in life and remain there.
One cannot marry before planning for the future.
That can't work!

whao